Why don’t you just call up the comma police and see if they’ll come arrest me? ?♀
What's your story for seeing an SP or being in this hobby?
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Maybe just use semi colons now, and you can be a comma comma comma comma commmma chameleon.
I struggle with guilt. I strive to be a better man, and question whether seduction is an honourable pastime. I am honest and forthright in expressing my intentions and do my best, not to lead anyone on, but still have some problems with regrets and recriminations (not mine). So I tend to swing like a pendulum, back and forth, between dating and sps. I don't want to hurt anyone and always feel bad if I do. Just an old wussie, I guess.
I wanted my peepee to feel good.
Good question, interesting thread.
One reason I like the SP experience is because I think I didn't get enough when I was young, and I enjoy filling that gap, (again and again!). I had girl friends but my life was not focused on marriage and family, so I couldn't keep the good ones. Also I wasn't confident sexually and hence I was not adventurous until I started to learn more about the possibilities when I started to see SP's.. First in Asia, then here.
It's never too late to have a happy childhood! I'm on in years now, but when I get around SP's I feel and act like a young man. I'm lovin' it! This is fair trade and it's been going on since the beginning of mankind.. After about 12 years of steady pooning, i'm able to take it in my stride, without obsessing too much, about it. Each encounter is a date. I like to be really in the mood, and prepared to conjure a mutual affinity with my date. I'm a pleaser and in these later years, I've been able to discover mutual enjoyment with most of the gals I see.
For them it's a job, I try to make them forget that for a few moments and put a smile on their face before I walk out the door. That makes me happy. Physically too, I like the sensation that goes on for hours and sometimes days afterwards.
The elephants in the room for the people who have chimed in here about the solitary unattached life are the missed enjoyment of raising children, and having a woman partner to share the years as the sun slowly sets on a life. Having children involves great sacrifice, but also is very rewarding. It takes a sacrifice, that i was not able to make, although I lucked out with a "found" child and I have a partner now who allows me the freedom to slip off into the occasional fantasy trip down memory lane to bring back the days when I was young and frisky!.
One reason I like the SP experience is because I think I didn't get enough when I was young, and I enjoy filling that gap, (again and again!). I had girl friends but my life was not focused on marriage and family, so I couldn't keep the good ones. Also I wasn't confident sexually and hence I was not adventurous until I started to learn more about the possibilities when I started to see SP's.. First in Asia, then here.
It's never too late to have a happy childhood! I'm on in years now, but when I get around SP's I feel and act like a young man. I'm lovin' it! This is fair trade and it's been going on since the beginning of mankind.. After about 12 years of steady pooning, i'm able to take it in my stride, without obsessing too much, about it. Each encounter is a date. I like to be really in the mood, and prepared to conjure a mutual affinity with my date. I'm a pleaser and in these later years, I've been able to discover mutual enjoyment with most of the gals I see.
For them it's a job, I try to make them forget that for a few moments and put a smile on their face before I walk out the door. That makes me happy. Physically too, I like the sensation that goes on for hours and sometimes days afterwards.
The elephants in the room for the people who have chimed in here about the solitary unattached life are the missed enjoyment of raising children, and having a woman partner to share the years as the sun slowly sets on a life. Having children involves great sacrifice, but also is very rewarding. It takes a sacrifice, that i was not able to make, although I lucked out with a "found" child and I have a partner now who allows me the freedom to slip off into the occasional fantasy trip down memory lane to bring back the days when I was young and frisky!.
What a wonderfully written and engaging story. I really appreciate the humanity you've brought to this thread! Thank-you SO MUCH for sharing!!!
" For them it's a job, I try to make them forget that for a few moments and put a smile on their face before I walk out the door." - this is just SUCH a good line!
You've put into words so many thoughts I've had trouble communicating. My hat is off to you, sir.
Thanks again!
I tried, but dialed the wrong number. I got the Karma Police. They told me not to worry about it as it would be taken care of. Eventually.
= )
It's all good. I know the Karma police well. I'm assuming they're once again investigating me for being an evil selfish harlot.
Tell them to let me know when they're on their way... I'll prepare some tea and cookies...
Another reason to see a girl can be boiled down exceptionally poor impulse control. I'm pretty sure if I had take the marshmallow test, I would have failed. I may or may not be doomed according to Michia Kaku.
As in, I know logically that I should not continue to procrastinate on completing a project or chore, but I see a shiny new provider with good reviews, reasonable price who is close by. Common sense and logic and cash I throw out the window and my priorities shift, and I just HAVE to have that specific piece of tail RIGHT NOW and screw the cost or impact. Tunnel vision sets in.
With no one nearby to slap me out of my illogical choice, with unspent cash begging to be set free combined with the ease of texting and driving out to see a hoe to make my pee pee happy, that is an itch MUST be scratched.
The LeoList website design specifically addresses this market, because guys like me with that poor impulse control sit on page one and stop at the most recent ad with the hottest looking provider.
