Ever think guys, you might have been the one we warned the other girls about

[paigesplaymate]

Ever thought you might be a "she had to take it for the team" kinda guys.
I have spent the last couple days reading posts and just don't understand where some of your guys heads are. You paying to spend time with this lady or are you paying her to like it. Trust me when I say thats its not offen that we mind but every once and awhile we wish we could be someplace else.
Ladies I have here have clients that are in total love with them and call over and over to see the ladies. Its sometimes takes everything they got to walk into the appointment. Common guys you have to realize were in this for our futures and if were lucky we will meet a few nice guys along the way.
Im not commenting that anyone is smelly or has anything wrong with them but sometimes like girls you all seem to forget you might have your faults and bad days too.
YOU guys all think this would be the best job in the world. If I had a nickle everytime a guy told me if he was a chick he would be retired worth millions. I was talking to Gina in regards to this and maybe this is something you guys can relate to. Your hired on as a male escort, you need the money and know some of the clients review you. A couple walks in she is about 300 lbs and he just wants to pleasure you as he has been fantasizing about for years. They shower, they smell good, they pay well. How would you respond?
How about just some toothless, old lady comes in and wants you? You just got off the phone with your wife and she just spent your car payment at the casino?

You guys never know situations these ladies are in, your quick to judge.
A girl might be totally different the second time you see her.
Ask Shadow, he meet me as Cali, when I left I didnt things went that well. He come online and give me 10 10 10. Went back and thought things went better the second time and he called to ask me what was wrong that day. HELL I didnt even know. 3rd time well I think we both agree... hehehe Was great.
Not everyone is all on the same wave lenght, hell half of them are not on the same wave lengh with there wives yet expect someone to know just what they like right off the bat.

 

[mick_eight]

Ever thought you might be a "she had to take it for the team" kinda guys.
I have spent the last couple days reading posts and just don't understand where some of your guys heads are. You paying to spend time with this lady or are you paying her to like it. Trust me when I say thats its not offen that we mind but every once and awhile we wish we could be someplace else.
Ladies I have here have clients that are in total love with them and call over and over to see the ladies. Its sometimes takes everything they got to walk into the appointment. Common guys you have to realize were in this for our futures and if were lucky we will meet a few nice guys along the way.
Im not commenting that anyone is smelly or has anything wrong with them but sometimes like girls you all seem to forget you might have your faults and bad days too.
YOU guys all think this would be the best job in the world. If I had a nickle everytime a guy told me if he was a chick he would be retired worth millions. I was talking to Gina in regards to this and maybe this is something you guys can relate to. Your hired on as a male escort, you need the money and know some of the clients review you. A couple walks in she is about 300 lbs and he just wants to pleasure you as he has been fantasizing about for years. They shower, they smell good, they pay well. How would you respond?
How about just some toothless, old lady comes in and wants you? You just got off the phone with your wife and she just spent your car payment at the casino?

You guys never know situations these ladies are in, your quick to judge.
A girl might be totally different the second time you see her.
Ask Shadow, he meet me as Cali, when I left I didnt things went that well. He come online and give me 10 10 10. Went back and thought things went better the second time and he called to ask me what was wrong that day. HELL I didnt even know. 3rd time well I think we both agree... hehehe Was great.
Not everyone is all on the same wave lenght, hell half of them are not on the same wave lengh with there wives yet expect someone to know just what they like right off the bat.

I have to agree ,working as a service provider sucks .I had one job where I worked with public all day,but I had option of corp end of job also and soon left other forever, you have my best wishes

 

[delta9]

Very good point Paige.

I can't say I've had a bad session yet. Some were better than others but I always remember what part of my body led me in on a leash in the first place and it wasn't my heart. Treat every session like a first date - look good, smell good, be nice, be respectful and accept limitations. Enjoy the session, smile and say thanks before you go your merry little way.

If I have a session that I'm not overwhelmed with, so what? Maybe she had a bad client before me, or maybe because the fact I look like a troll and have a hump on my back with scabs all over isn't her cup of tea. Chances are I still got the basics of what I was looking for or needing that day.

I recall one of the gals on here mentioning a while back that SP's should have a review site for us clients. Now that would be a very interesting read, don't you think?

 

[chiefwiggum]

Paige is bang-on here....

We sometimes forget the intimate nature of this industry, and lose sight of the fact that it's a VERY VERY personal service these ladies are providing.

It's easy for us to think that it must be easy playing around and having sex for a living - because all we ever see are gorgeous ladies with beautiful bodies - having walked away from or refused the ones we didn't like (for whatever reason).

