You people make me sick
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Fractals, OMG, are you a priest? a righteous man? A saint?
You can't blame the SPs for these married men's behaviours, these SPs did not go out to seek these men, whereas these men seek these SPs. Lots of people don't know is that women are emotional whereas men are more physical, therefore, they think differently most of the time - that's why men don't sit at home watching "Sleepless in Seattle" but UFC or NCIS.
Blaming the SPs for this OP's situation is not the way to go..., imagine if the wife can cook good food at home all the time, why would the husband want to eat out? It's not logical.
You can't blame the SPs for these married men's behaviours, these SPs did not go out to seek these men, whereas these men seek these SPs. Lots of people don't know is that women are emotional whereas men are more physical, therefore, they think differently most of the time - that's why men don't sit at home watching "Sleepless in Seattle" but UFC or NCIS.
Blaming the SPs for this OP's situation is not the way to go..., imagine if the wife can cook good food at home all the time, why would the husband want to eat out? It's not logical.
Would you want to eat the same food everyday ? Let's face it, everytime you turn around somebody is trying to sell you something with sex as part of the pitch. This morning watching the news there's an item on a Stripper Firemen App for your cell, raising money for the burn unit. You going to tell me that there aren't a whole ladies looking at those guys going "why can't I have some of that ?" For us the same thing, damn near every guy on here probably wants to tap some of the babes that are falling all over the guy that has just used the latest in shaving technology. I say nearly, because some of the guys here would probably want to tap the guy, and others both. For the guys it's easier to get, we hit the Internet and go shopping, lay out some cash and our fantasy has come true. Not that easy for the ladies, maybe if it was it would level the playing field a bit and they would see the appeal.
My statement is that the wife is a good cook - obviously can cook varieties of food...not just one type. You can use your imagination on the men part...I don't know about you, if I have someone cooking good food for me, I ain't eating out.
Sure, there are always sex advertising on TV, etc...if you have the mind set not to have sex with other women/SPs, you still can do that. Because lots of men don't think straight. Should not blame the SPs though.
Harmony - If I haven't already said it - I purely do love you - God I love to laugh - Hugs to you girl
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I seem to remember that Mary Magdelain was a prostitute before she took up with Jesus. There are many stories that they actually left the Holy Land and travelled to India after the unsuccessful crucifiction, had children and lived a long life together. Just sayin .......
Mary Magdalene was not a prostitute contrary to popular belief, she was an adultress which does not a prostitute make.
Rahab was a prostitute and helped the Jewish spies to infiltrate Jericho. The reason she is of note in the bible is because she later married a Jewish man and became part of the line of geneology leading to the birth of Jesus. It is my favorite story in the Bible and probably why I have a love for women of the night.
Grins - I stand corrected. It just seems to me that if Jesus had no problem with an adultress/prostitute (staying with the popular christian version) where do these good God fearing Christians get the idea that it's ok to be judgemental and vindictive. I try to follow Christs example but I have little love for any religion that uses his teachings with such hyopcracy. I believe Christ himself would be appaled.Mary Magdalene was not a prostitute contrary to popular belief, she was an adultress which does not a prostitute make.
Rahab was a prostitute and helped the Jewish spies to infiltrate Jericho. The reason she is of note in the bible is because she later married a Jewish man and became part of the line of geneology leading to the birth of Jesus. It is my favorite story in the Bible and probably why I have a love for women of the night.
Indeed He is, you can read what He thinks of the churches in Revelation.
The good news is that most of those people will cry Lord, Lord and He will say depart from me, I never knew you....so you will get to spend eternity with them in Hell too.
Merry Christmas!
Jesus' teaching to us was to forgive and forget, not being judgemental or vindictive; I just could not believe how judgemental these so-called Christians now a day are...whole bunch of hypocrites
...and the worst part is that she could only see herself as the VICTIM here...
Perhaps she should self-reflect a moment - maybe she will find that the problems are not surrounding her, but within herself...
Mary Magdalene was the sister of Martha and Lazurus I believe. Somehow the Catholic church lumped all three characters in the bible: the woman who washes the feet of Christ, the woman who is going to be stoned for adultery, and Mary, the one who sat yacking with the boys while Martha did all the work, into one person.
