What's your story for seeing an SP or being in this hobby?

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PuntMeister

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He's 50% straight if he gets a blow-job from a man, 25% straight if he sucks a cock, 10% if he tops a male ass and only 5% if he takes it up the ass. :D
Sounds about right.

and 0% if he takes it up the ass, and then sucks it clean. ?
 
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PierreCoeur

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New here.

I live in Greater Van, and my GF is in college in Ontario. We have been together for many years, and it's likely we will spend the rest of our lives together (we are in our early-mid 20s but we have a very mature relationship). She considers herself as more of a bisexual person because she's disgusted by the idea of having sex with any other men except me. I am 95% straight, but I do see myself having a slight possibility to stroke a nice long cock in the distant future. Things then got really interested a few days ago.
She called me on Tuesday and told me she's been thinking about having sex one time with a woman, preferably a bi woman because that way it would be more authentic. She never had sex with anyone except me, so I thought it was only fair to make her dream come true before lives get serious. We both agreed the experience should strictly be paid only to avoid hassles. To make her request fair, she also gave me the green light to have a little fun with a person of choice. Without any surprises, I chose women, and she's completely fine with it.
Another round of negotiation started today since I could not get over the fact that there's going to be risks associated with our decisions. The chance of getting STDs with protection is still higher than having sex with a fixed partner, so I asked if I could opt-in for massages instead. The final deal is as follows:
- choice of services must be covered
- no greek, we hate greek
- each person will not spend more than $700 each year before marriage, which is enough for two escort visits plus tips, or a few massages
- cannot visit the same SP more than twice
- each visit must be 100% transparent with 100% honesty
- if one of us is not happy with where this agreement is leading us to, stop ASAP
- safety first (this should be at the top)
We are both new to this and don't really know the terms and conventions. I felt like our relationship has completely elevated to a whole new level. I'm genuinely interested to see where it leads. Hope my girl can find her dream SP!
Dude you are screwed. Once she has tasted pussy and had a woman touch her she is totally going to join the other team. No man knows how to work the parts like a woman knows. You will be a footnote in her past.

You better start looking for another woman or simply exercise that 5% urge you have to suck dick. You are already gone.
 

jeffy87

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as you get older it gets harder to find the one. most women are taken. also as you get older most women expect you to have certain level of finanical success and assets. not all of us are going be balling
easier to just hire a SP . finding a gf or even a date is a lot work, drama , emotional rollercoaster, ghosting, games they play .......etc
 

TheBestClientEver!

