Why guys? Why are so many of you so into 69??

[badbadboy]

You can still love sex without loving man ass all up in your face Lighten up. Isn't it good to find out the appeal / honest feelings about what the opposite sex thinks about something sexual ?

So the real Girl Friend Experience is "no way, I don't 69" and that leads to the Wife Experience which is "you want me to suck your Dick? Good luck with that.


I dunno, I've had some great 69 experiences from a number of orally superior providers here and unless they are all Meryl Streeps; I must have misinterpreted their enthusiasm

The only one who pushed back on 69 is 5'0" and I'm 6'2". We worked around it

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

I've had a couple women that really enjoyed 69, more because it was easy to toss their salad I guess. Not much of a fan of it myself. I prefer the eye contact that comes with giving and receiving oral.

Me too! I enjoy 69, but only when I am on top, and sometimes the angles can be difficult some times. My preference is to take turns...I like the eye contact too!

 

[mcdead]

My preference is to take turns...I like the eye contact too!

Eye contact is half the encounter and its really for the ladies

 

[hankmoody]

Cameron.
This isn't very seductive! lol
69 does nothing for me. We would get along fine.
I've only ever done it twice i think with sp's and it wasn't my choice so i assume they enjoy it. Unless they assumed i would?
Once was a 15 minute smothering / drowning that i wanted to tap out of but she seemed to be enjoying herself so much and i didn't want to offend her.

 

[NataliaBijoux]

I love 69!! The only downside is I can't moan as much as usual.. Because I have a cock down my throat! Lol.
I especially love 69 with my ATF client BBB.. He's a oral good! Lol!

 

[felixthecat]

why does 69 seem like such a thing that men are into? Am I alone in being an SP who loathes doing this act? It's awkward, there's zero chance that I'll cum or that I'm even enjoying myself

Kudos for speaking up! I had the impression 69 is not that popular among civilian girls, so not expecting it would somehow work for all SPs.
From man's perspective, it's fun, visuals help. But the reduced feedback (and the fact men don't multitask that well) make it harder to convince myself it would work that great for both.

a number of orally superior providers here and unless they are all Meryl Streeps; I must have misinterpreted their enthusiasm

I'm sure your friends are all Meryl Streeps, BBB. To be fair, you don't even need a Meryl Streep for the task, how much acting is needed when you don't see her face anyway? It's more in Meg Ryan's league than Meryl Streep's.

And I totally understand if a girl would rather 69 another girl. As was rightfully said, "The women who are taller than me are lesbians, for whom 1969 was a very momentous year."

 

[Man in Submission]

GF or SP, I always dread 69. But find when I show how passionate I am about going down on the lady and bringing her to an amazing orgasm (or 2, or 3 and for however long she pleases), the 'suggestion' of doing 69 rarely has been discussed. Just prefer to, hmm, put my head down and go about my business. Totally agree on the eye contact. Being able to look up periodically at a pleased and contented face and trusting eyes makes everything so worthwhile.

 

[badbadboy]

I love 69!! The only downside is I moan as much as usual.. Because I have a cock down my throat! Lol.
I especially love 69 with my ATF client BBB.. He's a oral good! Lol!

Blushing

Natalia it does take two enthusiastic partners and I think we mesh very well. I do believe I am way overdue visiting you :nod:

 

[SeekSteadyRegSP]

Well OBVIOUSLY you are perfect and knowledgeable in every way, 76. Thank you for enlightening everyone on how the female orgasm should and should not work. You're obviously a master at what you are doing, and perfect in every way. I am personally shocked to learn that your flawless bod even need laser in the first place.

... says the woman who had to ask why men are into "69"... suggesting that she couldn't figure out that a female mouth willing to house his erection and a pussy for his tongue at the same time was the unanimous answer.


Wonders never cease.

 

[hornygandalf]

Different strokes for different folks. I enjoy 69 with the right person, but there needs to be compatibility in size, for starters, as well as very good hygiene (should go without saying, but...).
Why do I enjoy it? The mutual experience of giving and receiving pleasure at the same time is part of it. But, I also enjoy focusing on either just giving or receiving. 69 does take some good multi-tasking and I have been bitten in 69 when a partner was in the throes of orgasm... (yeah, a good time to not be receiving a BJ). But, there should be the experience of mutual pleasure, and if that isn't there, do something else.

 

[summerbreeze]

wow..... not what I would have called the best PR or marketing

69 lovers here will appreciate the heads up not to call on Cameron, many thanks Cameron

I always thought that in most business ventures the customer comes first or in this business cums first

Quote: "It's awkward, there's zero chance that I'll cum or that I'm even enjoying myself "

While some of us love to enable a SP to orgasm, not sure in general that it it a priority for most customers out there.

well to each is own I guess......

 

[majordomo]

I always thought that in most business ventures the customer comes first or in this business cums first

This isn't most business ventures now though, is it? It's not like she's a chef that likes to cook steaks rare and someone asks her to cook theirs well done. In other businesses, accommodating the customer doesn't involve performing a sex act that you don't enjoy and feels uncomfortable yet requires you to act like it's awesome. Think about how you'd do in that situation.