Paige's example of the 300 lb woman puts everything in perspective - imagine having your paycheque depend on having to provide intimate sexual services to people you find repulsive (either physically or otherwise) - and provide the illusion you're enjoying it. And if you don't do this to the client's satisfaction (a level that changes every hour), you risk coming off as rude, or having a terrible attitude - and having a poor review on a board like this, etc etc.

I can't imagine having to go down on some 250 lb fat chick who smells bad, just to make $200. And having every 3rd or 4th client to be like that - my God

I like to think that the SP's I frequent are lucky to have me as a client - I'm built well, I take care of myself, practice good hygiene, and go out of my way to be respectful. Knowing that she has to provide the same level of service to some 500 lb slob makes me respect the profession even more.

Granted, the SP's make mega-bucks to endure these inconveniences, just like Dentists put up with bad breath and bitchy patients, lawyers put up with dumb, demanding clients, etc - but you gotta admit, these ladies work awfully hard for those bucks.

 

[paigesplaymate]

Thanks guys I really was thinking I was gonna be hated for this thread. Glad someone else see's things the way some of us girls do.
Here I tell the girls to try and get to know the clients. Its harder in a mp I would think cause there is no surroundings to leave hints to conversation. In a hour or two its really hard to realize whats on the inside of some people.

The nicest people I meet in my life are through these phone lines, I just dont realize it right away, it takes time like any working or personal relationship to sometimes realize it.

Mac Guy is another example I could use, first seeing him he had so many questions and I was a little nervous about seeing him seeing I have my own insecurities with my body! Wasnt till I chatted with him and got to know him I realized he was a kinda neat guy and now every time he calls I can tell whats on his mind just by his tone of voice.

Alot of the ladies you guys talk about are young, they don't have alot of experience. I know at 24 I thought I knew alot. These girls as you know have loads more to learn.

You have to remember guys what some of these ladies do to try and make you happy, I have talked to ladies who offer BBBJ and CIM, you honestly think they like the thought of a drinkin leakin pecker in there mouth. Nope its about the money for alot of them. Its because board like this force some women to comprimize themselves because of the dollars.

We can like our job but when you can't win with everyone.

 

[trawler]

Paige, how could anyone hate ...

a Gal with eyes like you ?

More seriously, the strength of this Board, the Edmonton Forum in particular, is that many of the PERBerts want to know how the Girls feel. It makes the Hobby more interesting when you are playing with personalties.

Reviews will always come in three flavors:

1. Praise - the easiest and most fun to write;
2. OK - nothing to get excited about; and
3. Caution - consider staying away.

Most PERBerts know that the Girls have us ranked too. I have always known my own "book" as "being hard to get off". I have been told the "book" on several other PERBerts and will not mention any names so as to not hurt those who are sensitive.

This is a very personal Hobby/Business and those of us that take the comments and criticisms as constructive, get a lot of good Intel from the Board.

Bottom line, many thanks for your input and many of us will always listen even if we do not agree. Besides, your eyes ...

 

[ace85]

OK I am curious

It is funny, I have been saying this in most of my comments for a while.

Where are all the guys complaining that the SP needs to suck it up and like it.

Thanks Paige, this is my point exactly. If people want to try different SPs becasue of Variety they really need to recognize that a good or great session will be hit or miss.

Going in to see a girl based on the fact that some one else likes her is risky.

Formulate your own opinion and use your brain. THis is especially relevant in the MP environment where you meet the girl before you agree to pay anything.

 

[rockyy]

Thanks guys I really was thinking I was gonna be hated for this thread. Glad someone else see's things the way some of us girls do.
Here I tell the girls to try and get to know the clients. Its harder in a mp I would think cause there is no surroundings to leave hints to conversation. In a hour or two its really hard to realize whats on the inside of some people.

The nicest people I meet in my life are through these phone lines, I just dont realize it right away, it takes time like any working or personal relationship to sometimes realize it.

Mac Guy is another example I could use, first seeing him he had so many questions and I was a little nervous about seeing him seeing I have my own insecurities with my body! Wasnt till I chatted with him and got to know him I realized he was a kinda neat guy and now every time he calls I can tell whats on his mind just by his tone of voice.

Alot of the ladies you guys talk about are young, they don't have alot of experience. I know at 24 I thought I knew alot. These girls as you know have loads more to learn.

