These are the BEST clients ;)

[Smilf]

Let me try this again.

My opinion is reveiws only take you so far. At some point you have to bite the bullit, when sp's control every aspect of their online persona don't waste a lot of time on it.

Number two.
The lady I see has called me an elite elite client her number one client her most important client.
If I were to ask her why. and she defined it in terms of some amount of money or tip or gift,

I actually would be dissappointed.

Money to me is just paper not all that important in the big scheme of things.
Lets face it any idoit can come up with the price of admission to see an sp and tip, what is the big deal,

Number three, conversation,
it is not something I see myself paying for.

I pay for the quality of women and access to her body. Thats it.

This from a guy, who has a standing supper date with an sp for years and we do actually have supper and share a bottle of wine and conversation and laughter,
But the women who I have supper with has the cheapest supper date rate, I have ever seen, and I really really enjoy her body.

Her rate for a supper daate is less then an advertizement I saw a couple of weeks ago for one hour with a girl from Toronto.

I recently saw a high end pse girl a month or so ago. I paid more money for less time for her, then I do with my regular sp.
If she would have pulled out a bottle of wine or a couple of beer and said lets talk first, I would have had a problem after dropping the wad of money I did on her coffee table, again conversation is not what I pay for.

I think if a women expects conversation in a session, it should be reflected in her price structure.
Just my opinion its not something I see myself paying for,

The women I see we do have supper but I think her price is fare, for what I get or I should say what I want.

I think finally a good client sp relationship.
Just my opinion
would I see her if I wasn't having sex with her.
Would she waste her time with me if I wasn't paying her.

If we both answer yes to both of these questions
Then I think were good for each other.
It is just the way I look at it.

The women I see, yes she is an escort,
But she is the most women I have ever met in this,
That is why I see her.

And I hope she sees more in me then the money I have paid her.

Yeah well clearly you're missing the point, because you're making ASSumptions about someone (ME) that you don't even know. How YOU choose to spend your time and money is your prerogative and does not reflect how everyone else likes theirs to be. I don't expect tips or gifts, nor do I even ask for them on my web site (some ladies do, are you offended by that too?) You're basically stating that you're there for a wham, bam, thank you ma'am and out the door, well sorry but those types of clients don't appeal to me in the least. And it's my body, my business, my rules, don't like em, don't book ... pretty cut and dry.

The majority of my clients like to sit and talk, share some drinks before a session and wow some of them even just watch me squirt and don't even participate!

You're all about the sex, some guys stimulated via conversation and intellect, not just the body and performance, sorry to break it to you.

Have a good evening and like I said, I won't be baited or judged by someone who does not know me.

 

[PlayfulAlex]

Boy this thread is going sideways. Smilf started this thread to thank a client for being a gentleman and bring a gift to her on their date. Nothing wrong with that.

While others are jumping in at every chance they have to pursue their own agenda.

Smilf your client sounds like a great guy and you must be a great lady for him to do that for you.

I love gifts and am thankful for each and every one... :nod:

 

[twelvetwentytwoam]

I always thought that the best clients from an SP's perspective was one who:

1) tipped
2) brought a gift
3) always says thank you and acts like the SP is doing him a big favour
4) doesn't want to be pleasured
5) wants to lick her pussy and give her orgasms
6) leaves without getting sex
7) writes a big long email thanking her and stroking her ego

Basically, easy money and no work involved.

Who wouldn't want clients like that? I'd love it if in my profession, customers would walk in and offer to pay me double what I ask, thank me endlessly, and tell me I'm great.

Nothing wrong with what the OP said, we all want to maximize our profits even if it is exploitative. There are guys out there who have such low self esteem, they will pay just about any female for the chance to worship her. They're definitely the best clients, because they feel they're so worthless. Go get 'im gurrrrl !!!!

amen brother...

 

[twelvetwentytwoam]

just agree to disagree people. obviously some of us just wanna pay, bang (for lack of a better word), and leave no strings attached. some of us like to know our ladies or clients a little better and connect before and after getting intimate. nothing wrong with either. why get personal over PERSONAL preferences?

