Ever think guys, you might have been the one we warned the other girls about
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Rockky
I have read this thread, and your attitude seems to be that
IT IS FOR SALE.
Yes and no. It can be for sale in a wham bam sort of way. If you want it to be, you can buy access to various holes on an SP.
If you think of it in a more "facillitator way". As in the donation facillitates your opportunity to get with the lady. But you should be working for it a little to help the session be better.
There is no risk that you won't score. But getting a more involved intimate session should depend on your attitude.
Most SPs that I see are at the least nice and friendly people. So are a bit more cold and jaded than I like. I don't need to treat them like I want to marry them, but I do treat sex like a mutually enjoyable sport. Her having a good time is the object of the game.
I have read this thread, and your attitude seems to be that
IT IS FOR SALE.
Yes and no. It can be for sale in a wham bam sort of way. If you want it to be, you can buy access to various holes on an SP.
If you think of it in a more "facillitator way". As in the donation facillitates your opportunity to get with the lady. But you should be working for it a little to help the session be better.
There is no risk that you won't score. But getting a more involved intimate session should depend on your attitude.
Most SPs that I see are at the least nice and friendly people. So are a bit more cold and jaded than I like. I don't need to treat them like I want to marry them, but I do treat sex like a mutually enjoyable sport. Her having a good time is the object of the game.
If you're willing to pay enough - and I mean no limit, you can find a welcome sign on any hole on the female anatomy.ace85 said:
The truth be told...
actually in spite of all my bitchen I have to agree with you. I travel to van a lot and see four or five girls every trip, and all of them have been really, really great. I have no complaints at all. The last couple were Hailey Jordan and Ophelia Blakk and they were both sexy, adventurous, fun women. They rocked my world. REALLY!
Even the not so great ones (see my post on Keysha) were at the very least interesting. Vancouver girls rock and that's the truth!
actually in spite of all my bitchen I have to agree with you. I travel to van a lot and see four or five girls every trip, and all of them have been really, really great. I have no complaints at all. The last couple were Hailey Jordan and Ophelia Blakk and they were both sexy, adventurous, fun women. They rocked my world. REALLY!
Even the not so great ones (see my post on Keysha) were at the very least interesting. Vancouver girls rock and that's the truth!
ace85 said:
[/QUOTE]rockyy said:
Excuse me ???????????? What makes you think for one minute that your job is more of a job then being an SP? I personally found this business to be very difficult when I was still doing it. It's bloody time consuming to get dolled up and try to look your utmost best, not to mention the space in which an SP works out of should be spotless ect., ect. lest someone say a shitty thing on this board if the smallest of things are not quite up to par.
I have to agree with Tiffany that you guys are spoiled. This is the oldest proffesion in the world. Always been around, always will be. Somewhere along the line the bar was lifted...and imo things are out of hand. Clients expecting the god damn world. It certainly has gone from selling your body to selling your soul. Thing is the bar didn't need to get lifted, because there will always be SP's and there will always be men willing to pay for it. Thats' not to say the pooners should not recieve very good service. Pooners should recieve good service, but I personally feel too much is expected from an SP. I've actually read posts on this board of clients getting pissed because the SP didn't have an orgasm. Give me a break!!!!!! That's just one example. I could list many more but I won't go there.
Enough said!
Paris/Caryn
Thanx Paris, only one who actually works this job would understand.
Rockyy, I didn't say I didn't like my job or appreciate the money that I make, I was trying to say that majority of the girls in this business are worth a whole lot more and have more brains than it takes just to bend over and let you ram it in! All jobs are real and have their ups and downs, believe it or not, I'm completely exhausted at the end of the day.
And as for still working, I'm trying to open my own business, and what do you know, that takes money!! Tiff
Rockyy, I didn't say I didn't like my job or appreciate the money that I make, I was trying to say that majority of the girls in this business are worth a whole lot more and have more brains than it takes just to bend over and let you ram it in! All jobs are real and have their ups and downs, believe it or not, I'm completely exhausted at the end of the day.
And as for still working, I'm trying to open my own business, and what do you know, that takes money!! Tiff
The true GFE, or 'No honey, I don't think you're fat!'
ok, ok...ya know Tiffany if you feel that strongly about it then there must be some truth to what you say. I'm not there during your sessions, (just my own), so I can't really talk knowledgeably about your experiences, and let's face it you've had a heckuva lot more of them than me ... but ya know I have a point too, which is this: The girls have a lot more control over a session that they're letting on in these posts. You say you don't want to 'bend over and have me ram in it'? But Tiff, in many cases that's exactly what a lot of girls DO want...because then it's over and they can roll the guy out of the door. Some girls are like that, and you can't tell me they aren't because I know better...and its not a matter of my personal hygiene or any other legitimate reasons, it's just business. Not all the girls are as nice as you, and not all the guys are as nice as me. I never ask or demand anything, but I have my radar up at all times and if I get a vibe or two, then I'm not likely to blow it by doing anything crude like haggling over dough or ... whatever. Just no way would an RG (regular guy) ever, ever do that. And we're not as dumb as we look. We get that vibe within the first forty seconds of conversation ...whether it's on the phone or at the door, and we can tell how this is gonna go.
