One-Timers Vs. Regulars

[PuntMeister]

Do the ladies prefer One-Time clients over Repeat pooners? If you had ten new gents come for a session next week, what % would you want to become regulars, repeats, once & done's? Please share with us the pro's and con's of regulars vs. transients.

 

[badbadboy]

hmm good question being a repeat kind of guy, this peaks my interest :nod:

 

[Mellow]

I would hazard to guess that regulars are MUCH preferred, unless one is on the verge of distasteful for the lady (if he was past the verge I assume the SP would refuse to see him). Seems to me the best thing about new clients is that they might become regular clients?

 

[VanessaofBC]

Regulars of course although it is nice to meet new people.

There is a certain comfort level you have with regulars.

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

Being still kinda fresh shiny and new, I love meeting new people to build my regular clientele! I do get an extra little thrill when I'm waiting Behind The Door for someone I haven't seen before, for sure. I get a different kind of thrill when a returning client books, because I know exactly what I am getting, and exactly what to give him. (Although for the sake of the gentleman who had so much fun disporting himself with my tatas yesterday, I have this to say: "Nice bruise, dude!" I will be wearing your pretty red and purple mark for at least a day or two from a slap gone slightly awry! :eyebrows: So....don't stay away so long next time!)

Like ~V~ said...it's about comfort level! :nod:

 

[cherise]

i love my regular s.....but then new fellas means more regulars

 

[Man in Submission]

Do ladies sometimes get such a good 'stable' of regulars that they no longer accept new clients, until, say, a few regulars stop being regulars?

 

[Man in Submission]

BTW Punt, i prefer one-timers over regular shots because i can usually catch the goalie moving across the crease. i work tirelessly on the one-timer out back where i have a net set up

 

[HunkyBill]

If SPs prefer a mix of regulars and new, why do many of them change their names so frequently? I suppose the regulars have their exclusive contact info. However, it certainly seems mixed.

 

[Jackster]

If SPs prefer a mix of regulars and new, why do many of them change their names so frequently? I suppose the regulars have their exclusive contact info. However, it certainly seems mixed.

I find the ones who change their names frequently are not established and would provide suspect service. Once someone advises of such on this fine forum, they tend to change their names. My own opinion...

 

[rick hunter]

Do the ladies prefer One-Time clients over Repeat pooners? If you had ten new gents come for a session next week, what % would you want to become regulars, repeats, once & done's? Please share with us the pro's and con's of regulars vs. transients.

Wouldn't it be 100% unless the client did something to piss the sp off? If your a regular then of course, both are more comfortable. It's like any business, if you go to the same butcher/baker/restaurant, they will remember what your preferences are. Sometimes they will even give you a discount for your repeat business.

 

[Lady Companion]

The vast majority of my special friends are regulars, and most have been for a very long time. I love to see new people, but it happens so rarely! It's always is a treat to connect with somebody new, and to learn, share and grow in a completely new way. There is an excitement and different type of anticipation which goes with meeting somebody for the first time (or in the first few meetings).

I absolutely love my regulars though! Each one is a special friend to me, on a real and deep level. We may not have a 'traditional' relationship, but it is a genuine, deep and meaningful one. We realize we are not going to run off with one another into the sunset, but that doesn't diminish the quality of the time we share.

From a strictly sensual level, familiarity allows for a more intuitive understanding of how to enjoy, please and interact with the other. An established comfort level allows us both to be fully ourselves, without fear of judgement. It creates a safe and sacred place of pure acceptance, joy, love and being.

We are all so guarded these days, and it can take a while to really open up and trust enough to let all you be fully seen. The closer we get to being authentically who we are, the deeper the connection we forge with others, and the more meaningful and exquisite all our interactions become. Anybody should be able to provide a fantastic service. What differentiates one time liaisons from those with regulars is the level of EXPERIENCE that is enjoyed. How much does it transcend the mere physical, and truly encompass the mind and spirit? Fun on a physical level is easy to provide. A meaningful connection that stirs the soul and brings about deep connection, personal change, growth and REAL passion usually take time to develop.

I know some people will read this and not understand, but the most meaningful, deep, transformational and genuine relationships I have ever forged had their beginnings in this arena.....and every one of those began with what could have simply been a one time interaction.

