One-Timers Vs. Regulars

[Dickson]

There have been some awesome comments here. Truly awesome! Many of you made me feel deeply, think twice, and chill a little. A bit of an eye opener.

It seems that regular clients have many merrits. And we also love the adrenaline rush a new encounter brings. Fortunately we don't need to forego one for the other--just mix it up a bit. Yeah! Best news I have heard all week!

Some nut-bars can't help themselves become puppy dogs humping their fave's leg, or feel they are entitled to ask/take liberties or stop being a gentleman. This is "boundary or bye-bye" time. It happens. Gotta deal with it when it does. A good firm tug on the leash should either snap the behaviour or snap the leash. Tug well my friends.

Hmmm, when a regular becomes a grey-zone relationship, it gets tricky. This is the good meaty stuff! The stuff I was hoping this thread would uncover. You peops exceeded my expectations! Clearly there are different comfort levels and skill levels out there. Punt does not feel there is an absolute do/don't conclusion about intimacy with regulars, but there are different realities and consequences for each of us. It is up to adults to make adult decisions about what they are comfortable with, and skilled at. Punt believes we do need to set limits on bonding levels the same way we do for activities. That said, developing a special bond, a special relationship that you are both comfortable with can be a wonderful thing.

[self-edited for getting preachy]. Will start another thread on intimacy codes.

Poon positively my friends. I hope you all enjoy the ride. Really, I do.

-Punt

Wow Punt I am impressed and this the kind of insight I love to read and think about. But I am a strange bird to say the least.

You raise a couple interesting points. My comment is that you can have your cake and eat it too recently I have been having a regular SP join me for dinner and we then call agencies to hire one or two new SPs to join us. We have played the role of husband and wife and hiring a SP to join us. We did the husband and wife and hiring one SP for me and one for her. So new and old coming together has been a hoot. Recently I had a younger SP join me for a social function as my personal assistant. I had her call an agency to arrange for two young hot blondes to meet me in my suite. When they arrived Josie met them got them drinks but told them I was busy and will be out any moment. When she started to servie them drinks told them about me. When I come into the room and once we settled the young girls down Josie asked if that is all I say no. Would she like to join us. She said yes and well you know where this goes. My point Punt is you can have your cake and eat it too. You can have your regular and new SPs at the same time.

Your second point of the relationships with SPs can be difficult. Very difficult but I find it less painful than say a so called regular relationship. I am not one for relationships so not one to talk.

 

[Dickson]

punt you can have your cake and eat it too.

There have been some awesome comments here. Truly awesome! Many of you made me feel deeply, think twice, and chill a little. A bit of an eye opener.

It seems that regular clients have many merrits. And we also love the adrenaline rush a new encounter brings. Fortunately we don't need to forego one for the other--just mix it up a bit. Yeah! Best news I have heard all week!

Some nut-bars can't help themselves become puppy dogs humping their fave's leg, or feel they are entitled to ask/take liberties or stop being a gentleman. This is "boundary or bye-bye" time. It happens. Gotta deal with it when it does. A good firm tug on the leash should either snap the behaviour or snap the leash. Tug well my friends.

Hmmm, when a regular becomes a grey-zone relationship, it gets tricky. This is the good meaty stuff! The stuff I was hoping this thread would uncover. You peops exceeded my expectations! Clearly there are different comfort levels and skill levels out there. Punt does not feel there is an absolute do/don't conclusion about intimacy with regulars, but there are different realities and consequences for each of us. It is up to adults to make adult decisions about what they are comfortable with, and skilled at. Punt believes we do need to set limits on bonding levels the same way we do for activities. That said, developing a special bond, a special relationship that you are both comfortable with can be a wonderful thing.

[self-edited for getting preachy]. Will start another thread on intimacy codes.

Poon positively my friends. I hope you all enjoy the ride. Really, I do.

-Punt

Wow Punt I am impressed and this the kind of insight I love to read and think about. But I am a strange bird to say the least.

You raise a couple interesting points. My comment is that you can have your cake and eat it too recently I have been having a regular SP join me for dinner and we then call agencies to hire one or two new SPs to join us. We have played the role of husband and wife and hiring a SP to join us. We did the husband and wife and hiring one SP for me and one for her. So new and old coming together has been a hoot. Recently I had a younger SP join me for a social function as my personal assistant. I had her call an agency to arrange for two young hot blondes to meet me in my suite. When they arrived Josie met them got them drinks but told them I was busy and will be out any moment. When she started to servie them drinks told them about me. When I come into the room and once we settled the young girls down Josie asked if that is all I say no. Would she like to join us. She said yes and well you know where this goes. My point Punt is you can have your cake and eat it too. You can have your regular and new SPs at the same time.

Your second point of the relationships with SPs can be difficult. Very difficult but I find it less painful than say a so called regular relationship. I am not one for relationships so not one to talk.