We do not allow discussion or mention of BBFS, a reminder and a warning

Forum mod · Feb 28, 2023

Folks,

The rules are in place for a reason. You might think you are helping others by pointing out an ad that offers cream pie, bare service, No C, special service or any one of the dozens of euphemisms for bare back sex. You are not. You are drawing attention to the ad and ensuring a steady stream of clients for her or him. There's a large enough group of guys out there seeking that service and some of them post or lurk here. Your "warning" just puts a flag on the provider and no doubt drives additional clients to them. Same thing goes for long time regular that relax rules for you, accidental BBFS or condom breaking and worst of the lot, stealthing, when the guy takes it off without consent, which is sexual assault. We delete all of that, and issue warnings and bans.

It amazes me how members who have been here for years continue to express concern when posts discussing BBFS is not allowed. This isn't a new policy, been in place well over a decade.

You might disagree. You might think putting the word out is important. It does not matter. The rules here are no mention of it. You will get an infraction, you will get banned if you keep at it. This is not up for debate.

lukom · Feb 28, 2023

Forum mod said:
Folks,

The rules are in place for a reason. You might think you are helping others by pointing out an ad that offers cream pie, bare service, No C, special service or any one of the dozens of euphemisms for bare back sex. You are not. You are drawing attention to the ad and ensuring a steady stream of clients for her or him. There's a large enough group of guys out there seeking that service and some of them post or lurk here. Your "warning" just puts a flag on the provider and no doubt drives additional clients to them. Same thing goes for long time regular that relax rules for you, accidental BBFS or condom breaking and worst of the lot, stealthing, when the guy takes it off without consent, which is sexual assault. We delete all of that, and issue warnings and bans.

It amazes me how members who have been here for years continue to express concern when posts discussing BBFS is not allowed. This isn't a new policy, been in place well over a decade.

You might disagree. You might think putting the word out is important. It does not matter. The rules here are no mention of it. You will get an infraction, you will get banned if you keep at it. This is not up for debate.

What if it's a provider who used to offer it (but no longer does)? Like as a warning to those who are inquiring about them on 411?

MB Mod · Feb 28, 2023

lukom said:
What if it's a provider who used to offer it (but no longer does)? Like as a warning to those who are inquiring about them on 411?

ANY mention will be removed!

But your question brings up another issue that’s been growing in popularity lately, the past belongs in the past! Asking about long gone providers, take the hint if someone hasn’t posted in 5 years they're not coming back. In my opinion this is borderline stalking and will be treated as such with warnings and bannings where necessary.

Forum mod · Feb 28, 2023

lukom said:
What if it's a provider who used to offer it (but no longer does)? Like as a warning to those who are inquiring about them on 411?

MB Mod answered, but still not allowed. Especially because she doesn't offer it anymore now. Are you going to warn someone that an SP had a drinking problem years ago and is sober now? These kind of things never belong here, but BBFS is not allowed, in any context, ever. If you want to PM the fellow we cannot stop you, but fair warning, if PMs are reported they are still something the mods will look into.

SolidSnake · Mar 1, 2023

And some people just like to reminisce about girls/places long gone and/or how good their services used to be. Some even wax on poetical. IMO such posts are a waste of everyone's time and bandwidth. The nature of the board needs current and timely information to be of any use. Fluff and endorsement are not helpful info, especially when outdated.

MB Mod said:
But your question brings up another issue that’s been growing in popularity lately, the past belongs in the past! Asking about long gone providers, take the hint if someone hasn’t posted in 5 years they're not coming back. In my opinion this is borderline stalking and will be treated as such with warnings and bannings where necessary.

Forum mod · Mar 1, 2023

SolidSnake said:
And some people just like to reminisce about girls/places long gone and/or how good their services used to be. Some even wax on poetical. IMO such posts are a waste of everyone's time and bandwidth. The nature of the board needs current and timely information to be of any use. Fluff and endorsement are not helpful info, especially when outdated.

It's bad when you gotta warn a Mod about hijacking a post! That said, if a lady wants people to know she's around, she will post ads or ask her regular(s) to post a review or something similar. No provider who wants to be found stays completely silent. If you haven't heard anything about a lady, in years, she doesn't want to be found and trying to track her down is super creepy. We had someone posting about a provider who last worked in 2001 or 2002 the other day. She's married with kids, living in another province and really didn't appreciate the digging up of her old persona after 20 years!