 

[PuntMeister]

The vast majority of my special friends are regulars, and most have been for a very long time. I love to see new people, but it happens so rarely! It's always is a treat to connect with somebody new, and to learn, share and grow in a completely new way. There is an excitement and different type of anticipation which goes with meeting somebody for the first time (or in the first few meetings).

I absolutely love my regulars though! Each one is a special friend to me, on a real and deep level. We may not have a 'traditional' relationship, but it is a genuine, deep and meaningful one. We realize we are not going to run off with one another into the sunset, but that doesn't diminish the quality of the time we share.

From a strictly sensual level, familiarity allows for a more intuitive understanding of how to enjoy, please and interact with the other. An established comfort level allows us both to be fully ourselves, without fear of judgement. It creates a safe and sacred place of pure acceptance, joy, love and being.

We are all so guarded these days, and it can take a while to really open up and trust enough to let all you be fully seen. The closer we get to being authentically who we are, the deeper the connection we forge with others, and the more meaningful and exquisite all our interactions become. Anybody should be able to provide a fantastic service. What differentiates one time liaisons from those with regulars is the level of EXPERIENCE that is enjoyed. How much does it transcend the mere physical, and truly encompass the mind and spirit? Fun on a physical level is easy to provide. A meaningful connection that stirs the soul and brings about deep connection, personal change, growth and REAL passion usually take time to develop.

I know some people will read this and not understand, but the most meaningful, deep, transformational and genuine relationships I have ever forged had their beginnings in this arena.....and every one of those began with what could have simply been a one time interaction.

Beautifully stated Lady Companion. Beautifully stated. It was, of course, a loaded question. A rant was hiding beneath the question, but you 'outed' it much better than Punt could have. Thank you (squishy hugs).

BTW Punt, i prefer one-timers over regular shots because i can usually catch the goalie moving across the crease. i work tirelessly on the one-timer out back where i have a net set up

Ummm, the last time my mistress played 'catch the goalie', I had difficulty sitting upright for a month--lol. But really MIS, please be cautious using terms like 'catch', 'goalie', 'crease', and 'out back' when there are cougars afoot. I can see their perky ears perking up already! Having cleared that out of the crease, nice work with the hockey reference to 'one-timers' there dude. A true Canadian!

i love my regular s.....but then new fellas means more regulars

That's what Punt figured! With regulars, you not only get less unpredictability, fewer annoying no-shows, known buttons to press, and deeper connections, you also get a more regular paycheque. So what I find bizzare is how much time ladies spend on recruiting and advertising, and how little they spend on really nurturing repeat customers. I recall years ago walking out after a most excellent session, hug at the door, starry eyes meeting, and me saying, 'oh, by the way, would you like to have me come back again some time?', and an enthusiatic 'yes please! any time!' was what I got. She almost let me walk out of the door without letting me know she wanted me back. Happens all the time. Made me think--an excellent provider may have no training or intuitive skill about how to ask for and close repeat orders. Sales skill is not the same as Service skill. In many organizations, the two functions are separate. This thread confirms that repeats are good, and I believe ladies really do want regulars. But I would wager that very few providers are as skilled at the customer relationship development part as they are at the transactional bit of the business. Sorry to jump into biz-speak, but this is a business, with competition, and I know something about this stuff through years of hard-won experience. In business, it is far easier and less costly (in terms of time and $$) to retain a client than it is to prospect a new one. I believe there is an opportunity here. To share lessons learned on how to easily develop repeat clientele. A future post is brewing, yessirreee. Be on the lookout, and please continue your most excellent participation. This will be fun!

-Punt.

 

[mounty]

I guess the pooners have their on regulars and new sp.

 

[HunkyBill]

I'm thinking name changes are for two main reasons.
1) "Rebranding"
2) Anonymity

Regular, valued clientele would likely get the heads up either way.

With forums like this, people will catch on so there is no point in changing names or worse changing your name to something new and flip flopping back and forth.

You're spot on where the regular, valued clientele would likely get the advantage regardless.

