You know... this topic has been covered quite a bit by the Perberts in the past.Privateplaymate said:The Top three reason I don't Date while working:
1.) If the guy chooses to accept what I do then does he really care about me ?? If someone does not get jealous that I am with other men why is he really with me??
You just simply can not throw the past in each other's face during an argument...EVER...Regardless of what you worked at in the past, how you met, where you met etc. etc. etc. If you have an argument about an issue. stick to the issue. You start throwing stuff in a person's face and that's how blowups start. I see absolutely no reason why a relationship can not happen if two people click. The person's job in itself should have NO bearing as to the possibility of a realtionship being successful. Issues attatched TO the job however may but thoses issues come from within, not from the job itself.Privateplaymate said:Be assured that when you fight, the guy will say hey your just a hooker, and the girl will say hey how do I know your not out there spending money on other girls.
With all due respect Gina, Just can not see why it HAS to be that way. If two people really fall for each other, respect each other and see each other as individual people rather than as extensions of their jobs, and can communicate HONESTLY with each other, I just can not see how they can let a job get in the way of possible happiness. Maybe I'm just to much a romantic and not realistic.Gina Lee said:A very BAD IDEA .....unless you want more stress in your life.
You are making a BIG assumption here Privateplaymate. Just because a guy accepts your JOB doesn't mean he is not jealous about you being with other guys. He accepts it because of what he thinks about you and he sees you as a PERSON and not as an extension of your job. Look at all the girls in the biz to get them thru school. Are you saying they are one 'knd' of person while in the biz and then totally different people two months later when they set up their law practise or their brain surgury practise? I hope not because it is still the same person. It's the JOB that changed overnight. This is not to say people NEVER change btw (b4 some accuses me of saying somethng I didn't again). Maybe the guy that wants to go out with her LATER is the one after her money?!Privateplaymate said:The Top three reason I don't Date while working:
1.) if someone dose not get jelous that I am with other men why is he really with me?? money maybe?
Jude said that some of her best orgasms came from her clients, as they were the only sexual relationships where she could completely 'let go' of inhibitions.I thought most SPs try to keep their orgasms for their SOs...