I'm in a long time marriage, but it's fizzled out a bit in the intimacy department. I see a SP 3-4 times a year whenever I need a "human release" that's not my own.
Is anyone in the same boat?
Is anyone in the same boat?
Who sees SPs to preserve their marriage?
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Posts like this will do wonders for single men in here staying that way.
Yes but I’m 3-4 times a week 😂
Because I'm happy with everything else except the lack of sexual intercourse.
Lying to your spouse is wrong but I get that there are societal stigmas about seeing escorts. It’s so exhausting to me that you can see a professional for literally anything else and it’s not an issue but then for this it somehow is. It’s not 1850 where you’re gonna have a bastard son with some lowly maiden who is gonna come after your family wealth when he’s 19. Like grow up, ya know!? We have birth control now. It’s just another professional service.
A tad different. Following a meeting with a therapist, a std test is not required before sleeping with your wife again.
Not 100% sure what you are saying here but if I get it that you think the OP should tell his wife he is seeing SP's because there is no sex, I can assure you ... as in REALLY ASSURE you, that will kill whatever is left in the relationship.
That relationship relies on lies. Better to kill it, it's not going anywhere.
OP is just afraid to be single.
To some degree, every relationship is built around lies. Starting with "no" to "does this make me look fat" 😁
I'm happy with my car except for the "no engine" part.
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There is often more involved than just a simple relationahip. Kids from broken homes that get time shared between two toxic parents is just one example. If the domestic relationship is solid in terms of family, financials, career support, socializing/friends, shared interests, etc., then “Killing It” will do more harm than good. I’ve seen too many kids suffer because their fatalistic parents couldn’t figure things out.
And frankly, this idea that cheating is one-sided is just B.S. I know lots of women who do extra-marital romps even though their husband would Gladly have sex with them.
Also, who is cheating on who? If you committed to a marriage which includes a reasonable expectation for sexual fulfillment by both partners, and then sex is later witheld, the lonely spouse is cheated out of their marital dues by the spouse who cheats them from happiness by witholding their vowed promises. Your honour, isn’t the onus on the witholding spouse to explain their actions and make reparations? The spouse who’se life is arbitrarily made unhappy from their partners frigidity is actually just counter-cheating to overcome sex-witholding. So can two cheaters live together happily? Sure, happens all the time. If the other aspects of the relationship work, they are better off than becoming serial divorcees. Of course it would be better if they discuss it, but the social mores and ego hits are two big, so they choose to live a less-than-fairy-tale marriage of don’t ask-don’t tell.
A covid test might be though? Like… you can catch other illnesses from other people. You’re just proving my point that sex work is stigmatised
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That’s not what I said at all. What I’m saying is that I wish we lived in a world where it was normal to see a sex worker.
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“an sexworker” that grammar police guy is going to be looking for you
Come on man you know what I mean. Most spouses wouldn’t be okay with their partner seeing a sex worker.
Omg shut uppppppp lol“an sexworker” that grammar police guy is going to be looking for you
ive heard a couple girls say its worse when their man cheats on them with an escort because that means he isnt attractive enough to get a girl to sleep with him for free
(their words) I dont necessarily agree in all cases, but its definitely true in some instances.
(their words) I dont necessarily agree in all cases, but its definitely true in some instances.
