I have never had a sp offer me bbfs That is not what this thread is going to be about. I have not used the services of sex providers very much but when I do. I usally show up with the following Lube 3 types of condoms flavored , latex and latex free. As well Dental dam If IM thinking of doing some DNY. So my usual thing is I ask the sp which type of condom she would like . But my guess is that some men for whatever reason. Do not carry condoms and expect the sp to supply them. FYI where I live all of the above are free at the local sti clinic . So what is every ones opinion on this should the sp supply the condoms and if so why .
Who should supply the condoms ?
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Some providers prefer to supply the condoms themselves as that is their only way to know they have not been tampered with, or that they do not contain ingredients to which the SP is allergic/sensitive other than latex.
To make sure that my experience with an SP is the best it can be, I always use this question as my guide to what I should and shouldn't do: "Will this make her uncomfortable?" And I'm pretty sure bringing your own condoms to a date will almost always make her uncomfortable. She cares about your safety (or she should), and she can't be sure about that if she didn't actually buy the condoms herself.
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The SP, I think. Number one it is convenient for me secondly, I think SP's would like to make sure that they are using something that THEY trust.
Once I bought extra thin ones and took them with me. I didn't feel any extra pleasure so I dropped the idea of doing it ever again. That was just the only one time I took my own condoms.
Once I bought extra thin ones and took them with me. I didn't feel any extra pleasure so I dropped the idea of doing it ever again. That was just the only one time I took my own condoms.
I've had a less than stellar provider do the whole im down to the last one routine, after i extended our encounter from half hour to full hour. I pulled out my condoms and she seemed disappointed. I keep a few on me for whatever reason but usually rely on her having them.
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Well in the mid & upper end of the escort market, she likely would, though you could probably ask to bring your own if you had a latex allergy (and the box was sealed). In the lower end of the spectrum I'd always bring your own and I'd put them on yourself too. Dirty hands carry lots of bacteria.
Haha that's funny 'boy scout' always be prepared :thumb:
I've lost count the times I've been enroute to a regular and got the text "ah shit, need condoms, would you be a sweetheart . . . ."
I eventually succumbed and bought my own box so I didn't have to detour to buy them. I threw them in my pooner bag along with my body wash, razor, deodorant toothbrush / toothpaste and music player. Just enough room inside to hold two bottles of Perrier and a bottle of wine.
I have heard the concerns from SP about pooners supplying their own "might do something devious".
Yah that's a concern IF you are that kinda twisted individual. There is a fair modicum of trust between long term clients with the SP they visit to behave in an accepted norm. I do believe I fit in that category.
A first date with anyone, the SP really should supply her own IMO
I've lost count the times I've been enroute to a regular and got the text "ah shit, need condoms, would you be a sweetheart . . . ."
I eventually succumbed and bought my own box so I didn't have to detour to buy them. I threw them in my pooner bag along with my body wash, razor, deodorant toothbrush / toothpaste and music player. Just enough room inside to hold two bottles of Perrier and a bottle of wine.
I have heard the concerns from SP about pooners supplying their own "might do something devious".
Yah that's a concern IF you are that kinda twisted individual. There is a fair modicum of trust between long term clients with the SP they visit to behave in an accepted norm. I do believe I fit in that category.
A first date with anyone, the SP really should supply her own IMO
Hopefully the razor isn't getting too chummy with the condoms as they share the bag.
SP automatically supplying condoms = Responsible and Safe SP (Not just safe for herself, but safe for you)
Whether you felt expected to bring your own or not, if you showed up for an encounter and she didn't have any, would you stay and trust her ?
I keep a discreet backup in my pocket, for one reason only. There is mischevious SP's out there that will offer safe FS and CBJ's, but not say
anything about the condoms, but after you start engaging in playtime, she will popup and say "Did you bring a condom?, if not, there will be no
FS or BJ toda, so all your getting is an HJ for your money."
Whether you felt expected to bring your own or not, if you showed up for an encounter and she didn't have any, would you stay and trust her ?
I keep a discreet backup in my pocket, for one reason only. There is mischevious SP's out there that will offer safe FS and CBJ's, but not say
anything about the condoms, but after you start engaging in playtime, she will popup and say "Did you bring a condom?, if not, there will be no
FS or BJ toda, so all your getting is an HJ for your money."
On the other hand....substitute "pooner" for SP..also valid. Knew one "lady" that would rinse out the condom after the client left roll it up and put it back in the pack ready for the next guy.
I was having lunch in a restaurant once with a friend. Our table was close to the kitchen entrance which was an open door. We watched the waitress clear a table,
walk past us to the dishwasher counter just inside the kitchen. She rinsed out the straws from the drinks and set them off to the side......
Wrapped separately plus the razor still has a guard on it.Hopefully the razor isn't getting too chummy with the condoms as they share the bag.
It's hard to imagine anything as gross as putting on a used condom unknowingly. Disgusting.
The sp should for sure. Relying on the clients to bring condoms will result in lots of people "forgetting" to bring any and then asking for bbfs.
In the flip side, clients can always bring a spare just in case. Some sps will refuse smog because they "only have the one condom".
In the flip side, clients can always bring a spare just in case. Some sps will refuse smog because they "only have the one condom".
Doesn't make any sense to spend $hundreds on an SP and not bring condoms whether she insists on you using hers or not. They're just a few bucks.
That story of an SP recycling condoms is hard to believe. A used condom is stretched out and could never look new again. I'd never allow someone to put one on me with me seeing it come out of the package. I always use my own if the girl allows.
That story of an SP recycling condoms is hard to believe. A used condom is stretched out and could never look new again. I'd never allow someone to put one on me with me seeing it come out of the package. I always use my own if the girl allows.
I can't wrap my brain around that. And since I always like to see the best in people, I tried to think of possible ways that this could be less awful than it sounds. The best I could come up with is that she has a cuckhold that she was going to use it on later. Somebody who actually got off on that sort of thing. That scenario would still be crossing a big line because it is involving the 'supplier' without his consent. But it hurts my brain less than thinking she is trying to save dollar.
SP should supply, as it's her health on the line. You should have your preferred, in case she for some reason does not decide to be healthy. IMHO.
Yes I thought about that too, having known a few who cater to such fantasies & had requests about such as well.
That is why regardless of how engaged you may be, you always need to be cognisant of the fact the lady is actually opening up a sealed package.
No different than the lady insisting on the bottle of wine you bring being sealed and she be the one to open it, so to be sure it has not been tampered with.
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