talking about sex is good,
do's and don'ts
so you don't offend the lady,
I find compliments are a waste of time, until you actually know the lady,
then you tell her something from the heart, that she has never heard before, she will appreciate that more, then gee you have a nice smile, or nice hair, or your pretty, so lame,
don't over think it, follow the ladies lead,
I mean some ladies want to know all about you married etc, work, others don't give a shit, or who have you seen before, your sort of history in this hobby,
some ladies don't give a shit about you, they just want to talk about themselves.
every lady is different, be a better listener then a talker,
if she doesn't want to talk that's fine,
get undressed.