Best clients. so what do they get extra.

[sevenofnine]

Oh well it seems like I am in everyones good books so what the hell.

So a guy is a good client one of your best, he tips and gifts, showers etc etc,
as apposed to a guy like me, who shows up drunk and doesn't know what a shower is and can't talk

what do you do extra for him that a smuck like me wouldn't get.

and if nothing may i ask why the hell not.
no overtime for a tip and a gift isn't that rude.


To
be serious for a moment.
for a guy if your in this for any length of time and like repeating
be a womens best client. Her number one client.




It cuts the frustration level of this hobby way down for one thing.
She will never stand you up and always answer your call,
You can piss off every other sp out there she will still see you.

Thats funny.
who haven't I pissed off yet.
The fastest and easiest way to get to know a person, judge their charecter and maturity level, is to piss them off and see what happens.

No but serious if you like a women, its the only way to fly be her best client.

Every women I bothered to repeat with, I ended up her best client.
Its the only way to do it I think.

 

[sevenofnine]

7of9, you're a really bright guy, why do you have to be such a douche?

because it gets boring to be the brightest guy around

 

[VanessaofBC]

For me best clients are low maintenance.

If you brought me a gift and extra money which you gave to me before our date, honestly, a lady like myself would have my guard up because I have read stories about guys being "thank properly" or "NOT properly thanked'' for bringing a gift. WTF does THAT mean.?

Guys who bring gifts should not expect ANYTHING for them and do this out of good will.(OR TO MAKE A GOOD FIRST IMPRESSION)

I have been in the mall and thought to myself "oh, John Smith would like that".So I buy it for him and give it to him at our next session. It is usually something small but again IT IS THE THOUGHT THAT COUNTS.

What else do the best clients get "extra"?

Well, they get to know me a little better each time we see each other. For me since I advertise FS, the more you come to see me and I begin to get comfortable with you I become more GFE.
I may also take note of a comment from our last visit and wear something you have mentioned in passing like skinny jeans or perhaps pantyhose for example.

Sometimes I run out of outfits and I just answer the door NAKED. Just for fun!

The name of the game is that by the end of the session both of you are happy (We may have different reasons to be happy) but I am happy I was able to complete service for you. You are happy you received all the services you wanted and now we can both go on our separate ways and enjoy our day.

I always thank each and everyone one of my clients for coming over and for taking the time out of his busy day to think of me and visit. I NEVER, EVER expect a tip or gift but I am always most thankful for it at the end of the session. Like when we go in for the good bye hug just say and "heres a little extra for you." that hand it over discreetly.

I still do not understand how we are debating this issue and no ladies with "WISHLIST" pages are saying anything. They charge the most and they are insinuating you bring a gift as well? Hmmmm...

 

[BORKO]

For me best clients are low maintenance.

If you brought me a gift and extra money which you gave to me before our date, honestly, a lady like myself would have my guard up because I have read stories about guys being "thank properly" or "NOT properly thanked'' for bringing a gift. WTF does THAT mean.?

Guys who bring gifts should not expect ANYTHING for them and do this out of good will.(OR TO MAKE A GOOD FIRST IMPRESSION)

I have been in the mall and thought to myself "oh, John Smith would like that".So I buy it for him and give it to him at our next session. It is usually something small but again IT IS THE THOUGHT THAT COUNTS.

What else do the best clients get "extra"?

Well, they get to know me a little better each time we see each other. For me since I advertise FS, the more you come to see me and I begin to get comfortable with you I become more GFE.
I may also take note of a comment from our last visit and wear something you have mentioned in passing like skinny jeans or perhaps pantyhose for example.

Sometimes I run out of outfits and I just answer the door NAKED. Just for fun!

The name of the game is that by the end of the session both of you are happy (We may have different reasons to be happy) but I am happy I was able to complete service for you. You are happy you received all the services you wanted and now we can both go on our separate ways and enjoy our day.

I always thank each and everyone one of my clients for coming over and for taking the time out of his busy day to think of me and visit. I NEVER, EVER expect a tip or gift but I am always most thankful for it at the end of the session. Like when we go in for the good bye hug just say and "heres a little extra for you." that hand it over discreetly.

I still do not understand how we are debating this issue and no ladies with "WISHLIST" pages are saying anything. They charge the most and they are insinuating you bring a gift as well? Hmmmm...