And also, with regard to women having to sell their souls to their guys. Well, it wasn't a guy who started the idea of a GFE..that's a marketing strategy, and now the girls are stuck providing them. I'm still not sure even what it is. I don't want to kiss you, or snuggle with you, or whisper sweet nothings in your ear. If I wanted a girlfriend experience, I'd get a girlfriend. And anyway to me a GFE - or 'girlfriend experience', is far from pleasant. To mean, a 'GFE' is spending 45 minutes in the mddle of the night explaining to someone you met six months ago where I was last night, or how I define commitment, or why I don't think you're fat.
Heh heh..just had to slide that in there.
ok, ok...ya know Tiffany if you feel that strongly about it then there must be some truth to what you say. I'm not there during your sessions, (just my own), so I can't really talk knowledgeably about your experiences, and let's face it you've had a heckuva lot more of them than me ... but ya know I have a point too, which is this: The girls have a lot more control over a session that they're letting on in these posts. You say you don't want to 'bend over and have me ram in it'? But Tiff, in many cases that's exactly what a lot of girls DO want...because then it's over and they can roll the guy out of the door. Some girls are like that, and you can't tell me they aren't because I know better...and its not a matter of my personal hygiene or any other legitimate reasons, it's just business. Not all the girls are as nice as you, and not all the guys are as nice as me. I never ask or demand anything, but I have my radar up at all times and if I get a vibe or two, then I'm not likely to blow it by doing anything crude like haggling over dough or ... whatever. Just no way would an RG (regular guy) ever, ever do that. And we're not as dumb as we look. We get that vibe within the first forty seconds of conversation ...whether it's on the phone or at the door, and we can tell how this is gonna go.
And also, with regard to women having to sell their souls to their guys. Well, it wasn't a guy who started the idea of a GFE..that's a marketing strategy, and now the girls are stuck providing them. I'm still not sure even what it is. I don't want to kiss you, or snuggle with you, or whisper sweet nothings in your ear. If I wanted a girlfriend experience, I'd get a girlfriend. And anyway to me a GFE - or 'girlfriend experience', is far from pleasant. To mean, a 'GFE' is spending 45 minutes in the mddle of the night explaining to someone you met six months ago where I was last night, or how I define commitment, or why I don't think you're fat.
Heh heh..just had to slide that in there.
Tiffany said:
Read again Rockyy
I didn't say that I didn't like to be bent over and get rammed, I stated that there's more to us girls than what we do, and it's alot harder than you think.
Don't get me wrong, you sound nice enough and you don't have to explain yourself to me, however you like your sessions, that's how you should have them. My only argument was that you said we didn't work and the majority of us do. We all have reasons for being here, for some it's the money and others it's the pure enjoyment of it. We each have opinions of each other and whenever we decide to tell each other about themselves it always gets confused.
Anyways, I'm all out of opinions,so until next time, Tiff.
I didn't say that I didn't like to be bent over and get rammed, I stated that there's more to us girls than what we do, and it's alot harder than you think.
Don't get me wrong, you sound nice enough and you don't have to explain yourself to me, however you like your sessions, that's how you should have them. My only argument was that you said we didn't work and the majority of us do. We all have reasons for being here, for some it's the money and others it's the pure enjoyment of it. We each have opinions of each other and whenever we decide to tell each other about themselves it always gets confused.
Anyways, I'm all out of opinions,so until next time, Tiff.
I don't see a problem with that.zoe_zee said:
I'm new to this hobby but prior to any meeting, I take a shower and clean everywhere, especially my butt, and I brush my teeth, use mouthwash, put on deodorant and aftershave.
Dispite this one SP told me to take a shower immediately after I entered her place. The only reason I was slightly annoyed was because I phoned her an hour earlier and told her I had just finished going for a jog and I would meet her after taking a shower..so to me it was a time waster.
But I wasn't offended.
The first SP I saw, which was about 3 weeks ago, didn't care if I took a shower while I was with her, but probably knew I had just taken one.
BTW, I also always bring something ie a bottle of Irish Cream, flowers, chocolates. Seems to me it starts a date with a respectiveful tone. This doesn't mean I expect anything extra, rather it simply means I thank her for wanting to be intimate with me, even if money is involved and it's my way of assisting the chemistry necessary to make it a memorable experience. FWIW, I'm two out of four on this but the connection with one girls was worth all of it.
Bottom line.
This is business based on mutual respect. Not taking a shower before an intimate encounter with a stranger is disrespectful and therefore, insisting on a shower isn't impolite and in fact if you join him, might end up being very memorable.
BTW, just to comment on the many other interesting topics on this thread I respect all Sp's even one's I haven't had a particular good experience with. Think about this: a girl (who has been prescreened by the guy) has to see someone who she may not find attractive and immediate create some kind of chemistry for an intimate experience. She's judged on her face, boobs, butt, body fat, attitude and how well she performs. I have a very stressful profession, but I'd go broke if this was the criteria on which I was being paid, and it's a god damn personal criteria on which to judge someone on. So I think a little sensitivity is in order when you're disappointed and graditude when it all comes together.
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