Ya know folks, there is good advice in this thread. I've always thought that our wonderful ladies deserve to have pleasure from us too. I tried it out again. (This wasn't my first time to do this by any means, but I've been out of the hobby for a while due to a realationship.) So I booked an hour with a lady I'd never seen before, but she looked intriguing. I like to try to please the ladies when I can but have noticed many of them seem too concerned about making me cum to be able to really enjoy what I try to do for them. This time I wanted my intentions to be clear, so I flat out told her that if she enjoyed it I would like to give her oral sex. Not 69. Not 5 minutes to try to prime her for my pleasure. I want to give her what she wants for her pleasure. (Despite the fact that I am paying her.) She said she's never had anyone ask her that before, but if I meant it, she would sure enjoy it.
I told her to just get comfortable and let me take care of her. There is a lot of good advice in the two links that SDW posted above as well as in many of the links in those articles too. I've been doing most of what those articles recommend for years, so I know it works for anyone who actually wants to do something for the lady they are with rather than just take something from her. The result? We (and that means ME too) had a spectacular time. And she wasn't faking it. I've been around long enough to know the difference. I am honestly not going to go into much detail because there are still those on this board who on another forum have called me a liar and a fool when I shared some of the good experiences I've had, so I learned my lesson a long time ago. But rest assured we had a great time, the best really. One quantifiable indication was that the session lasted way, way, way over the time I booked and paid for and she hadn't even realized this until she was so spent and done that we finally slowed down and came back to the real world. That just scratches the surface of the great time we had, and I'm going to just leave the rest to your imagination.
So to you guys with the attitude that we get what we want because we pay for it, and we shouldn't be expected to give much of anything in return other than our money... Well, you're missing out on what can be the best experience of your life, not to mention you may even be depriving the lady of the best experience of her career and maybe even her life! So take heed to what these ladies here have been trying to tell y'all.