Pretty shitty to spend eternity mistaken for a whore eh?
Anyway, I never read anywhere in the bible where Rahab actually gets married. The story is that Joshua and his pals spent a couple of nights at her brothel while they were scoping out Jericho. She was a believer and helped him with his plans and in return hers was the only family spared in the entire town.
If it was her brothel then she would have been a Madame actually, owning and running the brothel, and she did this to support a family, somewhere I think it mentions an infirm father or something, kinda like most of us here, women who are in unfortunate situations and need to support our kin.
Harmony, I love your candid and honest attitude! Who can argue with that?
I had a guest who had not had sex in over 20 years. His wife had one kid and closed the shop. It certainly wasn't because of his looks or performance. He said they are good friends and he doesn't want the trouble of divorcing her for this one thing she wouldn't do.
Also, research has discovered that men who do not get regular sex suffer much higher rates of prostate cancer. So, denying sex is kinda like condemning a man to an early death, no? Or at least denying him a healthy life.
Pretty shitty to spend eternity mistaken for a whore eh?
Anyway, I never read anywhere in the bible where Rahab actually gets married. The story is that Joshua and his pals spent a couple of nights at her brothel while they were scoping out Jericho. She was a believer and helped him with his plans and in return hers was the only family spared in the entire town.
If it was her brothel then she would have been a Madame actually, owning and running the brothel, and she did this to support a family, somewhere I think it mentions an infirm father or something, kinda like most of us here, women who are in unfortunate situations and need to support our kin.
Harmony, I love your candid and honest attitude! Who can argue with that?
I had a guest who had not had sex in over 20 years. His wife had one kid and closed the shop. It certainly wasn't because of his looks or performance. He said they are good friends and he doesn't want the trouble of divorcing her for this one thing she wouldn't do.
Also, research has discovered that men who do not get regular sex suffer much higher rates of prostate cancer. So, denying sex is kinda like condemning a man to an early death, no? Or at least denying him a healthy life.
Biblical now!
I starting reading this thread a few days ago, and omitted pages 3 til now, and WOW.
this "pissed off wife" has me thinking about this industry.
Being involved in the pooning industry for 15 years I watch myself now, and try not to be judgemental. However when I do some re-flecting, I tend to find many emotions shame is leading, and next is denial.
When people need the interent to validate, or justify the lifestyles they choose,,,,,you gotta wonder what happened to common sense.
I love the scene in the film "Man on fire" when Denzel asks Chris Walken
"Do you think God will forgive us?"
And Chris said "no."
I starting reading this thread a few days ago, and omitted pages 3 til now, and WOW.
this "pissed off wife" has me thinking about this industry.
Being involved in the pooning industry for 15 years I watch myself now, and try not to be judgemental. However when I do some re-flecting, I tend to find many emotions shame is leading, and next is denial.
When people need the interent to validate, or justify the lifestyles they choose,,,,,you gotta wonder what happened to common sense.
I love the scene in the film "Man on fire" when Denzel asks Chris Walken
"Do you think God will forgive us?"
And Chris said "no."
What's the old saying: It's an ill wind that never blew anything good?
I have been pondering this thread a bit today and realized something. Supposing the story is true, not the OP, but the story. I lived in a sexless marriage with a man who was a victim of childhood abuse. He could only have sex with women he picked up in bars, very sad specimens, and it made me feel ugly and unattractive.
I tried to find ways to interest him, but, he had been taught in his very religious home that good girls don't and you only have sex with your wife to procreate. I think Robert DeNiro's character says it best when Billy Crystals character asks him if his wife ever gave him a blow job now and then "She kisses my kids with that mouth"
It is a cold and lonely place to be on a pedestal in your marriage. Too pure to be touched. But, like I said, I felt ugly, like a failure as a woman. My own husband not interested in me (he didn't have hygiene issues btw)
When I began prostitution (as a way to pay all the enormous debts he left us with) I was thrilled at the wonderful comments of the men. I felt like an empty cup being filled. I knew men looked at me on the street, even my daughter commented on that, but, having man after man praise you for the very thing your husband refused was sweet music!
