Myself im not physically attractive there for not many women send flirting signals and I didn't have many girlfriends highschool, I only had Two only one was anything meaningful. After that I hooked up with one cute girl in college and after that another cute co-workers. Then things trailed off and become cold, tried pua, not for me. Rather pay to get exactly what I want, then to have to date a couple of girls to wade through possibilities.
What's your story for seeing an SP or being in this hobby?
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Deaf. Taunted and bullied by a cabal of girls through elem. jr and high school. No relationships or girlfriends to date. Absolutely no game with women, and a complete inability to avoid friendzone. Multiple turns on various online dating sites. No dates. No longer maintain as much physical fitness as I once did as I get too horny & frustrated.
Virgin to 36 before taking plunge with an SP. Have only ever had paid sex. Is it what I want? No. Is it what I can get? Yes. Better than nothing? Not sure sometimes after a bad date.
Virgin to 36 before taking plunge with an SP. Have only ever had paid sex. Is it what I want? No. Is it what I can get? Yes. Better than nothing? Not sure sometimes after a bad date.
Considered doing the sugar route? That’s essentially dating but you pay for her not to care that you’re married to your job
New here.
I live in Greater Van, and my GF is in college in Ontario. We have been together for many years, and it's likely we will spend the rest of our lives together (we are in our early-mid 20s but we have a very mature relationship). She considers herself as more of a bisexual person because she's disgusted by the idea of having sex with any other men except me. I am 95% straight, but I do see myself having a slight possibility to stroke a nice long cock in the distant future. Things then got really interested a few days ago.
She called me on Tuesday and told me she's been thinking about having sex one time with a woman, preferably a bi woman because that way it would be more authentic. She never had sex with anyone except me, so I thought it was only fair to make her dream come true before lives get serious. We both agreed the experience should strictly be paid only to avoid hassles. To make her request fair, she also gave me the green light to have a little fun with a person of choice. Without any surprises, I chose women, and she's completely fine with it.
Another round of negotiation started today since I could not get over the fact that there's going to be risks associated with our decisions. The chance of getting STDs with protection is still higher than having sex with a fixed partner, so I asked if I could opt-in for massages instead. The final deal is as follows:
- choice of services must be covered
- no greek, we hate greek
- each person will not spend more than $700 each year before marriage, which is enough for two escort visits plus tips, or a few massages
- cannot visit the same SP more than twice
- each visit must be 100% transparent with 100% honesty
- if one of us is not happy with where this agreement is leading us to, stop ASAP
- safety first (this should be at the top)
We are both new to this and don't really know the terms and conventions. I felt like our relationship has completely elevated to a whole new level. I'm genuinely interested to see where it leads. Hope my girl can find her dream SP!
I live in Greater Van, and my GF is in college in Ontario. We have been together for many years, and it's likely we will spend the rest of our lives together (we are in our early-mid 20s but we have a very mature relationship). She considers herself as more of a bisexual person because she's disgusted by the idea of having sex with any other men except me. I am 95% straight, but I do see myself having a slight possibility to stroke a nice long cock in the distant future. Things then got really interested a few days ago.
She called me on Tuesday and told me she's been thinking about having sex one time with a woman, preferably a bi woman because that way it would be more authentic. She never had sex with anyone except me, so I thought it was only fair to make her dream come true before lives get serious. We both agreed the experience should strictly be paid only to avoid hassles. To make her request fair, she also gave me the green light to have a little fun with a person of choice. Without any surprises, I chose women, and she's completely fine with it.
Another round of negotiation started today since I could not get over the fact that there's going to be risks associated with our decisions. The chance of getting STDs with protection is still higher than having sex with a fixed partner, so I asked if I could opt-in for massages instead. The final deal is as follows:
- choice of services must be covered
- no greek, we hate greek
- each person will not spend more than $700 each year before marriage, which is enough for two escort visits plus tips, or a few massages
- cannot visit the same SP more than twice
- each visit must be 100% transparent with 100% honesty
- if one of us is not happy with where this agreement is leading us to, stop ASAP
- safety first (this should be at the top)
We are both new to this and don't really know the terms and conventions. I felt like our relationship has completely elevated to a whole new level. I'm genuinely interested to see where it leads. Hope my girl can find her dream SP!
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Let me guess, both of you guys are heading to become a lawyer? Just the way you structured out your little speech lol
Hahaha not at all. I guess we are just new and nervous : )
So ...you’d rather she complain that you work too much and you don’t pay enough attention to her, bitch at you for leaving your dirty socks on the floor and for not rinsing your plate and putting it in the dishwasher?
Yo Miss Hunter give him a break. Guy wants a supportive lady that is understanding of him working too much and standing by his side & giving him affections etc however realistically speaking, I'd agree sugar baby is the way to go. Imo no woman can bear her partner putting work before her all the time and it will usually not end pretty. But there are loyal ladies like that though
What I said was in jest. I wasn't meaning to give him a hard time for wanting a relationship.
Covid took away any opportunity’s. I have to meet women.
Internet dating just doesn’t work for me. I fucking hate messageing girls. I hate taking pictures of myself. I’m only interested when i’m horney and i’m not looking for love and there is a million other guys doing the same thing.
I slept with two girls this year before my first sp. A sexy lady in lingire so good.
But just getting a BJ is the best. I was 20 before I first got a just a bj. One way gratification is awesome. But you can’t find that realisticly. At least i can’t. I should call my ex.......
Internet dating just doesn’t work for me. I fucking hate messageing girls. I hate taking pictures of myself. I’m only interested when i’m horney and i’m not looking for love and there is a million other guys doing the same thing.
I slept with two girls this year before my first sp. A sexy lady in lingire so good.
But just getting a BJ is the best. I was 20 before I first got a just a bj. One way gratification is awesome. But you can’t find that realisticly. At least i can’t. I should call my ex.......
Thanks for this thread, OP. It was interesting to read everyone's story here.
For me, it was a bit of a health scare that made me realize I gotta have a bit of fun and experience more while I still can.
For me, it was a bit of a health scare that made me realize I gotta have a bit of fun and experience more while I still can.
Where did you come up with that percentage? lol
Two words: Esjay Craige
I didn't see escorts before her, and one chance encounter with her one Friday morning got me hooked.
I didn't see escorts before her, and one chance encounter with her one Friday morning got me hooked.
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He's 50% straight if he gets a blow-job from a man, 25% straight if he sucks a cock, 10% if he tops a male ass and only 5% if he takes it up the ass.
Wtf brahHe's 50% straight if he gets a blow-job from a man, 25% straight if he sucks a cock, 10% if he tops a male ass and only 5% if he takes it up the ass.
Man, this is not at all a straight answerHe's 50% straight if he gets a blow-job from a man, 25% straight if he sucks a cock, 10% if he tops a male ass and only 5% if he takes it up the ass.
You gay asf if you ever did either of these things smhHe's 50% straight if he gets a blow-job from a man, 25% straight if he sucks a cock, 10% if he tops a male ass and only 5% if he takes it up the ass.
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