I recently posted a question about why there is an almost complete lack of advertisers in Victoria currently, which disappeared quickly. I have no idea why as I feel that this does not help new Victoria perb members and providers as they may well look to LL and other inferior platforms. Surely it in perks interest to have a healthy Victoria sectionCan I email Fred Zed about this?
Where do I go from here as an important question got bumped and I feel it needs to be addressed?
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I’m not sure but the combination of many ladies Cerb cheques stopping & them returning to “civie” work , other platforms have become easier , free and less drama & a complete lack of quality clients from these sites is shocking , the entitlement of “members” is crazy , all the conversations about “how much we make “
“Why won’t she see me ?” ..
I actually received a text from a well known , frequent & active board contributor about a month ago (who I will never name so don’t ask ) but he just said .
“hey Fiona , I’m going to be working near you the next little while , we should”hang out “ .
I had seen the gentleman twice as a client .
I hate the term “hang out” it is not the same as asking for a session or booking.
So I responded “Are you looking to book or hang out” … He said “ Both of course babe “😒 Shocking , I never heard back .
Another , comments on my tweety page & constantly writes long emails saying all the reasons he hasn’t quite made it to book yet … but he will soon ..so exhausting , we don’t get paid for the private PMs here or all the “soon babe “ emails & texts .
members being too friendly & never following through on booking , unpaid emotional servicing takes a toll . Its not very inviting to pay for month after month , to be honest I pay mostly to be able to read the “Blacklist” & “safety alerts in the ladies private area . I’ve had just as many wonderful gents find me on other platforms . All sites fade out over time unless it’s providing income for us . Being a review board , Not a major advertising platform . We have strict rules to follow & have to mind our manners . Sex workers aren’t really into being boxed in by rules .But we do to be able to benefit from the safety info on here as that’s hard to come by on other platforms .
“Why won’t she see me ?” ..
I actually received a text from a well known , frequent & active board contributor about a month ago (who I will never name so don’t ask ) but he just said .
“hey Fiona , I’m going to be working near you the next little while , we should”hang out “ .
I had seen the gentleman twice as a client .
I hate the term “hang out” it is not the same as asking for a session or booking.
So I responded “Are you looking to book or hang out” … He said “ Both of course babe “😒 Shocking , I never heard back .
Another , comments on my tweety page & constantly writes long emails saying all the reasons he hasn’t quite made it to book yet … but he will soon ..so exhausting , we don’t get paid for the private PMs here or all the “soon babe “ emails & texts .
members being too friendly & never following through on booking , unpaid emotional servicing takes a toll . Its not very inviting to pay for month after month , to be honest I pay mostly to be able to read the “Blacklist” & “safety alerts in the ladies private area . I’ve had just as many wonderful gents find me on other platforms . All sites fade out over time unless it’s providing income for us . Being a review board , Not a major advertising platform . We have strict rules to follow & have to mind our manners . Sex workers aren’t really into being boxed in by rules .But we do to be able to benefit from the safety info on here as that’s hard to come by on other platforms .
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PERB by definition is a Review Board. Some members, by sheer length of membership, or number of posts, think their opinion is more important than some one with less tenure.
Some members have been known to take liberties.
The MODS do their best, but to a certain extent it is the nature of this type of board.
You cannot control what goes on between the back of the chair and the keyboard!
Advertising helps support the board, but its main function is an Information and Review board.
There are many alternatives, some good, some terrible, but they are advertising sites. Commenting, or contributing, as a non-advertiser is not an option.
Bob
