You people make me sick

[LalaniElectrica]

My condolences to pissedoffwife, it must have hurt reading about your husbands' infidelity. I have been there and done that, been married young, had children and stayed monogamous for 10 years....at around 8 years, I became restless...not because my husband was overweight (he's 130lbs), but because we were emotionally lacking in the relationship and I was being taken for granted, the sex was always mind blowing-as we were practicing tantric sex all the time...I waited until my children were old enough to understand (and they practically knew it was going to happen), and they accepted it very well.......

Let's fast forward to now, where I get to offer couples like yourself sessions to help you both grow together and learn at the same pace....of course, Domination is not for everyone, but it can definitely be very useful for the more frigid wife to help her gain confidence in the bedroom, and give both partners a naughty experience they can enjoy together and take home with them...I've even been known to administer dietary restrictions to help males and females get into better shape so they feel more attractive and energetic for their partner. Of course, I still see mostly only single/married males, I am not a judge or jury, people have needs that they need met which for me is completely different from person to person...and gender to gender...."Sometimes the best lessons are the hardest ones", and "one must initiate change for the sake of change" or risk stagnation....some of my favourite quotes by yours truly!

 

[maroonedsailor]

and that about sums up this entire site LOL - happy New Year hun

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I'm sure many good points have been made already in the 15-16 pages ofd this thread.
And since I never got past page 2 - I think I'll just quote a poem instead.

Wild Things in Captivity
by D.H. Lawrence


Wild things in captivity
while they keep their own wild purity
won't breed, they mope, they die.


All men are in captivity,
active with captive activity,
and the best won't breed, though they don't know why.


The great cage of our domesticity
kills sex in a man, the simplicity
of desire is distorted and twisted awry.


And so, with bitter perversity,
gritting against the great adversity,
they young ones copulate, hate it, and want to cry.


Sex is a state of grace.
In a cage it can't take place.
Break the cage then, start in and try.

~ :: ~​

 

[OriannaXO]

I agree with Harmony in so many ways!

And Jamie makes me laugh loud enough to startle my cat!

I figure for myself monogamy just isn't in my cards, I like the whole smorgasbord and excitement of meeting new people. Sex is meant to be fun, not a chore or obligation but something you're really into. I also know that being the way I am that getting involved with someone who wants a higher committment like marriage isn't a super idea.

Moral of the story?.......

If you're not cut out for one on one then don't get married or heavily involved

and if you are thats great too but that means both parties have to be really honest about their ability to commit

tactful honesty is always the best policy.

 

[sevenofnine]

an interesting thread i wonder what ever happened to this man and wife.

for sure my wife would have a bird, if she found out,
she would be hurt extremely hurt, and lash out.
she would feel insecure for not living up to her part of the marriage, and well seek to blame it all on me on escorts.

but if she actually calmed down and was able to think about it rationally
its only sex.
sex that me and her haven't had in a hell of a long time.
and i have come home every night,
and that escorts usually don't run off with there clients, it tends to ruin the busineess
you can even get really close and be friends with your sp, but still, she has a life you have a life, its still just about sex.
of course there is a chance he will not come home but still he could any way with a co worker.
thats life, right,
and seriously with an escort he is going to come home every night, most likely not bring any unwanted guests home with him in the form of a disease, with some bimbo at work or who he met in a bar, well not so sure.

if she thought about it, she would honestly have to say our marriage is better,i go out once every couple of weeks come home happy and fresh,
her hurt and pain would come from the fact that it wasn't her making me happy and fresh,

sure i spent money in this, lots of money i suppose, but not hers, she puts her money in a bank account, it doesn't get touched. i work mostly overtime for this,
money is a small price to pay for contentment peace of mind.

sure nothing is perfect,
but i can honestly say my life my marriage has improved by seeing sp's
i have seen mostly two,
mature sps mostly safe sex, nothing outragoues or kinky.

