What gets your Spidey senses tingling

[MrBrown]

Don't know about "spidy senses" but anyone that offers 15min blow-n-go doesn't make it to my TDL and I'm not a big fan of those that offer 1/2 hr sessions.
To me this indicates high volume.

 

[Elle Diablo]

... offer 1/2 hr sessions. To me this indicates high volume.

Not always is this the case. Some offer half hours for the clients that think the hour is a wee bit steep.

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

Not always is this the case. Some offer half hours for the clients that think the hour is a wee bit steep.

Ding ding ding...that's why my 30 minute offer is not a full meal deal.

 

[LDN3000]

*Any asian SP ad. At this point it's a straight nope. I actually filter them out when looking on LL now.

*If I see the word 'classy' or 'courtesan' in your ad

*If I see your ad too regularly. I browse LL and BP most days and over the last few months their are SP's who post everyday. For me personally that's a bit off putting. And it highlights the real lack of true variety in Van.

* Ad with no phone number

* Long SP adverts that go into minute and pointless detail

* Ads for agencies, or SP's sharing places.

 

[Riza]

*Any asian SP ad. At this point it's a straight nope. I actually filter them out when looking on LL now.

*If I see your ad too regularly. I browse LL and BP most days and over the last few months their are SP's who post everyday. For me personally that's a bit off putting. And it highlights the real lack of true variety in Van.

* Ads for agencies, or SP's sharing places.

I guess I won't be seeing LDN anytime soon. :noidea::wink::kiss:

Hey, the emoticons are back :dance:

 

[MrBrown]

*If I see your ad too regularly. I browse LL and BP most days and over the last few months their are SP's who post everyday. For me personally that's a bit off putting. And it highlights the real lack of true variety in Van.

Agree to lack of variety but also that it may be a sign that business is slow.

 

[voodooking]

Lets say that I visit the same SP twice in one week for a hh each time.

The client that books an hour actually paid less than my two hh sessions.

Ding ding ding...that's why my 30 minute offer is not a full meal deal.

 

[Cock Throppled]

Lets say that I visit the same SP twice in one week for a hh each time.

The client that books an hour actually paid less than my two hh sessions.

What kind of math-challenged clients are you seeing?


Back to the subject - Any ad that only shows pictures of one body part.

 

[voodooking]

An SP that indicates that she does not offer the same services to their clients on a 30 minute session that she offers to the client on an hour definitely would make my spidey senses tingle and put my wallet away.

There are some SPs that I have seen twice in a week for 30 minute sessions and they don't give me half a menu.

What kind of math-challenged clients are you seeing?


Back to the subject - Any ad that only shows pictures of one body part.

Ding ding ding...that's why my 30 minute offer is not a full meal deal.

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

An SP that indicates that she does not offer the same services to their clients on a 30 minute session that she offers to the client on an hour definitely would make my spidey senses tingle and put my wallet away.

There are some SPs that I have seen twice in a week for 30 minute sessions and they don't give me half a menu.

Well see ladies, THIS is why you simply can't ever base your rates & services on what clients think you're worth. KNOW YOUR WORTH, and determine your rates accordingly.

Darling, if you were seeing me twice a week, religiously? I'd offer you a VIP rate for VIP service, just like I do with the regulars who have been seeing me for the past 4 years. I have a client who still sees me for Domme services (when he can afford to) at less than my current GFE hourly rate. I have another who has seen me so frequently that when he shows up in town once a month or so, asking about my availability, I move heaven & Earth to arrange to see him. Our agreed upon rate for 90 minutes Naughty (& WET) is just over my non-VIP 60 minute. We have incredible sex & when he leaves, I always have to strip the bed & do the laundry. He plays me like a finely tuned instrument: I call him "The Cellist" in my blog.

A PERB member was shy about getting his feet wet, so to speak, and wanted to know if I would offer him a shorter option than my 60 minute minimum. I was really resistant to the idea, but Mr. Firefly & I eventually agreed that we would meet for a non full service visit first. He enjoyed himself sufficiently to book again a short time later to enjoy a more leisurely romp. I offer it as a courtesy, nothng more. I got so many requests for a blowjob only rate or worse yet, a BnG rate. I dislike thinking of my services strictly in terms of acronyms, but that one in particular makes my skin crawl.

Frankly, I'm not looking for the clients that are looking for a deal or a bargain. I am looking for clients who appreciate what I offer in terms of VALUE FOR DOLLAR. The gentlemen who understand the difference appreciate the distinction.

