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What are your thoughts on men who pay for services from providers aged 18-20? And what about those aged 18-25?

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poonerboi

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early 20s woman here.

I don't see a problem with it. I have always been attracted to older men, and they have always been attracted to me. I know many women my age feel the same. I have never felt like someone was trying to take advantage of me, and I have always been treated well.

It appears that the only people who seem to have a problem with the older man and younger woman dynamic are older women who have passed their prime years and feel threatened by younger woman
in general, there are plenty of older women who can be quite rude, condescending, and mean to younger, more beautiful women for no apparent reason. Many women in their early 20s have experienced this. It is often the unmarried, childless older women who seem to lack a fulfilling life that exhibit these unpleasant behaviours. Additionally, among this group, the older sex workers tend to be the most unkind towards younger, more beautiful women. They seem bitter about wasting their best years when they could have locked down a great guy in their late 20s if they had the value and forethought to do so.

A smart sex worker knows to make their quick money and cash out their chips before they pass their prime.
Wow! Hey sunshine, you do realize that you will grow "old" soon too, right? I used to seek out younger SPs thinking thats what I should be getting if I'm paying for it. Until a mature SPs post here on PERB piqued my interest . I paid her a visit expecting to feel like I wasted alot of money. And I did feel that way . About all the times i booked the younger ones. Now I only see older gals.

And as for the bitter SPs treating all of you "more beautiful women" poorly "for no apparent reason"? It is pretty apparent to me why.

10 pounds of makeup doesn't equal beauty
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Unfortunately there is a massive industry outside of your arena that proves legality is irrelevant.



Modern society is but a drop in the bucket of human history. Youth has always been prized due to the prospect of fertility, not just for a single offspring, but for the potential for many offspring due to a potentially longer fertility timeline. Many religions and cultures covet this, not to mention only a hundred years ago having a lot of children was seen as necessary due to the likelihood of disease and/or starvation knocking out a fair percentage of one's brood, so a younger mate increased the chances of having success with breeding for the long term. That's why before "modern" society came about most families getting out of the horse drawn carriage looked like a clown car emptying out in the middle of a circus.

What I will agree on though is how youth has been sexualized for the sake of being sexualized, to sell products and to sell "cool". I'll never forget the first time I walked into an Abercrombie. I felt dirty in a bad way. But also keep in mind, that if a young woman is hardly distinguishable from a 10 year old Swedish boy as opposed to a fully developed "woman" with curves to match, then attraction to one is more understandable than the other by a country mile.
Very well said. I am completely hard wired to seek a young and beautiful provider. Looks and youth go hand and hand which is all I want in a session. I don't care for any emotional connection. As long as you show up dolled up and good to go for the agreed upon time then I'm happy.
 

rampart

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When I was in my mid-50's I hooked up with a part-timer who was 19. She did look 6-7 years older and she though I was 10 years younger. One of the things that she did mention is that she noticed in her short time being in the biz that a lot of younger guys were not at all interested in DATY where she appreciated the older gents face first between her thighs. She also mentioned that guys her age in her non-pro life were also not interested in DATY. She also said the older guys were more into taking their time and more sensual and less about being a sex machine like the younger guys. Now that I am much older I go for the 30-40 year old category although if I could find a cool level headed 20 year old that would be nice.
 

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My money my business what I spend it on.
Don’t know why the older gals are getting their panties in a twist when there‘s still a market for their age group.
For me it’s like rolling a dice with an sp advertising as 30+. After applying the sp age adjustment factor you’re probably booking a 50+ and that’s fine if that’s what you’re into.
 

vitaminD

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Women generally don't mind the age difference between a 35-year-old woman and a 50-year-old man. Its not the age gap woman get upset about, its the sexual market competition. Women understand that their power and leverage over men, especially related to relationships, is one a limited timeframe and fades over time.A woman's value in the dating market tends to decrease after age 28-30. This is why many women get married around 30, as they want to secure a long-term commitment before they lose their prime years. If they can't find a suitable partner by 32, men in their mid-40s who are fit and successful become more attractive. However, this highlights the fact that she couldn't fully capitalize on her youthful appeal. Older women often feel regret about the opportunities they missed in their 20s. This isnt even getting into the clear issues related to fertility, child rearing and other biological factors.

