What qualities make a good “John”?

[Just4fun00]

@ElectraXXX got me thinking on a post she made about the guys who she sees. I am sure this is a Newbie question but here it goes.
What type of attitude, disposition , qualities and action makes a good “John”? What can a John do to make a memorable experience for a SP?

 

[masterblaster]

@ElectraXXX got me thinking on a post she made about the guys who she sees. I am sure this is a Newbie question but here it goes.
What type of attitude, disposition , qualities and action makes a good “John”? What can a John do to make a memorable experience for a SP?

Pay her money.

 

[Real Sonny Burnett]

Don’t be an asshole.

 

[take8easy]

Pay her money and
Don't an asshole.

 

[Lo-ki]

Pay her money
Don’t be an asshole
Tip if deserved

 

[Big_Guy_Rye]

Pay her money
Don't be an asshole
tip if deserved
have good hygiene

 

[take8easy]

Pay her money
Don’t be an asshole
Tip if deserved

You HAD to go one up, didn't you pops?

Pay her money
Don’t be an asshole
Tip if deserved
Do your research
Communicate clearly and politely.
Respect her boundaries.
Be discreet
Review.

 

[Dick Ford]

Don't just lie there -- participate!

 

[take8easy]

Don't just lie there -- participate!

I think that would be for the SP.

 

[oodlesofpho]

Shower before and again upon meeting if she requests
Don't be late
Just be normal, and asks restrictions/limits in person if it wasn't made clear in texts to set up appt
Of course have the money and pay what was agreed upon and sure tip if you feel generous or the service was above expectations
Anything else would just be too common sense to mention, like not being an asshole or don't expect to go over the time limit, etc
Even with the bad experiences I've had I just politely say "thanks, I'm done and I'm leaving" even when it was a WOT

If you're gonna review then just be informative but not mean spirited or edgy for the luls.
Maybe they don't want to be reviewed to remain discreet, but of course if they're a scammer or a huge WOT then ya let a brotha know

 

[Just4fun00]

All great commits. My hope was that a Provider would give a tip or two! This does not mean I don’t appreciate you pro’s giving me insights!

 

[Number17]

I agree with all of the above but all those things can only happen after you successfully make a booking. Before requesting for an appointment:

• Fully read their web site (if there is one) or the ad
• Follow their screening instructions. Be prepared to provide references, your PERB handle, a deposit or whatever is requested.
• Start your text or e-mail with a proper intro and provide all necessary screening info as stated in the web site or ad.
• Don't try to cut corners on screening
• Don't negotiate their rate
• Don't be a time waster

 

[blakealridge]

Read the web site and/or ad, send a good intro message or fill out the booking form if we have one. During the booking process treat us like any other professional. During the session be genuine and kind. Trust us. Tip if you can.

 

[Riza]

I could make this the longest post on perb by quoting every reply above.

I think everyone got it right with nothing I can think of adding. Follow your peers above Just4fun and you will be good to go.

 

[westwoody]

If you must write about a negative experience, sleep on it.
Don’t write a bad review while you are still pissed off. Calm down first.

 

[Just4fun00]

I could make this the longest post on perb by quoting every reply above.

I think everyone got it right with nothing I can think of adding. Follow your peers above Just4fun and you will be good to go.

Thank you Rizza for your response and advice.

 

[Just4fun00]

Read the web site and/or ad, send a good intro message or fill out the booking form if we have one. During the booking process treat us like any other professional. During the session be genuine and kind. Trust us. Tip if you can.

Charlee...you have some sounds words. Really enjoy these words, "During the booking process treat us like any other professional. During the session be genuine and kind. Trust us. Tip if you can"

 

[Bridge]

Just4fun00 B.A. Now go for the M.A. and PhD ... good luck.

 

[Asian Fever]

I think the biggest thing is just be a nice guy, and treat the girls with respect.

In this business nice guys always finish first, literally.

 

[Just4fun00]

I think the biggest thing is just be a nice guy, and treat the girls with respect.

In this business nice guys always finish first, literally.

Sure appreciate the advice!