If a woman is attractive, she gets hit on. Many times, every day. Some of the time, the guy offers more than she will earn that day. Some of the time, she already has a lifestyle that costs more than she earns. Saying Yes is a quick way to make money. If it's a positive experience, she may decide to say yes often.
There are also many women and men that don't have much choice about offering P4P. If she's branded, she's owned. If he/she was abused when young, they may have no self worth in their own mind.
It certainly does not always have to do with low self worth but possibly sexualized at a young age and/or accustomed to degrading acts or/and stuck in that comfort zone.
Sure abuse can create all this but when healing occurs and self worth is there the sex trade can be used therapeutically and....
very therapeutically at that :hail: :whip:
on the flip side it can be high self worth, ladies get tired of being taken for granted and in this game all is fair and understood. :grouphug: :kiss:
there are lots of poor people in the world, and many of those poor people are beautiful women. Being pretty doesn't come along with a big bucket of endless cash reserves. People will take advantage of any opportunity. Not all will, but most do.
money just helps maintain all this :humble:
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Maybe they don't find it degrading. Maybe they see an opportunity to make a lot of money and are interested in sex.
valid point and should always be considered
I wonder what are the effects of being constantly told/reminded of just how (physically attractive) you are.
Young females tend be deluged with such volunteered opinions from every corner of their worlds.
The media reinforces those standards and the young females sometimes know relatively little outside of their visible appeal to men.
So if that amounts to some sort of ... abuse (by the whole of society) then it can be no surprise that the same females are later drawn right back toward the seeming abuse they have known for so long.
That same logic of illogic repeats itself in many other areas of abuse of young people, especially of the sort which is clearly unlawful.
Nobody has done much legal work to outlaw constantly reminding young women of how attractive they are (particularly when the reminders are divided among hundreds of people at random intervals).
But maybe there are some connections between that unending adolescence and the sometimes appeal to sex work in the minds of some individuals.
yes it starts with society which is each one and all of us
bottom line is that we are all individual with different backgrounds and futures in mind so the choices we make are our own and should always be valued, respected and supported.