When it comes to sex workers, their job significantly reduces the number of potential partners they can have romantic relationships with. This makes them even more sensitive to seeing younger women enjoying more dating options. As a result, sex workers often feel envious of those younger women. the sex work profession, is one of the few professions were income often plateaus or declines as they age and gain more experience. This can lead to a lot of bitterness, especially when comparing their situation to that of younger women who have more opportunities. Additionally, this bitterness may also turn into strong dislike or hatred towards men (misandry) as they navigate their experiences in the industry.

plus when have you ever seen a rich guy buy a yacht and invite a bunch of woman in their 30s or 40s on it. doesnt happen, cause he can get a bunch of fit early 20s girls on it for free 😂
 

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Wasn’t going to reply to this as enough spoken in detail already. And my lnput comes from a different angle.
I’m an old school raver and am still actively going to shows. Last weekend an awesome laser show made me giddy. But now that I’m older and If I find myself at an all ages show I prefer going VIP which is 19+. Also because of the price point, it’s not really early 20’s either. It’s more early 30+ Yes I’m active in the SP world as it works for me, but these events can also provide ample opportunity, and I still have game. But I make sure I’m not in a position that I’m in a area that’s will be inundated with people too young, as I don’t (by choice) want to go route in civilian life. If something happens at the show and there’s chemistry I don’t want to be ID’ng the girl who is done up to look at older (as I’m done down to look younger lol) at least the after party was at a club that was 19+ aswell. Yes age is just a number, but for me there is no age limit on having fun (at least the tops Dj’s are older then me lol) and now I’m more drawn to the 30-40+ rave scene that is growing in popularity. That scene will always be a part of me, but also many younger people go and let themselves be free for 1 night, and can be very liberating just by dancing and partying the night away.
I know this is Apple vs oranges and everyone else is talking about seeking out and paying for the younger experience. Just wanted to comment on other life experiences and dealing with younger girls outside of the inner sanctum of the provider world.

I’m sure I’ve rambled on enough
 
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LuxyLuxxx

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Women generally don't mind the age difference between a 35-year-old woman and a 50-year-old man. Its not the age gap woman get upset about, its the sexual market competition. Women understand that their power and leverage over men, especially related to relationships, is one a limited timeframe and fades over time.A woman's value in the dating market tends to decrease after age 28-30. This is why many women get married around 30, as they want to secure a long-term commitment before they lose their prime years. If they can't find a suitable partner by 32, men in their mid-40s who are fit and successful become more attractive. However, this highlights the fact that she couldn't fully capitalize on her youthful appeal. Older women often feel regret about the opportunities they missed in their 20s. This isnt even getting into the clear issues related to fertility, child rearing and other biological factors.

When it comes to sex workers, their job significantly reduces the number of potential partners they can have romantic relationships with. This makes them even more sensitive to seeing younger women enjoying more dating options. As a result, sex workers often feel envious of those younger women. the sex work profession, is one of the few professions were income often plateaus or declines as they age and gain more experience. This can lead to a lot of bitterness, especially when comparing their situation to that of younger women who have more opportunities. Additionally, this bitterness may also turn into strong dislike or hatred towards men (misandry) as they navigate their experiences in the industry.

plus when have you ever seen a rich guy buy a yacht and invite a bunch of woman in their 30s or 40s on it. doesnt happen, cause he can get a bunch of fit early 20s girls on it for free 😂
Oh my goddd please stop speaking on sex workers like you know everything!! I’m starting to think you’re one of us.
 
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LuxyLuxxx

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I would question what exactly it is that makes someone intentionally seek out a provider that isn’t yet into their twenties- but I would also consider their own age. I understand that this industry can be rather superficial and if everything’s done in good business, who am into judge?
I think tension due to age gaps between providers or even women in general is simply insecurity. An insecure person will find issue in many things. How can you dislike or be jealous of someone because of their AGE?! Something that neither of you can change? I urge you gentlemen to do your best seek out providers that are solid mentally. You can avoid any petty situations a little easier
 

kd75

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What are your thoughts on men who pay for services from providers aged 18-20? And what about those aged 18-25? In my opinion, I find it distasteful when men engage with providers who are under 25 years old. Research suggests that the brain doesn't fully mature until the age of 25. I believe that such behavior from these men is rather repulsive, and I dont care whose feelings I hurt.
Why do you care about what 2 consenting adults do together? Don't have anything better to do? Just mind your buisness and it'll all be fine😒
 

Adbitory

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What are your thoughts on men who pay for services from providers aged 18-20? And what about those aged 18-25? In my opinion, I find it distasteful when men engage with providers who are under 25 years old. Research suggests that the brain doesn't fully mature until the age of 25. I believe that such behavior from these men is rather repulsive, and I dont care whose feelings I hurt.
Other research suggest this is what hitting 'the Wall' looks like. And I don't care whose feeling I hurt either. Lol
 

SkinnyJohn

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The actual amount of providers who are actually 18-20 are such small numbers it's not worth mentioning. Maybe on SA there are a few.
 
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