Extra's with a regular indy sp question please.

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There’s nothing for you to do. Thank her for her time, say goodbye, and move on. We do what we want with our bodies and charge what we want. Don’t take it personally.
Some people whine about everything. But I am guilty of that too. SKOR messed with my head above but at least I am over it.
 
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While clearly the increase in price is pretty dramatic (80%), it seems you are as concerned with the lack of explanation and what appears to be a pretty cold approach to informing you. I would be similarly concerned if a financial advisor, doctor or lawyer sprung price changes without explanation. I see relational exchanges different from one time purchases regardless of industry. There is an expectation for an explanation and some recognition that it might have a negative influence on you. my conclusion is like many others in that it sounds like a great time (covid not withstanding) to seek out a lady who is more able to deliver on your physical and social needs.
 

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I didn't refuse to pay I don't do that. what happened was a few months ago she decided to tell me that there was a minimum to see her, I just said thanks for letting me know and thats it and didn't set an appointment with her. the next day she texts me back saying she would still see me under the old terms, so i set an appointment.
as another example: just last week, she asked to see me for a 2h date, I said sorry I could only do 1h. she insisted for a bit then, a few hours passed and she said 1h was fine.

now with this these extra's. I have not said anything other than I read what she said. late last night as expected she texts me if i will see her this week and tells me when she can. I have not replied.

yes there is more going on...she is actually retired and only seeing regulars now, but I suspect its mainly me since she is after me more often now to set dates.

the last meeting we had we had a little episode. I took her shopping, and we got back to the hotel late, we were about to have our private time and she says there is only 10min left and have to hurry up. I was a bit shocked by this and lost my mood so I got dressed and didn't want to continue and gave her donation. she insisted to ask me whats wrong I just told her I like her alot and I don't like to rush and take my time I said it many times. anyways, I am pretty sure these extras are a retaliation for this. There are a few times in past she would tell me I can't go down on her anymore, then amazingly a few dates later during a meeting, she would tell me it was ok to go down on her.
its unbelievable sometimes...

I'm pretty sure if I don't book her soon, and then tell her its because I don't have the budget for all these extras but I would like to still do them. I am pretty sure a few hours after saying this she will come back and tell me its ok extras are included for now.


You cannot "politely refuse to pay" a woman for her services.

Young girl? Condescending there.

It can't be too much of a shock if it has been ongoing.
She has been giving you signals and you are not picking up on them.
We are only reading one side of this and there may be a lot more going on.
Move on, it's better for both of you.
 
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I can’t even begin with this. It sounds like you need to take a step back from the fantasy together and clearly decide the nature of your relationship and what the boundaries are.
This is a HUGE mess.

I didn't refuse to pay I don't do that. what happened was a few months ago she decided to tell me that there was a minimum to see her, I just said thanks for letting me know and thats it and didn't set an appointment with her. the next day she texts me back saying she would still see me under the old terms, so i set an appointment.
as another example: just last week, she asked to see me for a 2h date, I said sorry I could only do 1h. she insisted for a bit then, a few hours passed and she said 1h was fine.

now with this these extra's. I have not said anything other than I read what she said. late last night as expected she texts me if i will see her this week and tells me when she can. I have not replied.

yes there is more going on...she is actually retired and only seeing regulars now, but I suspect its mainly me since she is after me more often now to set dates.

the last meeting we had we had a little episode. I took her shopping, and we got back to the hotel late, we were about to have our private time and she says there is only 10min left and have to hurry up. I was a bit shocked by this and lost my mood so I got dressed and didn't want to continue and gave her donation. she insisted to ask me whats wrong I just told her I like her alot and I don't like to rush and take my time I said it many times. anyways, I am pretty sure these extras are a retaliation for this. There are a few times in past she would tell me I can't go down on her anymore, then amazingly a few dates later during a meeting, she would tell me it was ok to go down on her.
its unbelievable sometimes...

I'm pretty sure if I don't book her soon, and then tell her its because I don't have the budget for all these extras but I would like to still do them. I am pretty sure a few hours after saying this she will come back and tell me its ok extras are included for now.
 

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I can’t even begin with this. It sounds like you need to take a step back from the fantasy together and clearly decide the nature of your relationship and what the boundaries are.
This is a HUGE mess.
I agree with this. It sounds like too much drama between your SP/client relationship. This kind of “extras” is not what you want to get in an one hour business transaction. Since she has retired, let her retire for good and move on.
 

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Pack up. move on.
Remember the good times and forget the bad.
 

masterpoonhunter

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Good god man.
This went from being a good overall interesting thread to a fucking train wreck.
If you really want this kind of drama, ask her to marry you. You can then get that shit all the time.
 

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Good god man.
This went from being a good overall interesting thread to a fucking train wreck.
If you really want this kind of drama, ask her to marry you. You can then get that shit all the time.
Are you kidding me??? If he marries her it will cost him ten times more. The only sensible thing to do is to trade her in for a newer model. Less mileage and less baggage.
 
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Hi, I have seen a indy sp for over a year, the other day she sent me a message that certain things we used to do are now extra and I have to pay more. (Daty, Dato, foot play... all extras) I have been paying her regular donation and have found that to be my limit you know? but now with all these extras that I like to do at our meetings, it has put it over my budget to be honest, and I dont think I can afford it anymore. and I am so used to doing these extra's now that I don't have the feeling to continue without doing them. I am honestly a bit hurt that she has introduced these new costs, but I have not said anything to her about it yet.

Can I ask advice on what I should do? how should I move forward?
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Hi, I have seen a indy sp for over a year, the other day she sent me a message that certain things we used to do are now extra and I have to pay more. (Daty, Dato, foot play... all extras) I have been paying her regular donation and have found that to be my limit you know? but now with all these extras that I like to do at our meetings, it has put it over my budget to be honest, and I dont think I can afford it anymore. and I am so used to doing these extra's now that I don't have the feeling to continue without doing them. I am honestly a bit hurt that she has introduced these new costs, but I have not said anything to her about it yet.

Can I ask advice on what I should do? how should I move forward?
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