When you stay in this hobby long enough, you realize that girls come and go all the time.
The list of my ATF's who have disappeared is quite long. I not just liked them, I had loved them. But that's the nature of this business.
So, my two cents are, respect what they do, respect them as human beings and let them move on. There is always another one texting you her buzzer number so walk the door and ... play with her buzzer.
"Move On!" , in short.