You have to remember guys what some of these ladies do to try and make you happy, I have talked to ladies who offer BBBJ and CIM, you honestly think they like the thought of a drinkin leakin pecker in there mouth. Nope its about the money for alot of them. Its because board like this force some women to comprimize themselves because of the dollars.

We can like our job but when you can't win with everyone.

Awwwwwwwwwwww, Paige cry me a river, ok? You make it sound like every other guy who walks in your door is a complete loser, and the girls are just these poor, misunderstood waifs. Aren't most of us kind of decent, stand up guys who don't mind paying for value? I mean, I'm a typical guy who sees SPs, and I'm not a drooling gorilla or a mongoloid. In fact I'm always very respectful and polite.

 

[paigesplaymate]

Awwwwwwwwwwww, Paige cry me a river, ok? You make it sound like every other guy who walks in your door is a complete loser, and the girls are just these poor, misunderstood waifs. Aren't most of us kind of decent, stand up guys who don't mind paying for value? I mean, I'm a typical guy who sees SPs, and I'm not a drooling gorilla or a mongoloid. In fact I'm always very respectful and polite.

Im not saying every other guy is this way but the I would say 1/3 isnt someone who is as respectful as you may try to claim to be. Girls are not all misunderstood, some have there shit together, just depends on the lady and whats happening in her life.
Most of you guys are decent, most of you guys are prof pooners on here. Im talking about the 33% that aren't. Is there a typical guy who see's SP's, I dont think so, many types of personalities, many backrounds. Your making it seem like I hate all clients, which isnt true, I think you need to go back and re-read the post.

What I was trying to say is that no matter what is written on here or how a person feels after they seen someone. It doesnt mean that its the nature of the lady. For all you know she could be laying there thinking she forgot to put Pitt stick on one armpit and you come online telling everyone she was cold and rushed you. Maybe she didnt want the label stinky cause she was in a rush. These are all examples.

Your jump to conclusion and assumptions of what I was saying is another good example. Just how you come off in your comments would make me wonder.
You think your clean and respectful. Open yourself up for public review and let the ladies pick you apart. Im sure many men would be shocked, all of a sudden it wouldnt be funny to hear who has the most ass hair or or let one go in the middle of the session.
Not all money is good money.

Go back read again, rather read some of my other posts. Im the first to say some of the nicest people I have meet have been through this. I commented on how more clients cared to call than family when I had been in the hosp.

 

[wtflmfao]

Cry me a River Too

Paige, if it bothers you that much, you can always quit, or be more selective of your clients. Seems to me the point of this board is to share peoples views on various pooning experiences. If the SP's can't stand to hear their clients opinions, they probably need a different occupation. IMHO.

 

[paigesplaymate]

Paige, if it bothers you that much, you can always quit, or be more selective of your clients. Seems to me the point of this board is to share peoples views on various pooning experiences. If the SP's can't stand to hear their clients opinions, they probably need a different occupation. IMHO.

Do you honestly think Im talking about myself?
Rita Mcneil probley gets it more than I do, In massage I don't think the girls would be able to refuse every 4-5 guy. I don't know what the managers would say to that. Maybe some other ladies could answer that.
Nothing wrong with sharing opinions but everyone needs to remember its only "there experience" and it might be different with the next person.

I started this thread from the comments men make about not clicking being a excuse.
Time is another excuse I seem to see alot, can the girl help it if she is good at her job, or you just have no control. Common guys, SMRT as you all are Im sure you realize some of you are just complaining to hear yourself type.

 

[paigesplaymate]

A couple of guys on here I would love to see own a place and work.
The best is when they talk about unattractive SPS and how they cant wait to get the hell out of there or they bail on site. Would 200 bucks be enough for you to screw that person you seen. What if you knew she was coming online to write a review on you?
Mean while she was clean, had money, and said please.

Trawler said it best, he hears the stories of some of the men on here but doesnt say anything because he wouldnt want a few of thems feelings hurt. Now sit back and wonder as your talking if your one of the guys he has heard about.....

Things that make ya go Hmmmmmmmm

 

[FuZzYknUckLeS]

Paige, if it bothers you that much, you can always quit, or be more selective of your clients. Seems to me the point of this board is to share peoples views on various pooning experiences. If the SP's can't stand to hear their clients opinions, they probably need a different occupation. IMHO.

Couldn't agree more. If it bothers them that much, they could always quit and run an agency, where they could exploit others that feel as shitty about their jobs. Nice thing about that is, they wouldn't be seeing clients anymore, so they could shoot off their mouth on boards, slammin' those guys that they had to put up with all that time when they were actually providing, without having to deal with losing biz over it.