LeoList sends reminder emails to girls when their ad falls off page 1 to encourage them to spend more to "bump" the ad back onto page 1.
Girls know from the volumne of inquiry texts (I have seen this in person, the moment a girl bumps her ad, the calls immediately come in and taper off as time goes on) that guys are less likely to advance to the next pages if they first see 10 hot girls to choose from.
Most LeoList ads are from providers that use fake pictures (which would be easily rectified with automated reverse-image searches), that push legitimate advertisers onto page 2 far faster.
So there you go, how to turn poor impulse control into a business model where girls pay, guys are free.
As in, I know logically that I should not continue to procrastinate on completing a project or chore, but I see a shiny new provider with good reviews, reasonable price who is close by. Common sense and logic and cash I throw out the window and my priorities shift, and I just HAVE to have that specific piece of tail RIGHT NOW and screw the cost or impact. Tunnel vision sets in.
With no one nearby to slap me out of my illogical choice, with unspent cash begging to be set free combined with the ease of texting and driving out to see a hoe to make my pee pee happy, that is an itch MUST be scratched.
The LeoList website design specifically addresses this market, because guys like me with that poor impulse control sit on page one and stop at the most recent ad with the hottest looking provider.
LeoList sends reminder emails to girls when their ad falls off page 1 to encourage them to spend more to "bump" the ad back onto page 1.
Girls know from the volumne of inquiry texts (I have seen this in person, the moment a girl bumps her ad, the calls immediately come in and taper off as time goes on) that guys are less likely to advance to the next pages if they first see 10 hot girls to choose from.
Most LeoList ads are from providers that use fake pictures (which would be easily rectified with automated reverse-image searches), that push legitimate advertisers onto page 2 far faster.
So there you go, how to turn poor impulse control into a business model where girls pay, guys are free.
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I kinda think the Karma Police would need to pay the going rate for companionship
I'm74, retired 8 years ago, at age 65. I'm single. I started going out almost every night....clubs, casino, comedy and burlesque. Met an SP on the dance floor. We became friends. Then later I met a few more SP's. We socialized a lot. Had a ton of fun. Started boinking eight of them for few years. The best thing....NO DRAMA. Sheer fun....lots of laughter. I still see one of them twice a month. A damn good life.
You meet some amazing people in this hobby. No strings attached!
...and the anticipation and date, definitely brighten up my day.
...and the anticipation and date, definitely brighten up my day.
I could say I do this because I want short term relationships with realistic expectations and no baggage. I don't want to live with someone, have zero interest in regular relationships or marriage, don't want a family. I have strong sexual urges (I work out, watch a lot of porn and even a slight sight of a shapely woman's body gives me a boner, I masturbate 3-4 times a day and try to visit SPs atleast once a week) I am 30 years old and doing quite well financially, so this all fits together. If I wouldn't follow this lifestyle then I would be losing sanity.
But it is not free will. This is how my psychology has been shaped by the ecosystem we live in - The modern world.
Would I be following this lifestyle if I was living in a different era or even if I was living in another country (outside the western world)? I have serious doubts.
But it is not free will. This is how my psychology has been shaped by the ecosystem we live in - The modern world.
Would I be following this lifestyle if I was living in a different era or even if I was living in another country (outside the western world)? I have serious doubts.
masturbating 3-4 times a day.
Geesus buddy, if you drop that down to 1-2 times you can see an SP 3-4 times a week instead of just once or twice.
My god the youth today ...
Lol, I know it sounds crazy but I work about 5 days a week. I own a busy Business so have to focus on that during the days. Late evening dates with good SPs are not easily available and I have tried doing that. One time I got a midnight date through a good agency and the SP didn't show up. I have tried overnight dates but they are a drag mostly.
For me I can only arrange 1 date a week now which works good, I prefer 2 or 3 hours date at maximum.
I masturbate before I go to sleep, smoke some weed before it and it gives me a good 7-8 hour sleep, then I wake up horny so morning desires have to be fulfilled. I may never be a responsible partner or a responsible father but I am a very responsible loner.
I wonder how many girl can handle you as a girlfriend anyways
I have a few your age guy friends and they can't hold a long term relationship because of the girls don't want to have that much sex
Some GFE wouldn’t be such a bad thing; I am just pretty lonely as a 37 year old guy.Maybe one day I’ll know what it feels like to be loved. I literally work 7 days a week. Make six figures and sadly would have to pay for female attention. October 2020 = dating is dead
because of the girls don't want to have that much sexI wonder how many girl can handle you as a girlfriend anyways
I have a few your age guy friends and they can't hold a long term relationship because of the girls don't want to have that much sex
Story of my life
Hahaha, that is exactly what happens to me in each relationship.I wonder how many girl can handle you as a girlfriend anyways
I have a few your age guy friends and they can't hold a long term relationship because of the girls don't want to have that much sex
Two reasons: not the best at being social (pre-pandemic), and not getting enough in my younger years.
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