what do men want?

[Very Veronica]

So i recently got put on ice by my fb while he makes yet another attempt at the rockwellian dream. Says i blow his mind mentally & sexually but that i'm not the girl (or cougar) that he envisioned spending his life with. He's 32, i'm 42. Whutteva. He'll be back. Meanwhile, i get a review stating what a great gal i am but way too much in bed. WTF? What do you lame ass fags want?

 

[athaire]

What the hell is way to much in bed? One can't get enough of a good thing in bed, or at least I can't seem to. I've heard we want a lady in public and whore in bed.

Unless you tell the whole torrid story, can't answer properly other than to say that you should find someone that wants you, not someone you want.

 

[Cock Throppled]

I think what he, or any man might want is the same as most women - some respect and appreciation. And appreciation isn't about being wild in bed or buying expensive gifts, it's about appreciating the person and them knowing it. Your aggressive attitude is welcomed by most of your customers, but it seems your guy funds it a bit much day-to-day.On the other hand - some people aren't satisfied by anything and are natural wanderers. If he comes back - are you sure you want him?

 

[CARGO1]

Maybe thats his polite way of saying he does not want to spend the rest of his life with a Sp/ pornstar.

Cargo

 

[SG4EVAH]

WTF? What do you lame ass fags want?

Sorry to hear VV, I would be a bit pissed if that was me. Maybe they where thinking with the head down below, and not the one on top of their necks?

 

[westwoody]

"To thine own self be true". If somebody, be they customer, BF or social contact doesn't like you the way you are it's their loss. Don't change for someone else, you are great the way you are.

 

[Smother]

VV .....I'm almost %100 positive it's not you.....I wouldn't worry...

I bet he meant you are to aggressive with him in the sack.....meaning you want alot more than .....either he can handle or give!!!!

It's him ....not you....

 

[CJ Tylers]

As a single man, I know exactly what I want. I'm sure once I become less than single, I'll know exactly what I don't want

AFAIC:

I want a woman that is great to hang out with, someone who I enjoy spending time with at any hour of the day.

I want someone who is interested in the things I do, who does things I'm interested in, who I can share activities with.

I want someone who is both passionate and intelligent, grown both intellectually and emotionally.

I want someone who is easy going but caring, which is what I strive to be as well.

I want someone who can cook, since I don't want to always be the cook (even though I enjoy cooking).

I want someone who enjoys life, loves to laugh, loves to dance, loves to explore and experience the world.

I want someone who has ambition in life, something other than "just raise a family"... although I'd like for that to be in the equation as well.

I want someone who clicks with me in bed, someone who is forthright and outgoing sexually, someone who I'm attracted to physically and vice versa.

I want someone I can be with 50 years from now; to look back and say "yeah, I'd do it all over again the same way hon."

I guess with a list like that, it's no wonder I'm still single.

 

[maxx50]

the over side of the mountain

I am wadding in here with my lame example .of what women don;t want from my resent experiance . AS for me if when i was 32 . and I had the chance to me some one like VV I would be a lot different person to day...A lot of wild sex would either turn me into a no ass ..Or a big dick
.THat would at leased know what he wants in life.
Here does with what I have found with me. First I respect any women ..as long as they respect them selves .If they don't I will just stay away frome then ... Next I would hope that they have some respect for me ...If they show they don't ..I will stay away also.
I thought I was going to add something here ... but i am kust ending a r.e.l.a.t.i.o.n.s.h.i.p ..So I don't know what the f**k I want . Bur in my case she said she want sex .. but my lain dick just was not doing it for her.... instead she wanted sicuruty for her and her family.... which is what i tried to give her .. BUt a man can;t do it alone ...well unless he just wants to wak off. Sorry this is way down in the gully.

 

[LonelyGhost]

So i recently got put on ice by my fb while he makes yet another attempt at the rockwellian dream. Says i blow his mind mentally & sexually but that i'm not the girl (or cougar) that he envisioned spending his life with. He's 32, i'm 42. Whutteva. He'll be back. Meanwhile, i get a review stating what a great gal i am but way too much in bed. WTF? What do you lame ass fags want?

your phone number and a big box of condoms!