I don't know if I was a best client if I like to be thought of as a low maintenance easy client, I would like to be thought of as a client that a lady needs to prepare for and put effort in because I am worth it because I was one of her best clients.

As for tips and gifts, I rarely tip, I think if I do it is because I did something to inconvenience her such as having to cancel an appointment then I try to give a 20% tip for the rescheduled appointment. I may provide a gift to a SP that I like if the gift comes up in conversation either during the previous appointment or in the bookings. I'd prefer to give someone, SP or not, something I know they will like rather than something I think they will like, even though I guess everyone likes money. Examples of gifts in the past have been healthy, organic treats for her dog, special ordered desserts from a patisserie or the first Walking Dead compendium for a lady that mentioned she was a huge fan and would get bored at her incall between appointments. Those gifts aren't very big or expensive, but I would think they are somewhat thoughtful, at least they seemed to be better received than when I tried to go big and give a spa day certificates or gift certificates to restaurants or jewelry which was met with a pretty big meh and overall indifference.

I don't have any issue with ladies with WISHLISTs, it makes them easy to shop for and I'm sure they would rather have something they wanted, rather than something random like say a wireless keyboard or a years supply of organic kale chips which she may not be enthused about and have to pretend to like. I guess that ruins the surprise, but a happy not surprise is better than a crappy surprise I guess. I think these high dollar SPs usually explicitly say gifting/tipping is not expected but appreciated and when I have seen them they give the same good service gift or not.

Regarding gifts from SPs, I got an ice cream cake on my birthday once. I really like ice cream and I really like cake so it was pretty awesome.

 

[tadolder]

This thread is akin the the social time thread from Tant. YMMV for a reason. There are ladies out there who undoubtedly treat their regulars with more affection and likely do things they don't with other clients. Why would the guys who are on the receiving end brag, and therefore ruin it for themselves?

Say I see Jane Doe. Jane is known far and wide for only providing LFK and CBJ, she doesn't do greek and only wants multiple hour sessions. I have seen Jane a dozen or more times, we are very compatible. I get DFK, BBBJ and greek and I see her over my lunch hour, at a reduced rate. Should I post all of that? Not if I want it to continue! I can write a sanitized version and give Jane her due recognition, but the extra service I get stays between us. Am I her best client? Who knows? She might tell me I am, but there could also be 2 or 3 or 10 other guys she has the same arrangement with. Believe me, you can also fuck up something like this quite easily. You can say the wrong thing, forget an important event, or even see someone she doesn't like and your special relationship is toast.

It's the height of arrogance, and honestly, stupidity to assume you are anyone's best client. It's a business. She might well like you as a person, enjoy the sex, but if you are still paying for it, it's not a real thing, it's a business transaction at the core. Seven, you are asking for a ton of trouble posting crap like this.

I agree completely. He seems to enjoy the attention, negative or positive, its attention.

 

[VanessaofBC]

..snip

I don't have any issue with ladies with WISHLISTs, it makes them easy to shop for and I'm sure they would rather have something they wanted, rather than something random like say a wireless keyboard or a years supply of organic kale chips which she may not be enthused about and have to pretend to like. I guess that ruins the surprise, but a happy not surprise is better than a crappy surprise I guess. I think these high dollar SPs usually explicitly say gifting/tipping is not expected but appreciated and when I have seen them they give the same good service gift or not.

Regarding gifts from SPs, I got an ice cream cake on my birthday once. I really like ice cream and I really like cake so it was pretty awesome.

Lol, glad you liked the cake. That was nice of her.

I like how you have explained this to me As well. So having the wishlist makes it less awkward than having to ask her directly what to bring as a gift. That makes senses. I guess I am the paranoid type because i would wonder if he was expecting more services for bringing a gift.

I don't know if I was a best client if I like to be thought of as a low maintenance easy client, I would like to be thought of as a client that a lady needs to prepare for and put effort in because I am worth it because I was one of her best clients.

As for being a low or high maintenance client, that is why some girls charge less and others charge more, I charge less and offer a smaller menu so I do not have to deal with the high maintenance clients who like to see the lady all dolled up in lingerie and stockings and receive a full GFE menu every time. Most of my sessions are 30min massage. of course if you became a regular I would think about new ways to excite and surprise you to keep you my regular, or as my "best customer"

EDIT: for clarification purposes, I consider my "best clients" to be my regulars. If you are a first time client having your first date with a SP some of the things mentioned in this thread and other similar threads could be useful for "first dates"

 

[normisanas]

It's a business. She might well like you as a person, enjoy the sex, but if you are still paying for it, it's not a real thing, it's a business transaction at the core.

