Etiquette

[Atticus]

If you e-mail an SP but receive no response is it proper to try again or is that considered bad manners?

 

[girth-brooks]

Don't bother. Just call her

 

[Little Turtle]

As long as you're not spamming her inbox it should be okay. I emailed an SP but got no response. I was disappointed because I really liked her so I tried again a week later when she posted ads again and I got a response and we had some fun.

 

[MRGREEN]

Personally I'm a one and done. SP's and clients are like buses/streetcars/subways, they'll be another along in a minute.

Peace
MG

 

[hankmoody]

Personally I'm a one and done. SP's and clients are like buses/streetcars/subways, they'll be another along in a minute.

Peace
MG

I'm with you. If i'm really interested maybe a follow up. I use it for screening as much as anything. I don't think all the ladies realize the importance of good correspondence. If your unavailable take a few seconds to say that. The cold shoulder or one of my favorites "$250hr, no this, no that, don't touch those, i'm totally worth it babe" puts you on the do not pay list and any future income possibilities are negated. I had one give me heck saying i was insulting when all i had done was introduce myself and said i was new, shy and she was a little intimidating to me. Interesting business model. I guess honesty isn't always the best policy but its the only one i'm familiar with.
You have the money Atticus. It's an open market and your in the drivers seat. Many will answer, some even sincere, intelligent and flirty (bonus points here). If she doesn't have the common courtesy to type a few words or god forbid a whole sentence, imagine the effort you would get if you did see her.
As Mr Green said.
Next

 

[Athenalust]

I completely agree with you gentlemen, I perfer Text, Pm or emails only because I am not able to answer my phone, or have the privacy needed to answer all questions that one might have. Though if you are one that perfers to talk on the phone, send a quick message and I can gladly accomadate. As well sometimes it never hurts to follow up as some suggested
Hankymoody it seems like you have had quite the experiences, and I wont speak for everyone, but I am sure there are many ladies that perfer honesty .
Have a great day

 

[badbadboy]

A lot of SP are email only so it's either wait for a reply, send in a second request 2-3 days later and wait or move on.

I'm not faulting the SP's because they too have busy lives and cannot do an SP email in front of friends or family.

It's funny, one of my ATF's will always reply literally at the last moment which may be 3 - 6 days after my email. It is a mutual joke with us now. To her credit she is always on time at the appointed place when requested. Apparently she likes to add a touch of tease to BBB lol. I've never had to cancel for lack of comms and have trust she will reply 'eventually'

So I guess my moral of the story is try have a bit more patience. It's worked for me.

:nod:

 

[tadolder]

I always read the ad, and then look at the entire website if one is provided, it usually says her preferred method of contact. I then introduce myself and provide anything she asks to be provided in her ad, and ask any questions i may have. I rarely don't get a response.

 

[hankmoody]

I completely agree with you gentlemen, I perfer Text, Pm or emails only because I am not able to answer my phone, or have the privacy needed to answer all questions that one might have. Though if you are one that perfers to talk on the phone, send a quick message and I can gladly accomadate. As well sometimes it never hurts to follow up as some suggested
Hankymoody it seems like you have had quite the experiences, and I wont speak for everyone, but I am sure there are many ladies that perfer honesty .
Have a great day

Hi Athena. I have had some interesting experiences in my short time here. One sp was bouncing on the bed on all fours when i arrived, asking me if i wanted her to remove her gitch! Her words not mine. I went because she was well reviewed on cerb. Learned my lesson on that board.
Its interesting to me that you replied here as you were one lady i reached out to but never heard back from. It was a while back when you were touring. If i had said something wrong or missed something off your checklist i would have preferred you letting me know. I'm still learning to ropes. If i don't know what i did wrong i can't fix it.

I recently booked with a new (to me) SP over email. She confided to me later that her response time was slow because she kept sneaking away from the dinner party her friends had invited her to in order to email me! I appreciated that she put in the effort. For me, I'm willing to cut a fair amount of slack considering most SPs don't have regular business hours. I appreciate that they have lives outside of work too.

If I don't get a reply I usually give them the benefit of the doubt, assume they're too busy or in a session with a client (I wouldn't want them answering if it was during my session) and try again later if I still want to see them. I still get responses in a more timely fashion than when I'm trying to get replies out of customer service for Air Canada or Bell, and they have they're own departments to handle those!