For me, the GFE experience is about mutual pleasure, not just renting a warm body and pretty face to go through the motions so I can get off. I appreciate when ladies are up front about their likes and dislikes because I've found that always makes for a better session for me. I don't understand why any gentlemen here are criticizing a provider who's being honest about her preferences. I wish I knew details like this about every lady I'm interested in seeing.

 

[Rufus T. Firefly]

I think she's hilarious. And I can guarantee there are 10 amused lurkers who WILL book with her for each grumpy poster who feels it necessary to post that he won't (even though we all know 99.9% chance he wasn't going to book regardless!).


Come on ppl, lighten up!

Did you read the quote I posted before my comment? The one where she attacked another poster for answering her question by using sarcasm, belittlement, and smug superiority befitting a 12-year old?

I'm not grumpy, I just don't want to spend my time with people like that, let alone pay for the privilege.

 

[ddcanz]

... says the woman who had to ask why men are into "69"... suggesting that she couldn't figure out that a female mouth willing to house his erection and a pussy for his tongue at the same time was the unanimous answer.


Wonders never cease.

Abso-fucking-lutely. Hear hear, bro!
Asks a stupid question, then get pissy when a bit of flack comes back her way. Maybe her blowjobs ARE boring to some. Whatevs.
Obviously Cameron "LOATHES" 69 with clients (and from the sounds of it probably even with a SO). On and on about hairy butts, ass-cracks, wiping (really?), stench, hygiene, comfort, engagement, women vs men, how she can't cum, (yes, always a bonus when that happens, but not the primary objective to many pooners), yada yada yada. Yet so many guys are into 69- and we are the ones bucking up for the services.
Honestly, 69 with most SPs in my experience is pretty bland- and like Cameron, I don't think many SPs are that into it either. But those that are into it- WOW! Blowing your load down a woman's throat while she is gushing juice all over your face is fucking awesome- for both parties.
You know what Cameron? We get, loud and clear, that you find 69 a complete WOT. So then don't do it. Make it a restriction- like some ladies won't do anal- no big deal. No need to tell us what our flaws may or may not be when we respond to YOUR question.
Connection between an SP and her client is always the difference maker to how a session flows. We realize that a sweaty, greasy set of nuts will make that connection virtually impossible. Personal hygiene is paramount to a mutually satisfying experience.
I didn't realize you were looking to debate the OBVIOUS regarding a stinky, hairy, man-ass in your face. As I would not debate why a reeking, scrambled egg of a snatch doesn't do it for ME.
Slow day at the orifice, sweetie?

 

[summerbreeze]

I agree, its not so much the preference. It's her justifying the preference and belittling anyone who would disagree. Pissy attitude is probably a good way of putting it.

I respect that she came out and asked the question and stated her preference however would have had even more respect for her if she left it at that and accepted that other people are entitled to their preferences as well.

As someone else put it, different strokes for different folks.....

 

[badbadboy]

wow..... not what I would have called the best PR or marketing

69 lovers here will appreciate the heads up not to call on Cameron, many thanks Cameron

I always thought that in most business ventures the customer comes first or in this business cums first

Quote: "It's awkward, there's zero chance that I'll cum or that I'm even enjoying myself "

While some of us love to enable a SP to orgasm, not sure in general that it it a priority for most customers out there.

well to each is own I guess......

My one and only tryst with Cameron had a whole lot of oral starting in the shower, later on the bed and if I recall correctly there was a 69 too.

Well at least I enjoyed it and the view was amazing too! ound:

 

[76duster]

Well OBVIOUSLY you are perfect and knowledgeable in every way, 76. Thank you for enlightening everyone on how the female orgasm should and should not work. You're obviously a master at what you are doing, and perfect in every way. I am personally shocked to learn that your flawless bod even need laser in the first place.

Let's see.... you start a thread complaining/ridiculing men's bodies, what they like sexually, how gross their body parts are, and I in turn complain about female sex acts and you have a cow and personally insult me?

You're a giant jerk of a hypocrite. Anyone who pays money to see you is wasting it.

 

[BS Detector]

Am I alone in being an SP who loathes doing this act?
Why can't we just do oral sex the normal way?? One at a time?? Or two on one?? But not simultaneously!!

Sp lemme see if I get what you are saying. You like the '6'. You like the '9'. You just don't like '69'.

 

[apl16]

+1................................................

I love going down on a woman. It just so happens over extended oral times my neck tends to get stiff and it detracts from my own experience if she is laying back on the bed. Kneeling beside the bed alleviates this problem somewhat.

Best position for me is the woman sitting on my face holding the bed frame so she can lean in or back away as the case may be.

69 is great too since I can see what I am doing and if it works slipping in a digit is also a good idea.

Looking at a woman's asshole has never been a problem for me either. I've been known on occasion to slip a tongue in there too

 

[opticaltubeassembly]

I don't derive pleasure from it

Maybe you should become a chartered accountant.

Who cares about your pleasure, except, the beta males.

I'm paying $300 after tax for my pleasure, not yours.

You pay me $300 after tax, then I worry about your pleasure.

Emmy has never looked so good, after this thread.