Exactly, it's a business! So when you are finished with the transaction, tip if you like it, like any other service business. But bring a gift??? Are you serious? How often do you bring your accountant, or lawyer, or doctor a gift? And those people trained hard to get their designations!

Well not that some SP's don't deserve gifts, I can think of two or three that I've seen who definitely deserved the gift I brought them. But face it girls, if you're on this board waxing about the best clients bringing you gifts, what you're really saying is not that the best clients are bringing you gifts, but that you think it's expected if the client is to be above the rest.

 

[VanessaofBC]

Exactly, it's a business! So when you are finished with the transaction, tip if you like it, like any other service business. But bring a gift??? Are you serious? How often do you bring your accountant, or lawyer, or doctor a gift? And those people trained hard to get their designations!

Well not that some SP's don't deserve gifts, I can think of two or three that I've seen who definitely deserved the gift I brought them. But face it girls, if you're on this board waxing about the best clients bringing you gifts, what you're really saying is not that the best clients are bringing you gifts, but that you think it's expected if the client is to be above the rest.

I understand a gift of lingerie would want to be seen on your first date (or any date) and this is common. Flowers are another common one.

Sometimes, once you have developed a rapport, and you know each other well enough I was out and about and thought " Oh, John Smith, would Loooove that" so I buy it and give it to him the next time I see
him just so he knows he is the best!

 

[myselftheother]

Lol, glad you liked the cake. That was nice of her.

I like how you have explained this to me As well. So having the wishlist makes it less awkward than having to ask her directly what to bring as a gift. That makes senses. I guess I am the paranoid type because i would wonder if he was expecting more services for bringing a gift.


As for being a low or high maintenance client, that is why some girls charge less and others charge more, I charge less and offer a smaller menu so I do not have to deal with the high maintenance clients who like to see the lady all dolled up in lingerie and stockings and receive a full GFE menu every time. Most of my sessions are 30min massage. of course if you became a regular I would think about new ways to excite and surprise you to keep you my regular, or as my "best customer"EDIT: for clarification purposes, I consider my "best clients" to be my regulars. If you are a first time client having your first date with a SP some of the things mentioned in this thread could be useful "first dates"

As I was trying to say in another thread, it's when you do 'get dolled up' and put on something sexy for my first time appointment that would make me want to repeat...it shows me that you care about the quality of service, whether for a quick 30 min r&t or whatever...it shows me you have a little pride in the quality of the session. I'm not expecting evening gowns and pearls, but a little outfit that took a little effort, which shows me you are worth my time and money to come and see again, rather than be one I'd rather forget that I wasted a wad of cash on that could have been better spent on something else...

And...I know you're not saying that you don't put in an effort to get ready for your clients, it's that extra little bit that raises the bar.

 

[VanessaofBC]

As I was trying to say in another thread, it's when you do 'get dolled up' and put on something sexy for my first time appointment that would make me want to repeat...it shows me that you care about the quality of service, whether for a quick 30 min r&t or whatever...it shows me you have a little pride in the quality of the session. I'm not expecting evening gowns and pearls, but a little outfit that took a little effort, which shows me you are worth my time and money to come and see again, rather than be one I'd rather forget that I wasted a wad of cash on that could have been better spent on something else...

And...I know you're not saying that you don't put in an effort to get ready for your clients, it's that extra little bit that raises the bar.

YES!! You get it!!! So I keep my rates at low and respectable for clients who do not need to see a lady all dolled up to get excited, or prefer to see someone who they "click" with as opposed to just mascara and lipstick.

That is why there are different prices and different ladies. Because there are men from all walks of life who are horny and some are thankful just to be with a pretty girl who is smiling, laughing and genuinely enjoying your time together.

 

[myselftheother]

Exactly, it's a business! So when you are finished with the transaction, tip if you like it, like any other service business. But bring a gift??? Are you serious? How often do you bring your accountant, or lawyer, or doctor a gift? And those people trained hard to get their designations!