 

[Ironhead]

Hey Sweetheart!!!

First, The guy lacks class if he is willing to walk away from you.
I would love to take you out any day of the week.
You know that a relationship with you has to have sex rear it's head at one time or another. I mean that's what you do.
Maybe he just got tried of it all. I can't comment on what I don't know about the relationship you had.
Maybe it is the strange hours or the many different guys. Not just one guy.
I suspect it is a combination.
Are you a bit overbearing? I don't know. The time I spent with you, we really had a great time.

I guess he did not like you tending your garden, instead of him.

Don't anaylese it too much. Just move on.

 

[shuffle]

He just did you a favor. He will probably kick himself for the rest of his life. Hold out and the right guy will show up someday. Sounds like LonelyGhost is interested in applying!

 

[n2supersymmetry]

So i recently got put on ice by my fb while he makes yet another attempt at the rockwellian dream. Says i blow his mind mentally & sexually but that i'm not the girl (or cougar) that he envisioned spending his life with. He's 32, i'm 42. Whutteva. He'll be back. Meanwhile, i get a review stating what a great gal i am but way too much in bed. WTF? What do you lame ass fags want?

Well if you dissect what fb said to you, there are two possible conclusions:

A) He thinks he can find someone or already have someone better than you

B) You are already providing him with everything he needs, why should he take it to the next level?

As to what us lame ass fags want ... if you can't figure it out by the age of 42 then don't bother

 

[maxx50]

right on

As a single man, I know exactly what I want. I'm sure once I become less than single, I'll know exactly what I don't want

AFAIC:

I want a woman that is great to hang out with, someone who I enjoy spending time with at any hour of the day.

I want someone who is interested in the things I do, who does things I'm interested in, who I can share activities with.

I want someone who is both passionate and intelligent, grown both intellectually and emotionally.

I want someone who is easy going but caring, which is what I strive to be as well.

I want someone who can cook, since I don't want to always be the cook (even though I enjoy cooking).

I want someone who enjoys life, loves to laugh, loves to dance, loves to explore and experience the world.

I want someone who has ambition in life, something other than "just raise a family"... although I'd like for that to be in the equation as well.

I want someone who clicks with me in bed, someone who is forthright and outgoing sexually, someone who I'm attracted to physically and vice versa.

I want someone I can be with 50 years from now; to look back and say "yeah, I'd do it all over again the same way hon."

I guess with a list like that, it's no wonder I'm still single.

Thats it ! that is what i was hoping for in this love of mine . .but there was very little intamacy.. or sex ... and that is still what a man need s ..And I think a women even more so ... That open honest conection .. That makes you part of each other. for the rest of our lives.
Thanks for clairifing the fuzzyness.

 

[mick_eight]

Like I said in another thread ... First rule in relationships... NEVER GO OUT WITH ANYONE WHO HAS MORE PROBLEMS THAN YOU DO

 

[wolverine]

Wait a minute! I thought it was guys who can't figure out what women want!

 

[JustAGuy]

What do men want? To be worshipped like gods. Duh! Next question.

 

[gravitas]

What do you lame ass fags want?

Probably the same this as you bitter old dykes, just a little respect

Maybe they where thinking with the head down below, and not the one on top of their necks?

If anything I think he was using his big head and not the little helmeted warrior

You fell victim to believing what men say instead of watching what they do.....look at what men do is: They get married to an average/decent girl so they can be in control

Oh for fuck sakes get a tissue and call oprah......men=evil controlling scum, women=victim.....you must live in a bitter little world

they see women like you.....probably cheat on her

In the dictionary under hypocrisy it says see......

METHOS .....hit it on the head!!!!

pretty much

 

[Smother]

Finally, my advice to you: Don't try to figure out what men want! Just be yourself and the right one will stick around!
that's interesting....isn't this what we say about women too.....not to figure them out!!!!... LOL

 

[stryker]

That's good. Trying to please too much someone doesn't work. If we give up ourselves for the other we will live to regret it.

My lordy,,are you ever a BITTER woman,what happened,,your old man run off with a cute 25 year old because he was tired of YOUR abuse??