Who sees SPs to preserve their marriage?

[RalphiEboy]

To some degree, every relationship is built around lies. Starting with "no" to "does this make me look fat" 😁

hahaha 😝

 

[Forum mod]

Ok, this is clearly a hot topic. Suffice to say if escorts refused to see married men, they have cut out a massive part of their market.

Keep it civil, we have had to prune this too much as it is, and if you can't play nice, it will get closed down.

 

[vitaminD]

Thats NOT why so many married men prefer transactional relationships w providers over affairs.

I know. im saying thats some womans perspectives. and to be fair the woman I head this from were in boyfriend/girlfriend relationships, not married.
ive heard similar sentiments expressed on podcasts and youtube aswell

 

[white Ninja]

I know. im saying thats some womans perspectives. and to be fair the woman I head this from were in boyfriend/girlfriend relationships, not married.
ive heard similar sentiments expressed on podcasts and youtube aswell

No comment lol 🙄

 

[Once you go black]

Funny that some people in this thread; without knowing people's lives experiences and background are able to judge others, by a one philosophy fits all attitude that is quite black and white.

Honesty at all cost attitude ! Ok...Show me someone who's never lied in their life and I will show you a liar . We all try our best to live our lives with the least amount of lying and without hurting anyone in the process .

Who are we to judge someone's circumstances or one another ? Specially here on this forum .

Yes ! Best answer hands down .

 

[Once you go black]

I do. I have a great partner and 95% of our relationship is awesome. We are a team in life, and love each other very much. Sometimes life gets in the way of our sex life. Between work, and everything else going on, you can’t always be on the same page. It feels like a lot of black and white thinking going on here, and life is rarely like this. It is very nuanced. My partner works very hard, and is a busy productive person, so is sometimes too tired to be there for me in a sexual way. I’m not going to leave her because 5% of our relationship isn’t working. If you’re looking for a 100% thing, it’s never going to happen and you will end up being miserable. I go once in awhile to take care of my personal needs that can’t be met. If it makes me a better partner to her, and happier, then what’s the issue? I go see an SP a couple times a month, but it never gets in the way of relationship obligations or time with my family. Why shouldn’t I be able to go see a professional and have a need taken care of? I don’t expect my wife to fix a cavity, or work on my truck. Why would these things just be an expectation? If it’s not taking up time together, and I’m safe, then what does it issue? If it makes me a happier, healthier, more accommodating partner, then it seems like it’s doing far more good than not. Get off your high horse.

Thanks for wording this so well , great response.

 

[RalphiEboy]

It’s worked for me for half a century’ish. Field tested, approved and 🌟 HIGHLY 🌟 endorsed 🤠

 

[jgg]

Oh boy.
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[angry anderson]

You have to use the correct font. Joke and sarcasim fonts are the most difficult to find.

So give me an example of a "correct font".

 

[masterpoonhunter]

So give me an example of a "correct font".

So -- seriously -- now, there are various fonts for seasonal things like Christmas fonts. I thought, gees, is there a Sex or Porn font collection out there?
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[jgg]

So give me an example of a "correct font".