If the OP's story is true then she must be suffering that same sense of emptiness. Her husband's lack of hygiene points to a low self esteem and his catering of women in the very low price margin shows the value he puts on his pleasure. Perhaps he feels his genitals are dirty? Or that he is dirty and not fit to be loved by you?
The comment about taking him to the cleaners is very mean spirited. If you pledged yourself in sickness and in health then you should be feeling some compassion for his condition. I came to understand that my husband was broken and was not going to make the effort to get better. You have to decide whether you are going to move on and find a healthy relationship or try to stick this one out. I agree with the other posters that choosing to blame other people is a very immature way to deal with your troubles. You must be strong now that you know the truth and be pro-active.
One word of advice about telling all your friends about this site: they may wonder why you come here. they will sympathize with your situation but they may find this site distasteful and not be interested, as you are, in reading all the threads. this will lead them to wonder how you may have contributed to your husbands condition and you may end up finding yourself ostracized from former friends. People may consider you a sex addict.
I have been pondering this thread a bit today and realized something. Supposing the story is true, not the OP, but the story. I lived in a sexless marriage with a man who was a victim of childhood abuse. He could only have sex with women he picked up in bars, very sad specimens, and it made me feel ugly and unattractive.
I tried to find ways to interest him, but, he had been taught in his very religious home that good girls don't and you only have sex with your wife to procreate. I think Robert DeNiro's character says it best when Billy Crystals character asks him if his wife ever gave him a blow job now and then "She kisses my kids with that mouth"
It is a cold and lonely place to be on a pedestal in your marriage. Too pure to be touched. But, like I said, I felt ugly, like a failure as a woman. My own husband not interested in me (he didn't have hygiene issues btw)
When I began prostitution (as a way to pay all the enormous debts he left us with) I was thrilled at the wonderful comments of the men. I felt like an empty cup being filled. I knew men looked at me on the street, even my daughter commented on that, but, having man after man praise you for the very thing your husband refused was sweet music!
If the OP's story is true then she must be suffering that same sense of emptiness. Her husband's lack of hygiene points to a low self esteem and his catering of women in the very low price margin shows the value he puts on his pleasure. Perhaps he feels his genitals are dirty? Or that he is dirty and not fit to be loved by you?
The comment about taking him to the cleaners is very mean spirited. If you pledged yourself in sickness and in health then you should be feeling some compassion for his condition. I came to understand that my husband was broken and was not going to make the effort to get better. You have to decide whether you are going to move on and find a healthy relationship or try to stick this one out. I agree with the other posters that choosing to blame other people is a very immature way to deal with your troubles. You must be strong now that you know the truth and be pro-active.
One word of advice about telling all your friends about this site: they may wonder why you come here. they will sympathize with your situation but they may find this site distasteful and not be interested, as you are, in reading all the threads. this will lead them to wonder how you may have contributed to your husbands condition and you may end up finding yourself ostracized from former friends. People may consider you a sex addict.
Im no expert on religion, I am an expert on prostitutes, and you my dear are definitely one.I love it when the experts on religion post on the escort board, it makes me giggle.
What the word for someone who is an expert on fiction..... oh right, BORING!
The thing that i find really strange is how can one with an account on Perb be spouting out ridiculous moral garbage on a site for reviewing lovely escorts and sp's? Is this the kettle blaming the pot? First of all, it's obvious that you have little or no real perspective of what it is like in the real world. Men who are in bad marriages feel stuck and duty bound as they've made an oath....to which their lovely wives are not honouring by withholding sex, love, affection, warm praise and encouragement. So what can a man do? Seek it elsewhere, as it's pretty lonley in a fucked up marriage that isn't an oasis that he can gop home to after a really long hard day out there in the world.
Secondly, Sp's are actually providing an essential service. They are not there to break up a marriage, cause problems, 'steal' him away...they are not contributing to the break down of the marriage, it's most likely already happening! For fuck's sake, pull your victimized head out of your ass and instead of spouting irrational diatribes about the woes, how wives are sufferng and baby seals are crying, try actually getting off your soapbox, loosen that yoke of feminist hatred of men and stop blaming Sp's and men for your sadness. Try looking in the mirror, and see what your contribution is to the problem.
BTW, thirdly...you type like you're kinda Silky.
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