 

[voodooking]

That is a little more clear than " Ding ding ding...that's why my 30 minute offer is not a full meal deal ".

What would make me nervous is booking a specific SP for a hh rather than an hour and then finding out that she is not even going to give you 100% of herself because she feels that the booking was not long enough.

I don't think many clients would prefer the " half meal " deal treatment in my opinion.

I have rarely been disappointed or left with a bad memory after a 30 minute booking and if the chemistry was good I will repeat often.
I definitely " never " barter rates or look for deals but sometimes a 30 minute session just works out perfectly for me.

Well see ladies, THIS is why you simply can't ever base your rates & services on what clients think you're worth. KNOW YOUR WORTH, and determine your rates accordingly.

Darling, if you were seeing me twice a week, religiously? I'd offer you a VIP rate for VIP service, just like I do with the regulars who have been seeing me for the past 4 years. I have a client who still sees me for Domme services (when he can afford to) at less than my current GFE hourly rate. I have another who has seen me so frequently that when he shows up in town once a month or so, asking about my availability, I move heaven & Earth to arrange to see him. Our agreed upon rate for 90 minutes Naughty (& WET) is just over my non-VIP 60 minute. We have incredible sex & when he leaves, I always have to strip the bed & do the laundry. He plays me like a finely tuned instrument: I call him "The Cellist" in my blog.

A PERB member was shy about getting his feet wet, so to speak, and wanted to know if I would offer him a shorter option than my 60 minute minimum. I was really resistant to the idea, but Mr. Firefly & I eventually agreed that we would meet for a non full service visit first. He enjoyed himself sufficiently to book again a short time later to enjoy a more leisurely romp. I offer it as a courtesy, nothng more. I got so many requests for a blowjob only rate or worse yet, a BnG rate. I dislike thinking of my services strictly in terms of acronyms, but that one in particular makes my skin crawl.

Frankly, I'm not looking for the clients that are looking for a deal or a bargain. I am looking for clients who appreciate what I offer in terms of VALUE FOR DOLLAR. The gentlemen who understand the difference appreciate the distinction.

 

[voodooking]

I have seen SPs for 1 hour appointments before but I still enjoy 30 minute sessions.
I don't feel that 30 minute sessions are disrespectful in any way especially with someone that you have seen before.

I don't tend to book longer than an hour and I don't feel that I particularly need a ton of " cuddle time or pillow talk time " for the majority of the session to feel that I had a great experience.
I am definitely " not " one of those types of clients that always books multi hour sessions and brings wine and flowers and pretends that the SP is going to be his girlfriend or potential future wife.

I've yet to see a lady for less than an hour and personally for me, I am now preferring 90 mins or 2 hours, it's just less rushed and gives me a better time to relax, take my time and really enjoy my time with her. Only once did I ask for an hour but an option of longer 90 if we really clicked as I was unsure of the person I was going to meet. Turns out my spidey sense was right on that occasion as it was a poor experience and actually left before the hour.
Dunno if I could really ever do a 30 min, just seems so disrespectful or...I dunno what to call it. I mean maybe if you both had seen each other several times, were very comfortable with one another, and just needed a quick release, I guess for some that works. In my mind I would prefer to just wait until I had more time so the time was quality not...quantity or rushed.
A nooner is cool in a relationship but when you're paying for it I'd prefer the time to be more passionate and memorable. That's just me though.

An hour goes by super fast, I can't even imagine 30 mins with an SP. I spend more time that 30 mins on my work lunch break (don't tell my boss.) Guess my point is or was; 30 mins what can you get done except speed-mpos? :dizzy:

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

I've yet to see a lady for less than an hour and personally for me, I am now preferring 90 mins or 2 hours, it's just less rushed and gives me a better time to relax, take my time and really enjoy my time with her. Only once did I ask for an hour but an option of longer 90 if we really clicked as I was unsure of the person I was going to meet. Turns out my spidey sense was right on that occasion as it was a poor experience and actually left before the hour.
Dunno if I could really ever do a 30 min, just seems so disrespectful or...I dunno what to call it. I mean maybe if you both had seen each other several times, were very comfortable with one another, and just needed a quick release, I guess for some that works. In my mind I would prefer to just wait until I had more time so the time was quality not...quantity or rushed.
A nooner is cool in a relationship but when you're paying for it I'd prefer the time to be more passionate and memorable. That's just me though.

An hour goes by super fast, I can't even imagine 30 mins with an SP. I spend more time that 30 mins on my work lunch break (don't tell my boss.) Guess my point is or was; 30 mins what can you get done except speed-mpos? :dizzy:

That is a little more clear than " Ding ding ding...that's why my 30 minute offer is not a full meal deal ".