 

[VanessaofBC]

just agree to disagree people. obviously some of us just wanna pay, bang (for lack of a better word), and leave no strings attached. some of us like to know our ladies or clients a little better and connect before and after getting intimate. nothing wrong with either. why get personal over PERSONAL preferences?

+1..................

 

[sevenofnine]

I guess we are having a missunderstanding

My point is money is no way to judge any one, Money or lack of it, is not standard to judge anyone.
Or how free they are willing to spend it.
I guess being a walmart greeter, I am prejudiced on this.
So I am sorry,
Just the way I roll.

And I am generous with the lady I see, but I hope that is not the reason why she likes me.

and about conversaation with a lady.

You know I think there is an evolution or a mental sort of evolution we men go through some of us any way.

Somewhere in the back of our mind, we want to know, the lady would she spend time with us, if we weren't paying her,
am I that much of a loser that no women would be with me,

Somewhere in the back of our mind, you realize if your that much of a nice guy or a great client, you realize, the lady is enjoying your company as well enjoying the conversation as much as I am.
I am and intersting guy worth sitting and talking to and being with.
At least we hope we are.

I told my sp once if any guy is proud of paying for a women to be with him, and happy about it bragging about it, he is not much of a man.
Im a nice guy, Im worth being with. Or at least I hope I am, or trying to be.

The lady I hope she is enjoying just being with me.
Your not much of a man in my opinion if your not even trying to be this type of guy.


So paying for conversation Im trying to say, is I dunno chicken shit, paying for a women period is chicken shit.
But life is not at all perfect surly not mine.

I have paid for conversation, I have paid for sex.
But at some point I realized Im a nice guy, a decent guy, My time is important. my conversation is interesting and some people like it.

To pay top dollar for an sp to waste on conversation is chicken shit, but paying for an escort period is chicken shit, but we all do it.

Every sp I was a regular with wanted social time with me.
Its just my thoughts and stuff on social time and conversation with an escort.
My time is worth something to.

My interesting conversation is worth something my listeing to her tell me about her life is worth something as well.

I guess Im talking about not clients but friends.
And I guess if your paying for a friend your chicken shit, not much of a man.
But in a sense we have all done it,

I have,

But the lady I see, when I phone her up
Its optional what we do, a session sex or just go out for talk.

Like I said I think there is a mental sort of evolution we men go through. Or some of us.sex, love friendship self worth, etc etc,
Who am I what kind of guy am I that Im paying for a women to be with me etc,

And I actually am a great listener a great conversationlist some people think so any way,
And my sense of self worth is telling me, I don't have to pay for conversation any more, the women is enjoying it as much as I am.

Just my thoughts I don't expect everyone to agree or even understand where Im coming from.

 

[VanessaofBC]

Snip....


I don't think we are looking to be worshiped, being kind to SPs is just being kind to another human being. Treating another with kindness and respect is the minimum any human being deserves and should expect no matter what type of relation we have. A guy who gives a tip isn't weak, just like someone who can't afford or desire to give a tip isn't undesirable.

Treating another with kindness and respect is the minimum any human being deserves, every day, in any situation.

 

[Man in Submission]

I was interested until you mentioned your engagement ...

LOL, that didn't read quite right did it? Well, fit or not I can only worship one at a time at my age!:angel:

 

[twelvetwentytwoam]

seven you totally lost me at the whole chicken shit part. I know you're just expressing your own opinion but now you're just placing judgement on all of us for what we do with our money and time. for the record I don't pay SPs for conversations. I pay them for their company and sex. but if other men here wanna pay SPs purely for conversation and some company, who are we to judge them and call that chicken shit? to me the best part about this hobby is that at the end of the day, yes, I am paying for sex. but I get to meet and be with some of the most interesting and beautiful women I would otherwise never be able to meet not to mention be intimate with. regardless of SPs or clients we all get in this hobby for our own reasons. I respect your reason and anybody else's. we always talk about how society always judge us for doing what we do. what does it say about us if WE start JUDGING each other for what we want out of the hobby and calling it chicken shit or what not?

