what do men want?

[lovinithard]

Oh, Anita, give it a rest.

 

[georgebushmoron]

For a male who finds the act of conquest exhilerating a sexually compliant woman would not be very fulfilling. Sex is not what he is seeking,the thrill of the chase is what he seeks. Sexually agressive, which certainly implies sexual availability, in this scenario would translate into non-satisfying.

Sexual aggressiveness could also mean someone who is dominant in the sexual act.... it does not exclusively imply availability. A dominant woman in bed could be attractive or unattractive, depending on the recipient. What I meant by sexually aggressive is a woman who is dominating, and probably a large percentage of men don't like this.

 

[gravitas]

There are a few guys here who bring out the worst in me

Then you perhaps need to ask yourself:
"Why am I here?"

I have a suspicion
<img src='http://img.villagephotos.com/p/2004-4/688404/bitching.gif' >

 

[S.G. Gibson]

What do men want?

I prefer Vargas to Rockwell. At least for now.

 

[CJ Tylers]

Veronica, you are a smart girl, I shouldn't beat around the bush...

You fell victim to believing what men say instead of watching what they do.
They might be absolutely smitten by a woman like you, but the truth is, having a woman like you is like eating chocolate cake. It is wonderful, but having it all the time is not that good....

If you look at what men do is: They get married to an average/decent girl so they can be in control, and occasionally, when they feel like having a chocolate cake, they see women like you! (Of course, they complain about the good girl at home so they can justify their actions)

Your bf/fb (did you mean boyfriend or fuck buddy? LOL) was worried he won't be able to keep up with you, and that scared the hell out of him. He will marry a good girl and probably cheat on her.

Finally, my advice to you: Don't try to figure out what men want! Just be yourself and the right one will stick around!

Anita, you know... you really seem to have a negative opinion on men. Some men are like that, then again, some of us hold marriage and such relationships in much higher regard than you give us credit for.

As a single man, I oft wonder why a married man...who has married the woman of his choosing... now would wander. Given it's a joy that has so far been denied to me, I percieve it to be treasured rather than used and abused.

I would hope whomever I have for a partner feels the same... and until that time, I can only wait for the right person to come along.

Your blanket brush strokes against men are starting to get tiresome... being able to look at the situation from both sides of the arguement tends to shed illumination and understanding. Simply making a snap decision and inflamatory comments tends to worsen the situation. Please consider your wording a touch more thoughtfully next time.

As for VV, given she hasn't posted again in this thread... we're all human beings. We all share in commond experiences... disapppointment, fear and unhappiness being prevalent amongst them. I imagine you are quite familiar with the transient nature of such things, and that this thread was nothing more than a quick gripe to let the world know you're pissed off right now. As MAgnum PI would say, "Did you see the sunrise this morning?"

 

[Very Veronica]

i feel like a bachelorette/simon cowell cross!

Who knew this would be an invitation to fill the fb position? Keep the applications comin' boys but just to let you know to make the cut you must be hovering around 30 yrs, towering at 6'4"ish, dark hair, body of steel, pornstar cock, able to match my tongue lashing skills & be able to provide evidence of one miracle...well...i'll go easy on the last one if you look like this:

http://www.eros-vancouver.com/files/bc-veronica99-veronica1.htm

veryveronica@shaw.ca

 

[slickitysplit]

May-be Change Your Attitude?

Glad to hear that there are exceptions... But I am still waiting for the day when these hidden "nice guys" come forward and counterbalance the others. Before that, I can only base my opinion on what I am reading!

They will only come forward when you change your attitude. When you have such a negative attitude about men and paint them all with the same brush then that is what you will see in all of them. When you project such negativity that is what you will get back!!

No, I'm not Anthony Robbins!

 

[myselftheother]

Yeah, right And where are they when I am not posting on the board?

That there is the example of your negativity.... I'm sure you have your reasons, but I have read a lot of your posts and when they are not about your advertising I find that they are not entirely intellegent.... just full of the fashionable "men control women, men are scared of strong women" mantra crap.

I love it when a woman is strong... and takes responsibility for herself, her actions and can give herself to her partner freely without fear or apprehension. You don't have to be so horribly narrow minded and bitter, and it's not everyone else's fault that you are this way... or feel this way. It's your choice to hang on to negative feeling and thoughts.... and the long your hang on the worse it gets.... the hate, the narrow view...the shitty feelings.....