 

[paigesplaymate]

Couldn't agree more. If it bothers them that much, they could always quit and run an agency, where they could exploit others that feel as shitty about their jobs. Nice thing about that is, they wouldn't be seeing clients anymore, so they could shoot off their mouth on boards, slammin' those guys that they had to put up with all that time when they were actually providing, without having to deal with losing biz over it.

MOM is that you? Shhhhhhhhhhh you werent spose to tell everyone!!!!
Shit man I paid some bitch 5.99 a min on one of these fortune teller lines and she wasnt this good!!!!!!!!! *evilGRinZz*

 

[Steve Ray]

Nobody is forcing the girls to do anything

If I recall correctly all the girls in the profession chooses to do so. Nobody forces them to do anything.

If the guy repulses you simply refuse service. I would much rather have the girl refuse service with me than give me a bad session.

For the record I keep myself in great shape and treat the girls with utmost respect.

 

[paigesplaymate]

If I recall correctly all the girls in the profession chooses to do so. Nobody forces them to do anything.

If the guy repulses you simply refuse service. I would much rather have the girl refuse service with me than give me a bad session.

For the record I keep myself in great shape and treat the girls with utmost respect.

Your right the girl chooses what she does, I have been in situations where I use to work that didnt accept me walking out on someone. I've hauled my share of men into the shower just cause I didnt want to make them feel bad.
Im not a total bitch and would never refuse someone based on looks if they were clean and tell mannered.

 

[Bobo The Rabbit]

If that girl who worked for you hated taking that guys money so much, why dident you just tell him that shes booked when he called? or tell him stright out that she dosent want to see you any more?


At the end of a session no matter how crass, smelly, rude a client has been the SP still walks away with 200 in thier pocket, the client just walks away with a limp...

 

[paigesplaymate]

If that girl who worked for you hated taking that guys money so much, why dident you just tell him that shes booked when he called? or tell him stright out that she dosent want to see you any more?


At the end of a session no matter how crass, smelly, rude a client has been the SP still walks away with 200 in thier pocket, the client just walks away with a limp...

Just a limp???? hmmmm what was the goal???? I have done that but she has financial goals and the man sees her at times 5 times a week.

 

[rockyy]

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm... actually I never said I was 'clean', Paige. You're giving me too much credit. As for letting the ladies pick me apart, well that privilege is kinda reserved for paying customers ... not that I think for one minute I ain't picked apart the minute my back is turned anyway. I don't care....what someone thinks of me is really none of my business.

Ya know it doesn't what the business is, whether it's sex or movies or the local 7/11 where you buy the newspaper every morning, the 'paying' customer has a right to criticise. That right is bought and paid for.

I'm sorry if you have clients with nose hairs or bum trouble or if you were given an unfair review. It happens in life, my dear. It happens to me occasionally in my business. It happens to all of us. Not just to you and your friends.

Im not saying every other guy is this way but the I would say 1/3 isnt someone who is as respectful as you may try to claim to be. Girls are not all misunderstood, some have there shit together, just depends on the lady and whats happening in her life.
Most of you guys are decent, most of you guys are prof pooners on here. Im talking about the 33% that aren't. Is there a typical guy who see's SP's, I dont think so, many types of personalities, many backrounds. Your making it seem like I hate all clients, which isnt true, I think you need to go back and re-read the post.

What I was trying to say is that no matter what is written on here or how a person feels after they seen someone. It doesnt mean that its the nature of the lady. For all you know she could be laying there thinking she forgot to put Pitt stick on one armpit and you come online telling everyone she was cold and rushed you. Maybe she didnt want the label stinky cause she was in a rush. These are all examples.

Your jump to conclusion and assumptions of what I was saying is another good example. Just how you come off in your comments would make me wonder.
You think your clean and respectful. Open yourself up for public review and let the ladies pick you apart. Im sure many men would be shocked, all of a sudden it wouldnt be funny to hear who has the most ass hair or or let one go in the middle of the session.
Not all money is good money.

Go back read again, rather read some of my other posts. Im the first to say some of the nicest people I have meet have been through this. I commented on how more clients cared to call than family when I had been in the hosp.

 

[Maury Beniowski]

Brief and to the point...

If I recall correctly all the girls in the profession chooses to do so. Nobody forces them to do anything.

If the guy repulses you simply refuse service. I would much rather have the girl refuse service with me than give me a bad session.

For the record I keep myself in great shape and treat the girls with utmost respect.

Well put Steve...