So I turned 40 this year. It was quite uneventful, but I'm content and grateful. I have been seeing someone on and off these last few months it's very casual and not much strings attached or anything official... but if it turns into a commitment I may have to withdraw from this luxury that many have labeled a hobby. Every since I turned 30 I limited myself to not seeing anyone younger than 10 years than me, generally just assumed that any age someone posts it was safe to add another 5-10 years to that, but now that im 40 it seems rather strange than I would limit myself to anyone who is in their 30s, so I decided to consider ladies and non-binaries who were born anyone before the year I turned 18. Not sure how young is too young for many people here?
When youre 40, how young is too young?
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If I were as young as 40, I would limit myself to not seeing anyone much younger than 25.
As long as she’s legal, she isn’t too young. I’m older than you, I have no problem seeing anyone in their early 20s (I.e., less than half my age). If I had a daughter around that age, I might think differently.
I’m much older than 40 and I still see 20 year olds, but for me it’s not a relationship, it’s either and SP or SB. Age doesn’t matter as much as personality and maturity. If she’s got that “wise beyond her years” kind of vibe I’m totally into it, but if she acts like a teenager its a hard no.
I mostly see older ladies in the 30's and 40's range (I'm nearly 60). But I also see some ladies in their late 20's.
The youngest that I've seen in the last few years was an international touring lady. I remember thinking she was around 23 and asking her. She old me she was 19, and later told me she was only 18. It turns out she was a baby heaux and was claiming to be older to appear more experienced. (I had her show me her ID after she told me she was only 18 because it scared the shit out of me).
The youngest that I've seen in the last few years was an international touring lady. I remember thinking she was around 23 and asking her. She old me she was 19, and later told me she was only 18. It turns out she was a baby heaux and was claiming to be older to appear more experienced. (I had her show me her ID after she told me she was only 18 because it scared the shit out of me).
Yeah I'd be terrified. See even that feels too young for me. Though I feel like once both parties are over 30, I don't see an issue with a 50 year old lady or guy with a 30+ year old. It's not as weird after that for me in my opinion.
Yeah, I kinda remember when I turned 40.
And I guess with time, tastes and moral issues, guilt if one can have that, and so on, all round out.
I see it as if a women is game to have sex with me, I for one, am quite honoured and am fully on. Paying or not.
Regardless of age, obvious legalities of course.
So whether you are 20, 30, 40 or like me staring at 70, well be like the old bull up on the hill looking down at a field of cows and fuck em all!!
And I guess with time, tastes and moral issues, guilt if one can have that, and so on, all round out.
I see it as if a women is game to have sex with me, I for one, am quite honoured and am fully on. Paying or not.
Regardless of age, obvious legalities of course.
So whether you are 20, 30, 40 or like me staring at 70, well be like the old bull up on the hill looking down at a field of cows and fuck em all!!
I'm in my early 50s, and I only see ladies under 30, generally always under 25, and 19-21 is my favorite.
To me it depends on whether you are looking for a GFE or just a sexual experience. Once I hit 40 (years ago), I was more into a complete sensual experience not just sex. That typically led me to ladies over 30, but there are the special younger gals who have the maturity to make older guys feel comfortable.
Question is kind of moot for me. I may decide that under 25 is too young but then how do I know that someone posting as under 25 is actually under 25. Unless you're checking ID then you have no way of really knowing.
In my experience and the posts on the board, far fewer ladies post an age older than their true age. If someone advertises as 25, they are probably not younger.
I'm nearly sixty and I prefer ladies that are 35-45, but open to others, in the pooning world and my private life 35-45 is the sweet spot.
what’s the rule? Half your age plus 7 or something
I’m joking. But also I’m 34 and I barely want to hang out with anyone under 25, what is the appeal to be with someone so much younger? Feels weird to me
I’m joking. But also I’m 34 and I barely want to hang out with anyone under 25, what is the appeal to be with someone so much younger? Feels weird to me
I usually find woman younger than 35 too immature and not knowing what they want and older than 45 act like they are past their prime and rather closed minded.
This is obviously a generisation and as I said previously that this is not a rule or anything but it seems to work out that way for me.
I also seem to end up with doctors in my personal life for some reason.
I don't really know why but that's how it seems to work out for me.
If she's hot, and legal, and seems into you, then why not enjoy it?
I can't easily relate to people generally, so if there's actually some chemistry happening with someone, then this is a rare treat, not to be rejected on the basis of numbers alone.
I can't easily relate to people generally, so if there's actually some chemistry happening with someone, then this is a rare treat, not to be rejected on the basis of numbers alone.