Well not that some SP's don't deserve gifts, I can think of two or three that I've seen who definitely deserved the gift I brought them. But face it girls, if you're on this board waxing about the best clients bringing you gifts, what you're really saying is not that the best clients are bringing you gifts, but that you think it's expected if the client is to be above the rest.

Good point...the thing is as well is that we don't have to be the gift giving, happy to be just in her presence, grateful she allowed me in type of snivelling fool. Expected gifts aren't gifts. Expected fees paid, most definitely. Gifts demanded? Really?

Gifts given by me are only considered if there is a good reason to give them.

 

[myselftheother]

YES!! You get it!!! So I keep my rates at low and respectable for clients who do not need to see a lady all dolled up to get excited, or prefer to see someone who they "click" with as opposed to just mascara and lipstick.

That is why there are different prices and different ladies. Because there are men from all walks of life who are horny and some are thankful to be with a pretty girl who is smiling, laughing and genuinely enjoying your time together.

Of course I get it....not hard to figure out. It also comes down to matching what you're looking for to who's providing what...ya know? You don't go to a sushi stand for a burger.

A good example is Tantilizer...he know what he wants, like and where and how to get it. That's why he thoroughly enjoys his sessions with the Asian ladies, and it works. That sort of 'getting it' comes with trial and error, and finding out what you as a pooner is really wanting and needing in a session...level of service, money spent, type of girl, location, attitude....took me a time to sort out what it is I want. As a pooner, you have to listen to yourself, learn a little about yourself about what it is that works for you...and then you look and seek out those lovely ladies who are willing to relieve you of your money and certain urges. Right?

 

[kauffman]

Oh well it seems like I am in everyones good books so what the hell.

So a guy is a good client one of your best, he tips and gifts, showers etc etc,
as apposed to a guy like me, who shows up drunk and doesn't know what a shower is and can't talk

what do you do extra for him that a smuck like me wouldn't get.

and if nothing may i ask why the hell not.
no overtime for a tip and a gift isn't that rude.


To
be serious for a moment.
for a guy if your in this for any length of time and like repeating
be a womens best client. Her number one client.




It cuts the frustration level of this hobby way down for one thing.
She will never stand you up and always answer your call,
You can piss off every other sp out there she will still see you.

Thats funny.
who haven't I pissed off yet.
The fastest and easiest way to get to know a person, judge their charecter and maturity level, is to piss them off and see what happens.

No but serious if you like a women, its the only way to fly be her best client.

Every women I bothered to repeat with, I ended up her best client.
Its the only way to do it I think.

The best clients

1) always shower when they arrive regardless of how clean they think they are
2) are well groomed
3) dont constantly change their appointments or cancel last minute without good reason
4) pay upon arrival
5)dont overstay their appointment
6)dont ask overly personal questions... at least initially
5)tell you what they liked
6)dont push agreed upon boundaries ask first before attepting anything different
7)dont swear loudly especially in apartments where neighbours might hear
8) are polite and well mannered

 

[kauffman]

Oh well it seems like I am in everyones good books so what the hell.

So a guy is a good client one of your best, he tips and gifts, showers etc etc,
as apposed to a guy like me, who shows up drunk and doesn't know what a shower is and can't talk

what do you do extra for him that a smuck like me wouldn't get.

and if nothing may i ask why the hell not.
no overtime for a tip and a gift isn't that rude.


To
be serious for a moment.
for a guy if your in this for any length of time and like repeating
be a womens best client. Her number one client.




It cuts the frustration level of this hobby way down for one thing.
She will never stand you up and always answer your call,
You can piss off every other sp out there she will still see you.

Thats funny.
who haven't I pissed off yet.
The fastest and easiest way to get to know a person, judge their charecter and maturity level, is to piss them off and see what happens.

No but serious if you like a women, its the only way to fly be her best client.

Every women I bothered to repeat with, I ended up her best client.
Its the only way to do it I think.

Extra long sessions, more personalized, a drink, a meal, requested times reserved with enough bnotice, sometimes things other clients dont get

 

[VanessaofBC]

To the OP... The best way to get more time with most ladies is to simply buy more time. Why buy a gift and assume the provider will accept that in lieu of payment for more time?.(or more services).. when all you really need to do is buy more time/services?

Also... the lady you speak of sounds awesome ...and she's obviously very good at what she does if she's convinced you you're the best client she has. I'm betting all her clients feel that way.

That is the smartest thing I read all week and it is Saturday night!