what do men want?

[rollerboy]

So i recently got put on ice by my fb while he makes yet another attempt at the rockwellian dream. Says i blow his mind mentally & sexually but that i'm not the girl (or cougar) that he envisioned spending his life with. He's 32, i'm 42. Whutteva. He'll be back. Meanwhile, i get a review stating what a great gal i am but way too much in bed. WTF? What do you lame ass fags want?

Look at all you lame ass fags who answered! Asphinctersezwhat? Har har!

Wait. Aw u cunt.

 

[shapeshifter]

Methos and Gravitas said it all but I will add my 2 cents!

Holy Shit! talk about a couple of bitter old bitches

For the love of god he is 32!!! you are 42!! maybe he would like to start a family in 5-6 years and push his baby in a stroller instead of pushing you around in a wheel chair!

Or maybe he wants a wife that hasnt been fucked by every dude in town that had a couple hundred bucks to spare!

You need to let some air out of that balloon you call a head, the pressure is fucking with your ability to recognize the obvious.

 

[rollerboy]

Or maybe he wants a wife that hasnt been fucked by every dude in town that had a couple hundred bucks to spare!

True, I wouldn't even buy a bed used. You sleep on a bed other people use at a hotel, but somehow it's different when it's yours.

Still, a bit harsh dude. Maybe she had a drink or two, and decided to seek sympathy from understanding Perbs.

Alchohol impairs judgement.

 

[MissMonique_vrz]

ok...

Um. So.. I'm just thinking here but one would think there are other ways to express an opinion (I'm not sure that's what some of you are even doing here..?) without barfing out all these insults and negativity.

It's a shame some of you feel it necessary to write such useless and angry comments.
If you want everyone to agree with you and share the same opinion as you, my suggestion: buy a journal, write in it and answer it and agree with yourself...otherwise, expect that not everyone will share the same opinion..that's how adult conversations work,...

(some) men don't know what they want.
(some) women don't know what they want.
women don't have a clue what men want.
men don't have a clue what women want.

but we all know what we Don't want.

it sucks to be dumped..It usually doesn't take all that long to be glad but in the meantime it always helps to vent.

*I feel like I'm supposed to insert a few words here, just to make sure my post fits in this thread..*fags*bitches*cunt*dykes*blah blah blaaaaah

I'm going to pretend I didn't waste my time reading this garbage...umm..I mean.. this thread.

Right.
About.



Now. *sigh*

 

[Damaged]

Thats it ! that is what i was hoping for in this love of mine . .but there was very little intamacy.. or sex ... and that is still what a man need s ..And I think a women even more so ... That open honest conection .. That makes you part of each other. for the rest of our lives.
Thanks for clairifing the fuzzyness.

Get you own thread.

I love threads like this. They're illuminating and they cover a wide-spectrum of thoughts and age groups. I find them they're useful.

One request though. Could we please stop throwing eggs at each other and therby show and share our insecurities wiht each other

Shall we all sing Kumbaya now?

Um. So.. I'm just thinking here but one would think there are other ways to express an opinion (I'm not sure that's what some of you are even doing here..?) without barfing out all these insults and negativity.

I think VV has written more than her fair share of negativity in posts that she can handle a little in return.

A very interesting thread.

 

[gravitas]

This is what you think of hookers and still can't stay away from them?

Jesus christ on a crutch, do you ever try to rationalize your opinions or just let the voices in your head spew out posts?

First and foremost PERB is an escort review site meaning its made up of women who are comfortable in selling sex and guys who are comfortable in buying it. This mean there's an agreement that both parties are prepared to commoditize whats a very intimate activity to a business transaction. While rollerboy may have been a little blunt in his comments I can't say I disagree. I'm sure that its possible for true and romantic love to exist between an SP or client and someone outside of the sex trade but when VV describes her on again/off again beau as a "fuck buddy" it doesn't sound as though its a relationship destined for long term success.

one would think there are other ways to express an opinion (I'm not sure that's what some of you are even doing here..?) without barfing out all these insults and negativity.....It's a shame some of you feel it necessary to write such useless and angry comments


If you want everyone to agree with you and share the same opinion as you, my suggestion: buy a journal, write in it and answer it and agree with yourself...otherwise, expect that not everyone will share the same opinion..that's how adult conversations work,...

You're contridicting yourself with the "shame some of you feel it.....useless and angry comments" and "not everyone will share the same opinion" comments. IMO the majority of the comments have been along the lines of "you reap what you sow". This is by no means moralizing against prostitution, as I've said many times before we're all adults and as long as no kids are involved and every one's there by their own volition I don't see the harm. However, by taking part in this activity as either a buyer or seller has its consequences and one of which is the impact on current and future relationships with those outside the hobby. I don't care how open minded someone may be but the fact that some one's either been a hooker or john has to weigh the dynamics between a couple.

