How to Stop

[kauffman]

How is this statement even remotely even relevant to the post I made?

Or did you just pop up from under a bridge to Troll Perb?

LOL yes I guess I did. I think i read only part of the original statement and answered before finishing what I was reading. As for Trolling.... I'm not sure how that statement could be considered that unless I was writing it to a bunch of rapists. My point I'm guessing at the time was that pooning is not a bad thing... but yes, what I wrote had little to do with the direction of discussion. Wasnt paying attention. Forgive me for being irrelevant.

 

[PlayfulAlex]

Part One:

snip...If you get caught you can play the innocent or the fool saying it was a one time thing or whatever. If she loves you she will make herself believe your lie. Or she won't , she will get mad and then you will have to consider that you may have lost her. If the thought of loosing her doesn't stop you then you don't really care about this potential situation so you actually don't have a problem, you just think you have one.

Some people just like testing the boundaries of comfort and safety. They know that a certain activity could have dire life consequences, but continue it anyway, in the hopes that they can enjoy the thrill, and never have to deal with any painful fallout. It's like many other dangerous activities that we humans engage in on a regular basis.

It's the thrill of seeing the new young thing (deep throating you), plus the stealth involved in making the secret appointment and keeping it a secret, the acting which ensues when you walk in the door saying, "Hi Honey, how was your day?" as if nothing out of the ordinary happened in yours, even though you just got your brains thoroughly fucked out...this is why you can't stop (and honestly, why you don't want to, at least not yet)!

 

[PlayfulAlex]

Part Two:

Identity: your pooning activity validates an identity (or identities) you have (or want to have) of yourself.

Double Agent, no one will ever know (think Truth and Lies, with Arnold and Jamie)
Stealthy Criminal, who successfully evades the law
Hollywood Actor, who can flip from one role to the next on a fucking dime, what talent
Porn King, who can go at her like a madman, without having to be thinking about the kids, etc (domicile)

None of this is bad, and I'm not mad or trying to make you feel like a crook. You do what you do because you do it. But it is interesting, watching someone wrestle with an issue that they say they want to deal with or correct, except that they don't, until they do, which is obviously not just yet, vanvisitor1!

Real life is so fucking boring, you know what I mean? Honestly, without pooning and everything that goes with it, what thrill would a guy have to look forward to?

 

[sevenofnine]

maybe this makes sense or will help, not sure but here goes.

For awhile I felt just lost in this hobby it consumed me, for like a couple of years.
It was pretty much my every waking moment and thought.

I just didn't like the way I felt.
I felt I needed to quit.

But it wasn't; that.


It was who I was ,

I have hobbies or had, things that interested me, passions. reading cycling drawing etc etc.
And this hobby took me to such a point where I couldn't focus do the things I enjoyed doing, things that made me, me.

It wasn't that I needed to quit,

I just needed to find the old me.

Do the things I always did, always enjoyed and focus on them while I was doing them.

It took me a year or longer to get back to the old me, not quite there yet.

I still poon, but no more standing appointment,
I have to think about what I want to do, phone her up see if we can manage,

Almost as much as did before but sometimes I just pass.

But the point is I have my life back, I do the things I always did,
Before I make an appointment, I actually just don't blindly follow my emotions or my prick. I take some time and think is this what I want to do.

Most of the time I do what I have. see her, but, sometimes I don't,
and it is just oh well.


Maybe you don't need to quit,
Just have a life filled with other things, and sex is just part of it, sex with an sp is only one very small part of it.

 

[Aleister Crowley]

15 years and 15 posts ,,,,hmmmmm?

15 yrs - 15 post - 300 sp's and no reviews !!!