What would make me nervous is booking a specific SP for a hh rather than an hour and then finding out that she is not even going to give you 100% of herself because she feels that the booking was not long enough.
I don't think many clients would prefer the " half meal " deal treatment in my opinion.

I have rarely been disappointed or left with a bad memory after a 30 minute booking and if the chemistry was good I will repeat often.
I definitely " never " barter rates or look for deals but sometimes a 30 minute session just works out perfectly for me.

As I adjust to my new laptop, there's a learning curve. It's much different than my desktop, and I have lost more good posts than I can count! I had intended to reply more thoroughly to Elle's post. Here goes (version 3...)

I like taking my time, so unless my partner is in a hurry, I do! I don't waste time, but I enjoy drawing out the moment between our first kiss at the door & my panties hitting the floor. I'm the best kind of tease...I put out! ;D I enjoy long deep kisses with your hand on my ass & my tongue in your mouth before I go to my knees to worship your cock & demonstrate the complete control I have over my gag reflex...

but hey, if you're in a hurry....

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

From personal experience of working with Ms E on dozens of occasions over the past year... 30 minutes just simply isn't enough time for her to do everything she normally does in a typical 1-2hr session.

Trust me... Time speeds up when you're in Ms Erica-land.

Thank you darling! :love_heart::love_heart:

 

[UhOh]

Ads that say squirter. I'm just not interested in a girl I don't know taking a wizz on me.
Ads that require you give your name. Not that I ever would, does anyone really ever give their real name? Its a weird question, I just skip to the next ad.
Ads with shopped photos. Whats the point other than to hide reality.
Ass that say blow & go. Thats a girl that will put anything in her mouth, anything but my dick.

 

[Cock Throppled]

People disrespecting SP's or clients who prefer 1/2 hour sessions are being snobs. There are differents needs for different people.

Some SP's realize they can provide a lovely session in that time, if the time for introductions and clean-up aren't included, or they simly aren't clock watchers. I know I've booked sessions as short as one hour that ended up being three hours with the SP.

As for clients - some simply don't have the time due to work or other commitments, or they only need/want/can do one shot and are not interested in "extras" or pretending they are on a date. There is a lot of fantasy in this activity, but it is also a business. I prefer to keep thngs friendly, but business-like. Sometimes shorter sessions are just what the doctor ordered.

 

[asiansweetness]

People disrespecting SP's or clients who prefer 1/2 hour sessions are being snobs. There are differents needs for different people.

Some SP's realize they can provide a lovely session in that time, if the time for introductions and clean-up aren't included, or they simly aren't clock watchers. I know I've booked sessions as short as one hour that ended up being three hours with the SP.

As for clients - some simply don't have the time due to work or other commitments, or they only need/want/can do one shot and are not interested in "extras" or pretending they are on a date. There is a lot of fantasy in this activity, but it is also a business. I prefer to keep thngs friendly, but business-like. Sometimes shorter sessions are just what the doctor ordered.

Yeah sometimes you just want to get in and get out, pun intended

 

[Elmore]

Pics where the woman primarily wears a corset. Some don't mind a little or a lot extra in the mid section but many do or would at least like to know in advance. Carefully calculated angles for pics, a hand or sheet covering her stomach and corset exclusive lingerie pics are major red flags for me.

 

[Elmore]

People disrespecting SP's or clients who prefer 1/2 hour sessions are being snobs. There are differents needs for different people.

Some SP's realize they can provide a lovely session in that time, if the time for introductions and clean-up aren't included, or they simly aren't clock watchers. I know I've booked sessions as short as one hour that ended up being three hours with the SP.

As for clients - some simply don't have the time due to work or other commitments, or they only need/want/can do one shot and are not interested in "extras" or pretending they are on a date. There is a lot of fantasy in this activity, but it is also a business. I prefer to keep thngs friendly, but business-like. Sometimes shorter sessions are just what the doctor ordered.

Ding ding ding.
For some clients, like many escorts, foreplay is not their thing. Remove DFK and DATY from a session and 30 minutes is sufficient for many who aren't looking to finish a bottle of wine before a session.

Some guys need companionship so they book longer sessions and I guess others need to rush home to their wife and kids. It's mind boggling to me what (and who) guys pay for but to each his own. But nobody should be asking an escort for a shorter session than they offer.

 

[vancity_cowboy]

any ad telling me how 'tight' the escort is