 

[totravel]

Um. So.. I'm just thinking here but one would think there are other ways to express an opinion (I'm not sure that's what some of you are even doing here..?) without barfing out all these insults and negativity.

It's a shame some of you feel it necessary to write such useless and angry comments.
If you want everyone to agree with you and share the same opinion as you, my suggestion: buy a journal, write in it and answer it and agree with yourself...otherwise, expect that not everyone will share the same opinion..that's how adult conversations work,...

(some) men don't know what they want.
(some) women don't know what they want.
women don't have a clue what men want.
men don't have a clue what women want.

but we all know what we Don't want.

it sucks to be dumped..It usually doesn't take all that long to be glad but in the meantime it always helps to vent.

*I feel like I'm supposed to insert a few words here, just to make sure my post fits in this thread..*fags*bitches*cunt*dykes*blah blah blaaaaah

I'm going to pretend I didn't waste my time reading this garbage...umm..I mean.. this thread.

Right.
About.



Now. *sigh*

I agree.
Most of what took place in this thread was caused by posters who saw an opportunity to take cheap shots at other posters they dislike anyway (they obviously were waiting for the chance).
VV did an excellent job of provoking comments (both from lap dogs and haters), then sitting back and watching the proceedings. Then after the stew started to go off the boil, coming back with her ideal man description (which started it up again).
All I will say is VV is a bit unrealistic in her search for a lifetime partner, (but she does say that her FB "will be back"). The credentials she seeks will be hard to find in someone willing to give a lifetime committment.
She would be better off looking for someone closer to her own age, but I sense the underlying problem is she's afraid SHE will get bored with HIM. Being in this business probably distorts reality for some SP's.

 

[MissMonique_vrz]

You're contridicting yourself with the "shame some of you feel it.....useless and angry comments" and "not everyone will share the same opinion" comments. IMO the majority of the comments have been along the lines of "you reap what you sow". This is by no means moralizing against prostitution, as I've said many times before we're all adults and as long as no kids are involved and every one's there by their own volition I don't see the harm. However, by taking part in this activity as either a buyer or seller has its consequences and one of which is the impact on current and future relationships with those outside the hobby. I don't care how open minded someone may be but the fact that some one's either been a hooker or john has to weigh the dynamics between a couple.

I assume being with an sp or being one must mess with a relationship and make it tricky to handle, but really the one comment I reacted to (that seems to have since been deleted) was tasteless and nasty. It WAS useless and only a cheap shot. I think this should be the last place where such a disrespectful comment should be made... It makes no sense to me how this person could show his contempt about all of our choice of lifestyle, yet is a participant himself....

After having read it over again, I agree that aside from a few unecessarily judgemental posts, most comments were well intentioned and some interesting... but I think the whole bickering/insults back and forth got me SO annoyed I lost patience and just couldn't see what the purpose of this thread was.

The topic could be/is interesting to discuss/debate.. but it's kinda hard to do that when ppl are just at each other's throat and ridicule whatever comments are made that they don't agree with. It isn't just this thread, it happens a lot and that's what I think is a shame because it just gets everyone pissed off and defensive about every little comment... so what's the point? Is that really necessary?
Get a room! LOL

 

[wilde]

Poor sucker! This is what you think of hookers and still can't stay away from them?

Just because you take a dump dosen't mean you have to live in one.



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[wilde]

Who knew this would be an invitation to fill the fb position? Keep the applications comin' boys but just to let you know to make the cut you must be hovering around 30 yrs, towering at 6'4"ish, dark hair, body of steel, pornstar cock, able to match my tongue lashing skills & be able to provide evidence of one miracle...well...i'll go easy on the last one if you look like this:

The only problem is that the guy you are describing is looking for someone whose age does not exceed 25, around 5"9, blonde hair, big but natural tits, able to match his pornstar cock with her powerful kegel muscles, and most importantly when to shut the hell up. I am sure he will overlook the age part if you've got at least a million $ in the bank and a nice house. Good luck with that.


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[wilde]

Must be a bummer when your happiness depends on people you find disgusting.

First of all, do not equate happiness and desire. We do not poon to get happy but I guess happiness can be a good byproduct of sex.

Secondly, I do not find SPs disgusting. But they do tend to make lousy wives or GFs with all their baggage and all (take a look in the mirror, Anita).

Finally, how many do I have to put in for you to get that it was a joke.