Regulars:
Pros:
Its always a good time, like seeing an old friend
Conversation flows and hours spent wrapped in sheets cuddling
Reduces the number of clients a lady sees because she is satisfied with a steady clientele
Comfort and a special connection
A certain amount of income guaranteed every month
Sometimes a confidante
New things are always explored to keep it interesting therefore lots of variety
Loyalty to regulars over a new client
A good sp increases her service level each time her regular visits her
Both will accommodate each others schedules and sometimes a lady who doesn't work late nights or early mornings will moderate that to accommodate her regular.

Cons:
Too strong of an emotional attachment
One or the other may become needy
Some level of professionalism may get lost
Cant think of anything else

(snip)
Well, looks like the regulars are indeed more of a disadvantage than an advantage. Good to hear from a SP's perspective.

 

[vanessa kelly]

Great Thread

Great thread Puntmeister I was actually talking with JJ the other day about this exact topic, now that I am in red I can comment.


I agree with the ladies about the excitement of getting ready knowing that I'm about to place a big smile on someones face , the fact that they choose to place themselves in my hands out of the 100s of providers out there is a compliment and one I take to heart....I am proud to say that about 75% of my clientele are repeat visitors

but the most meaningful, deep, transformational and genuine relationships I have ever forged had their beginnings in this arena.....and every one of those began with what could have simply been a one time interaction.

Very well said, I have clients that I have been seeing for 6 plus years even though I have been laying low lately dealing with other priorities I do what I can do to accommodate those who have been loyal to me.

But I will say I'm a fan of regulars. The more time you spend with someone you enjoy the more fun you generally have (in and out of the bedroom). What I like to provide is an experience - not just an orgasm. Each time you see me it gets better and better too. The anticipation of seeing me again, what we will do next. The goal is that you'll take something away with you and years down the road when you look back at your hobbying career, I'm one that stands out in your mind

Agreed


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[Elle Diablo]

I agree this is a great thread ... and also a little advantageous for me to take a brief moment to introduce myself (this is officially my first time in red) - so hello I'm Elle, thank you for having me :wave:

Because this is both my chosen lifestyle and 'job' I appreciate my regular patrons for the familiarity I often do not experience anywhere else in my life. There's just something comfortable about 'knowing' a man and because I don't have the day-to-day, ins-and-outs of a conventional relationship I think I have the best of both worlds - sensuality without the burdens (not to suggest that one is better than the other).

But what makes this 'job' so enjoyable for me is that I feel super comfortable and familiar with most new and all old friends and so if I don't receive the same feedback from a new-comer there's no worries - it's just a casual moment and I know I at least invoked a smile - but if when I open the door to a new face, but a familiar voice and the chemistry ignites ... it's like watch out! And both parties get the best of each other which is what I think everyone wants and is searching for.

 

[Dickson]

However after seeing. The same client time after time do providers get tired of the same old cllient and feel there is a time to move on. The longest I have seen a SP would be 8 years. However I still stay in contact with some SPs like Very Veronica for nearly 12 years. Just not regular. I often wonder if providers just get tired of seeing guys like me and want to move on.

 

[vancity_cowboy]

I agree this is a great thread ... and also a little advantageous for me to take a brief moment to introduce myself (this is officially my first time in red) - so hello I'm Elle, thank you for having me :wave:

Because this is both my chosen lifestyle and 'job' I appreciate my regular patrons for the familiarity I often do not experience anywhere else in my life. There's just something comfortable about 'knowing' a man and because I don't have the day-to-day, ins-and-outs of a conventional relationship I think I have the best of both worlds - sensuality without the burdens (not to suggest that one is better than the other).

But what makes this 'job' so enjoyable for me is that I feel super comfortable and familiar with most new and all old friends and so if I don't receive the same feedback from a new-comer there's no worries - it's just a casual moment and I know I at least invoked a smile - but if when I open the door to a new face, but a familiar voice and the chemistry ignites ... it's like watch out! And both parties get the best of each other which is what I think everyone wants and is searching for.

you've touched on something here that i hadn't thought of before... the stress involved in meeting a new partner

reviewers often speak of feeling nervous with a lady they are seeing for the first time - i presume it's the same for the ladies. what a relief it must be to be seeing a known entity that you've seen many times before and can look forward to seeing again :nod:

 

[Mellow]

I agree this is a great thread ... and also a little advantageous for me to take a brief moment to introduce myself (this is officially my first time in red) - so hello I'm Elle, thank you for having me :wave:

Welcome Elle!