 

[Smilf]

Something a lot of people seem to be missing is that, I'm retiring VERY shortly, as in less than two weeks at this point. So ANY nice gesture a client makes when seeing me and even if they don't, will be some of my last memories of being in this industry for so many years.

 

[Man Mountain]

Lets not hi jack this thread like alot seem to be doing lately here. Drama amd BS is for school kids. We seem to not read things at times like they were MEANT to be read.

from what I read from Smilf is pretty much a thank you to a client and appreciation for his thoughtfulness.

WHO says I am speaking for other ladies out there? I'm not, I'm telling you what I THINK are the best clients for ME

With all due respect to both of you ladies, until the specificity of the last line, that's not how the original post reads. It reads like a generalized comment on what makes for the "BEST clients". It's not prefaced by "In my opinion..." or "To me..." It's simply posted as a list of what could be read as general assertions rather than personal opinions.

Wow you can't even be appreciative of your clients on here without someone shitting on it and being presumptuous.

Well, the thing you have to remember about posting something on an open, discussion forum is that it might lead to... well... an open discussion. And that means those with differing opinions from your own can and will post their opinions as well. sevenofnine obviously disagreed with your assertions and expressed it. I agree that he jumped to a couple of conclusions to which I would not have jumped. But I do see how someone could do that, given the way the original post was phrased. Why don't we chalk it up to one part less than clear phrasing and one part less than optimal reading comprehension?

You what's so bad about the comments from some of the guys in this thread? Is the fact that I could be bitching and whining about clients and what they do or not do.

You mean like this:

Let's not forget guys who shave their gonads, so we don't have to floss our teeth with pubic floss.

Oh and the one's who wipe their butts after using the bathroom because nobody likes racing tracks or skid marks on their sheets!

Yes, it can be argued that you're being appreciative of the clients who do those things but the implication is that you are noting that those clients are appreciated because of the negative aspects of the ones who don't.

Boy this thread is going sideways. Smilf started this thread to thank a client for being a gentleman and bring a gift to her on their date. Nothing wrong with that.

While others are jumping in at every chance they have to pursue their own agenda.

Smilf your client sounds like a great guy and you must be a great lady for him to do that for you.

Something a lot of people seem to be missing is that, I'm retiring VERY shortly, as in less than two weeks at this point. So ANY nice gesture a client makes when seeing me and even if they don't, will be some of my last memories of being in this industry for so many years.

Anyway, with all true sincerity, I hope that you've had far more of the positive experiences during your time in this business than the negative and I wish you nothing but the best with your impending retirement.

 

[Smilf]

Man Mountain, actually if you re-read the original post it says "it's the thought that counts" - pretty much everyone knows that I'm retiring, it says that in all of my ads. So perhaps I am being treated differently right now than norm. I've been talking about it for months now and if you were to read some of my other posts, I always express admiration for my clients and experiences I've had in this industry both good and bad, with the occasional rant, like most of us ladies have.

The quote about shaving gonads, was mean't tongue in cheek, since lord knows there's been enough threads on that subject to last a lifetime. The ladies would probably get it more than you gentlemen would since I talk to them more often than you all and they know my demeanour consists of a lot of sarcasm.

I doubt Gonzo was attempting to be a white knight in this situation, I've never met him personally and never had any issues with 7OF9 until this thread, in fact he's always been quite cordial to me.

And I thank you for sincerity in your last comment.

 

[Man Mountain]

The quote about shaving gonads, was mean't tongue in cheek

Of course it was tongue in cheek, you'd have to put your tongue in there to get the "pubic floss" out, right?

I doubt Gonzo was attempting to be a white knight in this situation, I've never met him personally

I have and I'm sure that he knows that I mean it in a spirit of good natured ribbing.