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The reason I started seeing companions (SP) goes like this.....
One day when I was at the Y working out, I finished my set and was looking out the window and thinking it'd be nice to have a gf soon and enjoy a woman and all the types of things to enjoy, not just sex, but connecting with women and having contact with them. That was when I was 26years old, since then I have had one gf, but due to her mental health problems (not joking) it lasted a week, I also was super unlucky to have enough success with developing a bond with two diff girls and fell in love twice and got my heart broken to pieces and was unlucky enough again to think about them everyday for a year, one girl it was a year and a half. Pretty unlucky to not be able to get them out of your thoughts, and thier not thinking about you while their meeting other men. I've tried pretty hard, I went on enough dates to get the drift that dating is almost always a waste of time, it's akward and there's not much point since first impressions don't lend to the truth that chemistry can be built between you and your date over the course of more dates. Dating apps are also a waste of time. So now I'm 36 years old and I still haven't had a satisfying exp with having a gf, or enjoying sex with amazingly sexy women that I see everywhere I go. I realize with the reflection of looking back on my life that I can very well be typing this out when I'm 46(!) While still being in the same place: not having any women in my life because dating is unproductive, my social skills are shit and boring to women I geuss (not charming, not that confident even though I know I'm handsome and a good person) and not being at the right place and right time. I thought about how I could very well NEVER have the sexual desires I have satisfied, I could simply just not ever meet that one person to have those connections with, I could be jacking off for the rest of my life for fuck sakes, so I discovered one day I really am ok with trying to see a lady and pay for her time. I tried it, was like "holy shit that was intense" everything about the meet up process was a thrill that made me tremble, the texting, the process of waiting near her place and waiting for her to text you her address info, hearing the phone text message chirping away, my heart would pound because I just knew it was her.... and all the rest of the thrills along the way. Since I have started seeing companions i have had some pretty hot sex, that have been (usually) thoroughly satisfying. I have had sex with 9 (after this afternoon it will be 10) sexy gorgeous women, of all sorts of ages, sizes, and skin color in the past 2.5 months, I'm going broke, but I don't mind, I don't want to be the richest man in the graveyard anyways. I'm finally getting what I want in my life, women. It's not all about sex, socializing with them before and after is something I really like, the chatting is nice and I think about the girls I meet often and go back to continue our relationship as client and SP. It's been a fulfilling choice and I feel happier, healthier and not so alone and sad I'm missing out on women, because I'm not anymore. Having dates with companions has given me the chance to have the sex I want and the life I want, and I've actually maybe realized why I've been single for around 14 years, because the women in normal society are boring to me, they twirl thier hair around and don't do much else and it's boring to me.... it's hard to connect with girls or ladies, it's hard to go on dates, develop the chemistry with who you meet and also lots of girls just flirt with you for fun and it can be confusing.... Especially if the girl flirts five times you bump into each other and the convo always goes well then you ask them and and they say no..... It's ok I geuss but I don't like standing there like a fool. Seeing companions enriched my life, and their not the people I once thought they were. their nice freindly (most of the time) clean professional ladies(and there's no confusing games) that invite you into thier incall or condo and make you feel amazing, I think they should have a temple where we can worship them and they should get humanitarian awards...this has been a wonderful world to discover and I'm glad I have the perb website to talk about one of the best things in my life. Ok, that's a long enough message! Take care guys and enjoy the ladies!
 

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For me it's because I can be selfish and try new things and do things that my SO would never go for. I love oral sex, my SO doesn't. I like to occasionally stuck my cock in a womans ass, and that's a big no-go for my SO. When I'm out with an escort it's doing stuff that is a total no-go at home.

But my activity is really limited (maybe once every 2-3 months, if even, much less with COVID). After doing it for the last 5 years or so I've got a list of a few women I see regularly for different reasons, i.e.

Jewel is a goddamn rockstar when it comes to blowjobs.
Cherise was...special and would do all kinds of freaky shit, but she's fallen completely off the grid, last I heard she moved to Quebec finally like she's been saying she was going to for the last two years
Martini and her god damned sexy british accent. But she relocated to Chilliwack which is just too damn far for me to see her.

With two of my favorites out of reach I've been looking for new faces to put on my roster to fulfill my occasional desires.

I've tried probably 20 other escorts who have good reviews here and they just didn't do it for me. But that doesn't stop me from trying. I've also got a bucketlist of sex activities that I want to try and doing them with escorts is 100x easier than trying to pick up some random woman, convince her to try something I want to do, and not have it completely blow up in my face/backfire/turn into some stalker situation. In short, it's just simpler and easier and I enjoy it.
 
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PuntMeister

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I think they should have a temple where we can worship them and they should get humanitarian awards...
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^ Agree! SP’s not only enrich our lives, but society in general. With more safe access to quality ladies (thankyou internet, perb, et al), we have achieved sexual liberation and pooning abundance. I am grateful for that, and all the healty benefits forthcoming. Including:

- Less sexual longing and frustration for men

- Lower sex crime rates in society due to available Craving Release options

- Less violence, both domestic and in society at large (a drained dude is a happy dude)

- Less early divorce when the kids arrive and the river of spleandour dries up

- More shit eating grinz

- Less depression, and anxiety, stronger positive self-worth

- Less abuse of drugs, alcohol, video games, and less road rage

- Favourable re-distribution of working class wealth

-Longer intervals between oil changes

Just to name a few. Thank you ladies, you are saving society and building enlightenment.
 

