Dating an SP?

vanperb · Dec 26, 2021

I'm not actually asking the question. It's been a while since I saw someone post that question and I got a bit of nostalgia.

MB Mod · Dec 26, 2021

If you’re that bored there’s an Ancient Aliens marathon on H2.

vanperb · Dec 26, 2021

MB Mod said:
If you’re that bored there’s an Ancient Aliens marathon on H2.

Ooooo and Witcher Season 2 is out too! Good call.

haigum141 · Dec 26, 2021

Great compilation to be honest and this should be stickied IMO as some kind of megathread on this “FAQ”

Real Sonny Burnett · Dec 26, 2021

It’s about time we had a “dating an sp” thread.

Yours truly,
“Have you ever seen an sp in public?”

PuntMeister · Dec 26, 2021

I actually enjoyed the novelty of posting a ‘done-to-death’ thread with all the body count layed out on the steps of the Perbistrate for all to gawk at.

Andrew69913 · Jan 1, 2022

This is still pretty fresh for me, and I can't talk about it anywhere else so here goes....I dated one for around a year that I met on PoF. I didn't have a clue and she never told me. Pretty sure she wasn't active through most of the relationship as we just spent way too much time together, like every night, but I can't be sure. She had money issues, as did I, but who doesn't from time to time. She certainly must have had a few clients towards the end as I knew she was up to something. She disappeared for a weekend with "friends" , which was unusual, and was a totally different person when she got back. Not to mention I recently found a review of her from around the end of our relationship. Now I just saw her ad up on LL again. I'm a certainly angry about the safety aspect of not telling me but that's not what hurts the most. I know she's a responsible person in that respect. Questioning whether anything of what we had was real or not is the worst part, but I'll live. Anyway, I'm still kind of digesting all of this but felt the need to get it off my chest somewhere. Maybe I'll return to this, but probably not lol.....

Andrew69913 · Jan 1, 2022

Andrew69913 said:
This is still pretty fresh for me, and I can't talk about it anywhere else so here goes....I dated one for around a year that I met on PoF. I didn't have a clue and she never told me. Pretty sure she wasn't active through most of the relationship as we just spent way too much time together, like every night, but I can't be sure. She had money issues, as did I, but who doesn't from time to time. She certainly must have had a few clients towards the end as I knew she was up to something. She disappeared for a weekend with "friends" , which was unusual, and was a totally different person when she got back. Not to mention I recently found a review of her from around the end of our relationship. Now I just saw her ad up on LL again. I'm a certainly angry about the safety aspect of not telling me but that's not what hurts the most. I know she's a responsible person in that respect. Questioning whether anything of what we had was real or not is the worst part, but I'll live. Anyway, I'm still kind of digesting all of this but felt the need to get it off my chest somewhere. Maybe I'll return to this, but probably not lol.....

oh yeah I almost forgot, to mention for those who were wondering, of course the sex was amazing, free-spirited, mind blowing, few times in a life time if your lucky kind of sex.

1518 · Jan 2, 2022

Funny story and I can only share it here since we are all anonymous. A close friend of mine posted a picture with his girlfriend he's been seeing for a year. It was the first pic he's shared of them on social media and it looks like they are pretty serious. I knew the girl looked familiar and it was bugging me. After a few days of it gnawing at my brain, it hit me. She is a fairly new but well reviewed SP. She posts face pics in her ads so I was able to look them up and compare and sure enough it's the same person. Did he meet her while pooning and they fell in love? Did he meet her elsewhere and has no idea she's an escort? Is he paying her to be his girlfriend (he make very good money). So many thoughts are rushing through my head lol. I can't talk about this to anyone because I obviously don't want anyone to know I see escorts, I don't want anyone to find out she's an escort (if they don't already know) and I don't want anyone to find out I've seen her for a session, especially my friend. I absolutely will not be repeating with her and I wish them well lol 😬

angry anderson · Jan 2, 2022

1518 said:
Funny story and I can only share it here since we are all anonymous. A close friend of mine posted a picture with his girlfriend he's been seeing for a year. It was the first pic he's shared of them on social media and it looks like they are pretty serious. I knew the girl looked familiar and it was bugging me. After a few days of it gnawing at my brain, it hit me. She is a fairly new but well reviewed SP. She posts face pics in her ads so I was able to look them up and compare and sure enough it's the same person. Did he meet her while pooning and they fell in love? Did he meet her elsewhere and has no idea she's an escort? Is he paying her to be his girlfriend (he make very good money). So many thoughts are rushing through my head lol. I can't talk about this to anyone because I obviously don't want anyone to know I see escorts, I don't want anyone to find out she's an escort (if they don't already know) and I don't want anyone to find out I've seen her for a session, especially my friend. I absolutely will not be repeating with her and I wish them well lol 😬

Chuckerbie · Jan 2, 2022

Or the opposite.
What bums me out is when your favourite SP stops seeing you cause she’s got a boy friend now. It has happened a few times. I should be happy for them. Nothing last forever in this hobby especially.
Still a bummer though.

blakealridge · Jan 2, 2022

Chuckerbie said:
Or the opposite.
What bums me out is when your favourite SP stops seeing you cause she’s got a boy friend now. It has happened a few times. I should be happy for them. Nothing last forever in this hobby especially.
Still a bummer though.