Anyway, what do I know... I'm just a Man.

 

[slickitysplit]

Yeah, right And where are they when I am not posting on the board?

I was mostly referring to what happens off the board. Your negative attitude to men is probably projected pretty much all the time. It's not something one can hide and pretend it's not there. So, even if you're not making the blatant disrespectfull and negative comments that you do on here, people will still pick up on it.

 

[TheSpot]

Who knew this would be an invitation to fill the fb position? Keep the applications comin' boys but just to let you know to make the cut you must be hovering around 30 yrs, towering at 6'4"ish, dark hair, body of steel, pornstar cock, able to match my tongue lashing skills & be able to provide evidence of one miracle...well...i'll go easy on the last one if you look like this:

"big hunky pic which doesn't need to be re-shown"

Let me check my papers and the mirror ....

- uhmm, almost but not quite

- hmm, about a foot short

- a little pale... lean, nope...no steel.

- hmm, about a foot short

- yes! including a few miracles!

Oh wait....what the heck, I'm not even applying!

 

[visiting]

Ok this is funny!

Anita.. Your a riot!



VV, OOOO something tells me she will get over it, soon, and doesn't she have enough "Fuck Buddies" I would think she may want a "Cuddle Buddy" even more.... Just have to pick-up a few dogs, and you will have thier unconditional love!

 

[myselftheother]

Psychic, eh?

Tell me next weeks lottery numbers and I'll forgive you for your attack on me

You don't have to be psychic... just know how to read.

 

[Bartdude]

Psychic, eh?

Tell me next weeks lottery numbers and I'll forgive you for your attack on me

Oh my God...

Are you this much of an annoying, condescending bitch in the room, too?

 

[Devo]

Not sure what is more making me shake my head more here. The attitude behind the original post, or the ridiculous sucking up that some of the pooners here have thrown in after the fact.

You are exactly right Methos. I would like to know why any intelligent person would even bother to respond to the fabricated drivel that this VV twit continues to emit.

 

[Bartdude]

Oh please...

Me thinks thou doth protest too much.

 

[S.G. Gibson]

From this thread I have to infer many men want a verbal sparring partner.

 

[gravitas]

I was kidding!

fuck me sideways.....you make Mohammed Saeed (aka Baghdad Bob) sound credible

 

[BC_Boy]

what do men want from women?

I bet that most men don't really know what they want.....and what they want can be different every day.

 

[dipitydoo]

So i recently got put on ice by my fb while he makes yet another attempt at the rockwellian dream. Says i blow his mind mentally & sexually but that i'm not the girl (or cougar) that he envisioned spending his life with. He's 32, i'm 42. Whutteva. He'll be back. Meanwhile, i get a review stating what a great gal i am but way too much in bed. WTF? What do you lame ass fags want?

hey you just have to try a little... your will find your answer to your question if you re-read what you wrote.

So you blow him away mentally. Check!
So you blow him away sexually. Check!

um... what about (apologies if it sounds corny) spiritually / his soul?

It's clear to me you just appear to him as a cold person, and judging from a lot of clues you give us here on the board, you probably are! No offense at all, but think about it.

Maybe he wants to be with someone for the rest of his life who's not all about "Me, Myself and I".

 

[Maury Beniowski]

This thread's got me laughing so hard, I can't get this tune out of my head...

Dum-dum-dum-dumdy-doo-wah
Ooh-yay-yay-yay-yeah
Oh-oh-oh-oh-wah
Only the lonely

Only the lonely (dum-dum-dum-dumdy-doo-wah)
Know the way I feel tonight (ooh-yay-yay-yay-yeah)
Only the lonely (dum-dum-dum-dumdy-doo-wah)
Know this feelin aint right (dum-dum-dum-dumdy-doo-wah)

There goes my baby
There goes my heart
Theyre gone forever
So far apart

But only the lonely
Know why
I cry
Only the lonely

Dum-dum-dum-dumdy-doo-wah
Ooh-yay-yay-yay-yeah
Oh-oh-oh-oh-wah
Only the lonely

Only the lonely
Know the heartaches Ive been through
Only the lonely
Know I cried and cried for you

Maybe tomorrow
A new romance
No more sorrow
But thats the chance - you gotta take
If your lonely heart breaks
Only the lonely

Dum-dum-dum-dumdy-doo-wah