g eazy

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The reason I started seeing companions (SP) goes like this.....
One day when I was at the Y working out, I finished my set and was looking out the window and thinking it'd be nice to have a gf soon and enjoy a woman and all the types of things to enjoy, not just sex, but connecting with women and having contact with them. That was when I was 26years old, since then I have had one gf, but due to her mental health problems (not joking) it lasted a week, I also was super unlucky to have enough success with developing a bond with two diff girls and fell in love twice and got my heart broken to pieces and was unlucky enough again to think about them everyday for a year, one girl it was a year and a half. Pretty unlucky to not be able to get them out of your thoughts, and thier not thinking about you while their meeting other men. I've tried pretty hard, I went on enough dates to get the drift that dating is almost always a waste of time, it's akward and there's not much point since first impressions don't lend to the truth that chemistry can be built between you and your date over the course of more dates. Dating apps are also a waste of time. So now I'm 36 years old and I still haven't had a satisfying exp with having a gf, or enjoying sex with amazingly sexy women that I see everywhere I go. I realize with the reflection of looking back on my life that I can very well be typing this out when I'm 46(!) While still being in the same place: not having any women in my life because dating is unproductive, my social skills are shit and boring to women I geuss (not charming, not that confident even though I know I'm handsome and a good person) and not being at the right place and right time. I thought about how I could very well NEVER have the sexual desires I have satisfied, I could simply just not ever meet that one person to have those connections with, I could be jacking off for the rest of my life for fuck sakes, so I discovered one day I really am ok with trying to see a lady and pay for her time. I tried it, was like "holy shit that was intense" everything about the meet up process was a thrill that made me tremble, the texting, the process of waiting near her place and waiting for her to text you her address info, hearing the phone text message chirping away, my heart would pound because I just knew it was her.... and all the rest of the thrills along the way. Since I have started seeing companions i have had some pretty hot sex, that have been (usually) thoroughly satisfying. I have had sex with 9 (after this afternoon it will be 10) sexy gorgeous women, of all sorts of ages, sizes, and skin color in the past 2.5 months, I'm going broke, but I don't mind, I don't want to be the richest man in the graveyard anyways. I'm finally getting what I want in my life, women. It's not all about sex, socializing with them before and after is something I really like, the chatting is nice and I think about the girls I meet often and go back to continue our relationship as client and SP. It's been a fulfilling choice and I feel happier, healthier and not so alone and sad I'm missing out on women, because I'm not anymore. Having dates with companions has given me the chance to have the sex I want and the life I want, and I've actually maybe realized why I've been single for around 14 years, because the women in normal society are boring to me, they twirl thier hair around and don't do much else and it's boring to me.... it's hard to connect with girls or ladies, it's hard to go on dates, develop the chemistry with who you meet and also lots of girls just flirt with you for fun and it can be confusing.... Especially if the girl flirts five times you bump into each other and the convo always goes well then you ask them and and they say no..... It's ok I geuss but I don't like standing there like a fool. Seeing companions enriched my life, and their not the people I once thought they were. their nice freindly (most of the time) clean professional ladies(and there's no confusing games) that invite you into thier incall or condo and make you feel amazing, I think they should have a temple where we can worship them and they should get humanitarian awards...this has been a wonderful world to discover and I'm glad I have the perb website to talk about one of the best things in my life. Ok, that's a long enough message! Take care guys and enjoy the ladies!
holy fuck, the number of people that actually like this.

this is everything that is wrong with seeing a SP. my dude you need to work on yourself.
 