even though i say im close and friends with both, and i believe i am, even the sps would say that, i believe,
but its not like were running away to vegas for a quickie marriage, or planning one,

honestly wifes are going to be hurt when they find out if they find out, don't blame them
and everyones situation is different,
sure some guys are just jerks, and your better off with out him so just let him go.

i think if your married you think or you have to think of the possiblilty of this ruining your marriage, before you even begin

but well i was so unhappy, with no sex, for so long, i think our marriage would have ripped itself apart evenutally anyway.
it was just eating away inside. and well i had personal issues to, i couldn't talk to my wife about,
i found a kind ear in an sp, she helped me out.

life truely is a long and winding road, with many bumps.
but we have to keep moving forward i believe, for the better,

and seeing sps has done that for me.

but tomorrow is another day who knows

 

[PlayfulAlex]

...I had personal issues too, I couldn't talk to my wife about, I found a kind ear in an sp, she helped me out. Life truly is a long and winding road, with many bumps, but we have to keep moving forward I believe, for the better, and seeing sps has done that for me.

An old thread, resurrected for some reason, but I just had to acknowledge this intelligent, thoughtful response. Explains why some of us who really understand, do what we do. Thanks 7 of 9...

 

[FunSugarDaddy]

an interesting thread i wonder what ever happened to this man and wife.

for sure my wife would have a bird, if she found out,
she would be hurt extremely hurt, and lash out.
she would feel insecure for not living up to her part of the marriage, and well seek to blame it all on me on escorts.

but if she actually calmed down and was able to think about it rationally
its only sex.
sex that me and her haven't had in a hell of a long time.
and i have come home every night,
and that escorts usually don't run off with there clients, it tends to ruin the busineess
you can even get really close and be friends with your sp, but still, she has a life you have a life, its still just about sex.
of course there is a chance he will not come home but still he could any way with a co worker.
thats life, right,
and seriously with an escort he is going to come home every night, most likely not bring any unwanted guests home with him in the form of a disease, with some bimbo at work or who he met in a bar, well not so sure.

if she thought about it, she would honestly have to say our marriage is better,i go out once every couple of weeks come home happy and fresh,
her hurt and pain would come from the fact that it wasn't her making me happy and fresh,

sure i spent money in this, lots of money i suppose, but not hers, she puts her money in a bank account, it doesn't get touched. i work mostly overtime for this,
money is a small price to pay for contentment peace of mind.

sure nothing is perfect,
but i can honestly say my life my marriage has improved by seeing sp's
i have seen mostly two,
mature sps mostly safe sex, nothing outragoues or kinky.

even though i say im close and friends with both, and i believe i am, even the sps would say that, i believe,
but its not like were running away to vegas for a quickie marriage, or planning one,

honestly wifes are going to be hurt when they find out if they find out, don't blame them
and everyones situation is different,
sure some guys are just jerks, and your better off with out him so just let him go.

i think if your married you think or you have to think of the possiblilty of this ruining your marriage, before you even begin

but well i was so unhappy, with no sex, for so long, i think our marriage would have ripped itself apart evenutally anyway.
it was just eating away inside. and well i had personal issues to, i couldn't talk to my wife about,
i found a kind ear in an sp, she helped me out.

life truely is a long and winding road, with many bumps.
but we have to keep moving forward i believe, for the better,

and seeing sps has done that for me.

but tomorrow is another day who knows

You've pretty much captured my situation perfectly.

 

[Carmen LorenRETIRED]

Now you're going to have everyone wanting to know where he could go for 45 minutes for only 60 bucks.

Ha ha ha!!!

 

[sweetiepie1]

For some reason my Troll alert is flashing...this just sounds like someone new is on here to get their troll dick stroked. If this is real, buddy needs to get a lawyer, but I really doubt that this is the case.

I agree. I was trying to put my finger on it, and one tip is the "sorry ass to the cleaners." That's not how a wife would talk within the first two weeks. Its more like a threat a guy would make or someone would make who wasn't personally involved. Still, it makes for good follow-up posts.

 

[Mod-2]

Old thread, issue closed.