This is SUCH a bummer because usually she's giving up her career for a man who can't even give her half what she was making. I dated a captain save-a-whore once because he guilted me into quitting for him; ended up covered in bruises. NEVER AGAIN will a date a man who tries to control any aspect of my life.

Chuckerbie · Jan 2, 2022

CharleeBeckett said:
This is SUCH a bummer because usually she's giving up her career for a man who can't even give her half what she was making. I dated a captain save-a-whore once because he guilted me into quitting for him; ended up covered in bruises. NEVER AGAIN will a date a man who tries to control any aspect of my life.

One MP told me she couldn’t give me the extras I was accustomed to as she now has a boy friend. He was ok with a handy but nothing else. So he said. He then started to call her a slut and whore. Nice boyfriend hey, that relationship did not stand a chance.

Andrew69913 · Jan 2, 2022

CharleeBeckett said:
This is SUCH a bummer because usually she's giving up her career for a man who can't even give her half what she was making. I dated a captain save-a-whore once because he guilted me into quitting for him; ended up covered in bruises. NEVER AGAIN will a date a man who tries to control any aspect of my life.

Sounds like your choice in partners was about as good as mine was lol. In a proper relationship both sides have to understand and accept they will be making sacrifices for each other. It's just one of the many facets that make up this thing we label as love. Others being respect, honesty, trust, etc. We obviously we NOT loved. I may not have physical bruises, but reading reviews that talk about how she tells them pretty much the exact same thing in bed that she was telling me for a year definitely hurts because I actually believed it came from an emotional place. I feel I wasted a year of life on something that was never real to begin with. I have this urge to confront her and ask wtf? However, I know that will also be a waste of time so whatever, her life is hard enough already, but god damn lol. In the end I'm glad we both got away, at the same time I'm sad my trust in others is the ultimate victim.

1518 · Jan 2, 2022

CharleeBeckett said:
This is SUCH a bummer because usually she's giving up her career for a man who can't even give her half what she was making. I dated a captain save-a-whore once because he guilted me into quitting for him; ended up covered in bruises. NEVER AGAIN will a date a man who tries to control any aspect of my life.

That's absolutely horrible! I had a partner for 9 years. we were open and free to do as we wish. We had zero control over each other's lives. I can't imagine telling a woman what she can and can't do with her life and body. The only reason we are not together is that we simply changed over 9 years and became incompatible. Broke up on good terms. We still talk and hang out. Whoever I meet next will be treated the same. If wants to be an escort I'd support it.

Andrew69913 · Jan 7, 2022

1518 said:
That's absolutely horrible! I had a partner for 9 years. we were open and free to do as we wish. We had zero control over each other's lives. I can't imagine telling a woman what she can and can't do with her life and body. The only reason we are not together is that we simply changed over 9 years and became incompatible. Broke up on good terms. We still talk and hang out. Whoever I meet next will be treated the same. If wants to be an escort I'd support it.

I completely agree. Of course, being honest, my situation hurt my pride a little when I found out, but I took a good look in the mirror and came back to reality quite fast. I am a brother and a son, and I would never tell a woman what she can and can't do with her own life. I cared a great deal about this woman and I still do. I sincerely wish her the happiness.

1518 · Jan 7, 2022

Andrew69913 said:
I completely agree. Of course, being honest, my situation hurt my pride a little when I found out, but I took a good look in the mirror and came back to reality quite fast. I am a brother and a son, and I would never tell a woman what she can and can't do with her own life. I cared a great deal about this woman and I still do. I sincerely wish her the happiness.

Your situation is a little different. Dishonesty is not ok. In your case she was doing it behind your back. Nothing cuts deeper than lies or secrets.

Andrew69913 · Jan 7, 2022

1518 said:
Your situation is a little different. Dishonesty is not ok. In your case she was doing it behind your back. Nothing cuts deeper than lies or secrets.

I'm not 100% sure that was the case, especially for a majority of our relationship. We were together pretty much daily so she had literally no spare time. We were both at pretty low points in our lives as far as mental health goes and financially even lower. She definitely started within a month of our final time together., so she was certainly introduced and thinking about it while we were still technically together, though on very shaky ground.. Anyway, I have no issues with what she is doing other than I hope she is safe as she can be. As for deceit and failing relationships, well, c'est la vie. I have contacted her to chat and say there are no hard feelings on my part and she responded so I can at least hold my head up if we pass by lol.

Forum mod · Jan 8, 2022

This started out tongue in cheek but has devolved into the same rehash and debate as every other thread on the topic. Closed.

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