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[SeekSteadyRegSP]

So i recently got put on ice by my fb while he makes yet another attempt at the rockwellian dream. Says i blow his mind mentally & sexually but that i'm not the girl (or cougar) that he envisioned spending his life with. He's 32, i'm 42. Whutteva. He'll be back. Meanwhile, i get a review stating what a great gal i am but way too much in bed. WTF? What do you lame ass fags want?

Hi, something tells me your post was mainly rhetorical and reactionary but I was still inspired by it.

Firstly, I've never met you, nor does my mind have any image of you which is based at all on the actual you beyond (literate, and a working girl).

What I think I want, that would/could relate to someone such as yourself, is to gain a sense that the mentioned details don't matter so much to you. Who you are in bed, acrobatically, is such a non-issue, but who you are in bed extends so far beyond the sheets and the covers when relating to a boyfriend.

Somebody who can be whatever extension of herself she prefers, while in bed, is just great. But that means absolutely nothing (er, on nights when I'm not paying for it, I mean) if said person isn't entirely comfortable with every iota of herself during all walks of the rest of our shared life.

Something hints to me that the dynamics of your being a working girl did not mesh tolerably with the relationship. Sure maybe he knew where you worked when you met, making it less shocking to him, and rendering him less capable of complaining fairly about your job. That doesn't mean that your work didn't impact the idea of you-and-him-together like a third wheel of some sort.

The one cited review relating to your being too much in bed just doesn't matter on the grand scale and I'm guessing that it is only the timing of said review which has you canvassing the PERB neighborhood for answers.

Veronica, I only want to urge you to be yourself and no more, or no less, and to avoid like the plague any temptation to alter or change yourself in response to perceptions you might allow yourself to have about you.

In the near future, keep playing the part of Veronica (the real-life human, not the working-girl character, unless on the clock) while striving to master the role you know best. It is a sure thing that at some point you'll go around a corner and really wow! someone as you are, and then you won't have to feel as if playing someone else's role when it happens.

While waiting for that to happen, I hope you won't waste too many hours thinking of things you should change or alter to speed it along.

Geez, how long-winded of me...

Good luck.

 

[myselftheother]

Poor sucker! This is what you think of hookers and still can't stay away from them?

I'm sorry... but what the fuck are you talking about? You just spouted out a reactionary comment like popcorn kernel that was stuck in your throat. He just made a comment of seeing the whole picture in a different context..

By the way, what makes you better than the average Sp? I get the sense that you believe that you are somehow better than or on a moral high road than those of us who buy and sell a little pleasure and escape....

Or I could be wrong....

 

[Horse99]

pleasure and contempt are mutually exclusive for me....I don't experience one within close proximity to the other, and I doubt many other guys do....

 

[gravitas]

I am definitely better than those who use women for pleasure and show nothing but contempt for them.

Fuck, you are damaged aren't you.....I'd actually like the guy who did this if only to give him a great big shot nuts. I think you're probably a pretty decent person but the angst and latent anger is amazing.

 

[Randy Whorewald]

I hope I am better than those who use women for pleasure and show nothing but contempt for them.

Anita, your contempt for the males on this board has been amply demonstrated time and time again. It could be a sign that you should seek counselling to overcome what was obviously a very bad relationship.

 

[FuZzYknUckLeS]

Put down your cross and live a little.

 

[Bartdude]

You have never met women who have pride, that's all!

There's a big difference between women with pride, and women who are just plain antagonistic, bitter, condescending, and rude.

I KNOW PLENTY of women with pride - your attitude does not, in any way, resemble theirs.

 

[Randy Whorewald]

So i recently got put on ice by my fb while he makes yet another attempt at the rockwellian dream. Says i blow his mind mentally & sexually but that i'm not the girl (or cougar) that he envisioned spending his life with. He's 32, i'm 42. Whutteva. He'll be back. Meanwhile, i get a review stating what a great gal i am but way too much in bed. WTF? What do you lame ass fags want?

VV. If he is a lame ass fag, you're better off without him.

 

[gravitas]

You have never met women who have pride, that's all!

yup thats right.....every woman I've met right from the ditzy air canada stewardess, the tim horton's clerk with the trailer wide ass, the secretary at work who sucks off the boss and of course all my ex's who I've treated like shit had no pride.....did that answer make you happy?

If you don't like it, please tell the guys who keep coming after me to stop

stop what, speaking their mind? commenting on your man-icide?

No one's done anything other then express their opinion on your feminista attitude and how its getting a little much.

You guys keep fighting for the right to trash women unpunished, and I don't like it.

You have a chip on your shoulder that would make Atlas weep!

I am against jerks.

I've figured out your problem. You've spent far too much time wearing a strap on fucking guys in the ass and have started to act just like the jerks you detest.