That's one reason why i start with email. So she can respond when she has a minute. We are talking about no replies at all, not late ones.

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

I'm with you. If i'm really interested maybe a follow up. I use it for screening as much as anything. I don't think all the ladies realize the importance of good correspondence. If your unavailable take a few seconds to say that. The cold shoulder or one of my favorites "$250hr, no this, no that, don't touch those, i'm totally worth it babe" puts you on the do not pay list and any future income possibilities are negated. I had one give me heck saying i was insulting when all i had done was introduce myself and said i was new, shy and she was a little intimidating to me. Interesting business model. I guess honesty isn't always the best policy but its the only one i'm familiar with.
You have the money Atticus. It's an open market and your in the drivers seat. Many will answer, some even sincere, intelligent and flirty (bonus points here). If she doesn't have the common courtesy to type a few words or god forbid a whole sentence, imagine the effort you would get if you did see her.
As Mr Green said.
Next

This is very much in line with my policy about the sort of inquiries I like to receive! If you send me something erudite, witty, and syntactically pleasing, you'll more than likely receive a response in kind as soon as I can compose one! I check email on my phone, but to be honest I prefer to do all my correspondence via my desktop. I can type much faster and with much greater accuracy than I can text. That being said, the guy who sent the text that said "You game today?" as an introduction (or the one who simply sent "$?") probably still haven't figured out why I haven't replied with enthusiasm...

 

[hankmoody]

This is very much in line with my policy about the sort of inquiries I like to receive! If you send me something erudite, witty, and syntactically pleasing, you'll more than likely receive a response in kind as soon as I can compose one! I check email on my phone, but to be honest I prefer to do all my correspondence via my desktop. I can type much faster and with much greater accuracy than I can text. That being said, the guy who sent the text that said "You game today?" as an introduction (or the one who simply sent "$?") probably still haven't figured out why I haven't replied with enthusiasm...

I can see how 1 liners (and letter) could get old. I would never do that. More the opposite actually. (Full sentences too! ) I've had more than enough uninspiring dates so i'm trying to get smarter.
By sending an email i can not only tell more about myself and what i'm looking for but get a feel for her and our compatibility. Its not about an act for me. If there is no interest or connection it just doesn't work.

 

[LADY-VIA]

Occasionly my phone freezes when I'm in the middle of responding to an email. The screen does not allow me to scroll back up to hit send. When this happens I lose the email. I try to make note of them now before I respond so I can quick search them if I lose them, but some do slip away. Something like this could also happen to another lady, so I say try her again. I respond to everyone when I check my emails, even if I'm late receiving them,( except you "tea pane" who ever you are, cuz you beat around my bush, & never book ) so if you don't get a response from me, I've lost your email

 

[hankmoody]

( except you "tea pane" who ever you are, cuz you beat around my bush, & never book )

LOL

No virgins now! I remember no explicit reviews but no virgins is new to me.
Little surprised guys would admit that to you.
1 lady told me she only ever had people say they were virgins when she was touring and they never showed. Figured it was jealous local ladies messing with her.
And i can vouch for Lady Via. She has returned every pm and email from me. :clap2:

 

[LADY-VIA]

You know when someone doesn't get to the point and "beats around the bush." That saying... Well, the guys that constantly contact me but don't book, I say they " beat around my bush" just A spin on old phrase.

Maybe they beat it while texting me? Or while looking at my photos ? Or perhaps when they call me to chat and ask a ton of questions. What ever the case may be, They beat it all around, but never get to it -- beat around my bush


And as for the virgins, I've had my fill, and notches on my belt. I just don't feel like taking any more. Not the "typical " viginities that is, but I'll sure play with your ass like you've never had it played with before, and you will love it

 

[Larry Storch]

"You game today?"

Yes I am! Let's play hide and seek. You hide and I'll try to find you. You're not allowed to contact me until I do.

"$?"

$$$$$$$$$$ ! ! !

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

Yes I am! Let's play hide and seek. You hide and I'll try to find you. You're not allowed to contact me until I do.



$$$$$$$$$$ ! ! !

Oh I like that...

 

[Larry Storch]

Glad to help.
Feel free to use them.