Dating an SP

[Vandelay]

I have a very newbie question. Has anyone ever dated an SP after being their client?
Obviously I understand that every SP is different.
I’m in a weird situation with a regular SP. Same age as myself and I can’t help but think we have good chemistry. Could also just be a good gfe experience and she could not actually be into me at all.
Anyhow I was wondering if anyone has asked to meet an SP in a different setting and how that’s gone.
Or is it just strongly discouraged to ask stuff like that.

 

[P3t3rp4n]

Once I asked a SW if she wanted to have some drinks after the appoingment, she told me social time is $60 an hour. ound:

 

[flex_flexing]

I don't think there is anything wrong with asking her out on a date, SPs are people too. They have feelings and desires and emotions.
BUT, did you think this through?
- Are you ok with her sleeping with other men?
- Are you cool with whatever kinky shit she did in the past? REALLY?
- The person she is during sessions might not be the person she is in private, remember you're paying for an act (mostly).

Personally, I don't care about her past, but I can't deal with my girlfriend fucking other guys.
Also, even if she "quit", there is always a chance she'll see an old regular if she gets a text (people talking on reddit), so I would have to trust her A LOT.

 

[burnabyguy5]

Take your head out of your ass. The girls that service men are there for money. Don't fool yourself thinking that you have some "relationship", "freindship" or social connection. They have a job that entails fucking you for money.
That being said, some are freindlier than others. Some will relay there personal situation. And if you fuck them for several years it will even feel like a marriage of sorts. But at the end of the day, if you never saw them again, the service provider would probably not notice. Its a job. If you want a relationship, put in the time.

 

[theimp]

I love dating and I see the occasional pro and yes, the two sometimes cross over. Women are women, most like to be pampered and spoiled at times and I, sincerely love to pamper and spoil. I have no jealousy issues, but I do insist on honesty, which is probably tougher than fidelity. I did have one serious relationship, twoish years. It ended, but not due to her profession, rather it was due to a large age difference (my issue, not hers).

 

[MB Mod]

There’s already a thread running about this topic, no need for a new one.