PuntMeister

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holy fuck, the number of people that actually like this.

this is everything that is wrong with seeing a SP. my dude you need to work on yourself.
Disagree. Some paragraphs and page breaks would have enhanced the post, but I will happily read authentic heartfelt feelings over general criticisms any day.
 

g eazy

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Disagree. Some paragraphs and page breaks would have enhanced the post, but I will happily read authentic heartfelt feelings over general criticisms any day.
there's no doubt it is very heartfelt and i'm sure it spoke closely to many people here, that doesn't change the fact he has established and accepted unhealthy behaviour
 

wwb

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I’m active on another forum but like to see what’s going on in others parts of Canada - interesting thread. I’ve read all posts and my reason is a bit different from others.

Pretty simple for me - happily married, great family and career. Wife goes through menopause looses interest in sex, my best friend dies way too young - I decide I want to live life to fullest and have no regrets. Started seeing SPs on trips to Europe and South/ North America. I now stick to providers in Montreal and my home city and seem to enjoy Asians, mostly Koreans. I have this sexual inquisitiveness and freedom to satisfy myself probably weekly over the last 10-12 years. It’s been a great experience which has improved my marriage and overall happiness And outlook on life.
 

dave1

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I read all the posts. There's alot of good dudes on this board. All different kinds of dudes and all different kinds of reasons. Alot of the guys here that aren't in relationships would've made great partners if given a chance.

Sps I've met in this industry have been amazing people and I can't say enough good things about em. I hope they're all safe and get the life they dream of.

For me I do this because...
- life is short
- I was extremely shy and i guess making up for lost time?
- addictive personality. It's an adrenaline rush.
- gorgeous ladies (duh)
-boredom of life during covid brought me here. Sometimes I believe in fate.

I thought sps we're just on the street etc as perhaps back in the old days. Finding out all these beautiful women worked and not all were drug addicted types has been mind blowing.

I say that the time with SPs are times I'll never forget, so I never barter price. What's the price of a memory? They are human and deserve even more than their rates posted.

End of rant.
 
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I first started using SPs two years ago when I was 28. There were two reasons why I started seeing SPs:
1) I was sick of being a 28 year old virgin and not getting any affection. It was getting to the point where I was crying myself to sleep thinking that of my friends having girlfriends and me quite possibly never going to get one.
2) I was really curious if massage parlours really give “happy endings”
My first SP that I contacted was Serena, who is located in Winnipeg. It was kinda funny because I called her number and , being the nervous guy I was, I hang up the phone after 3 rings. She called me back 5 seconds later and I answered the phone. I decided then and there that I wasn’t going to back out of this deal. We made an arrangement to meet on a Wednesday night. When I arrived at her place she was wearing a Santa hat and a red and white furry robe (This was in December btw) When we got into her room I took off my clothes and she took off her clothes and I was immediately hard. I lied down on the bed and she gave me a massage. Her warm naked body against mine felt so good, it was just what I needed after the stress of work and loneliness. She got on top of me and I finally lost my V card. I didn’t come inside of her because I was diabetic (this was before I was diagnosed), but I didn’t manage to come when she started blowing me and giving me a hand job. Nonetheless I was a very happy man leaving her house.

I seen her a couple of times after before I was being diagnosed as a diabetic. I was being tested for diabetes because of a cut on my penis and it was taking long to heal. After being diagnosed I was given medication to treat it and my sexual performance actually improved. Now after living a active lifestyle for nearly two years, I became a healthier and happier person who gets his sexual urges satisfied every month with an SP. Most of the SPs I see now are regulars. Sometime in the future I would like to develope the skills to have sex with any woman I want without paying so much for it, but COVID is making that an impossibility at the moment. In the meantime though seeing SPs is a lot of fun and sex is always a guaranteed.
 

Mr Quim

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The beautiful Fraser Valley !

You meet some amazing people in this hobby. No strings attached!
...and the anticipation and date, definitely brighten up my day.


That pretty much encapsulates the intrigue of these Adventures !
There's very little regret for seeking out these Experiences in my Mind .
But, it is tough to top, those special Moments . You just have to savor them .

Mr Q.
 
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