Experienced an awfully sweet foursome on the weekend.
I like to intersperse GF sex & pooning with periodic swinger parties. Each type of erotic outlet has distinctive pros and cons.
GF sex is relaxed, unrushed, affectionate, bareback and often deliciously kinky, but inevitably goes a little stale after a while.
Pooning offers thrilling variety, typically with attractive younger ladies that would normally be off limits. But it carries mild health risks and, of course, cuts into one's cash reserves.
Swinger parties are another alternative. But I admit, the bad stereotypes you hear about them are largely deserved.
Swinger parties tend to be a little cliquish. They attract too many guys (if single guys are allowed) and, strangely, a disproportionate number of out-of-shape people. There's way too much girl power evident. And it often takes hours for play to get started—perhaps because, in a setting that offers lots of apparent partner choice, it can be surprisingly difficult to make up one's mind which couple to go with.
But I find attending swinger parties as a couple can certainly be a shared adventure that deepens the bond of mutual trust. And it allows for erotic combinations—involving foursomes and moresomes—that are complicated and expensive to orchestrate with SPs.
At the party this weekend my SO & I managed to touch base with 3 other couples. With the 1st couple we ended up in a silly little disagreement about non-sexy matters. The female half of the 2nd couple turned out to be a first-timer at a lifestyle event, showing all the classic "not-ready" signs.
But the 3rd couple we talked to—a mixed-race couple like ourselves, with a Caucasian male and an Asian female—was friendly and attractive. Us guys gave the girls some privacy to chat among themselves. I’ve found that the single most important factor in giving play the go-ahead is usually whether there’s chemistry between the girls.
My partner kept her promise and stayed sober this time, being her sweetest self. Our two feminine Asians liked each other and started smooching right in the social area. Dragging the getting-acquainted process out too long is usually counterproductive—so, after about 10 min I took the initiative to suggest playing in a private room. Voila! We were on.
A swinging foursome, when it works out, can produce gourmet forms of eroticism which the typical romp with an SP can’t match. Don't get me wrong, I appreciate SPs—but there's just something naughtier about an amateur girl dropping her knickers than a sex professional. And the 2 guys and 1 lady can focus on giving the other lady intense multi-stimulation.
To ease into the zone of solid arousal I usually like to start by doing my own lady bareback before donning the condom and "switching" pussies. I love going at it while watching others getting it on in the same room, or seeing the two girls kiss and touch intimately.
I enjoy seeing another eager cock slide hungrily into my SO’s kitty, provided I'm also being taken care of. I find something deliciously taboo-smashing about banging someone's wife or GF in the presence of her partner while he bangs mine. It helps that I usually have no trouble holding off my orgasm until the other guy finishes.
Moreover, swinger foursomes allow for the possibility of double penetration—which got to be on the list of fantasies for any sex-loving woman or man.
So if you love foursomes and orgies…a good reason to attend swinger parties and not limit yourself to SPs.
I like to intersperse GF sex & pooning with periodic swinger parties. Each type of erotic outlet has distinctive pros and cons.
GF sex is relaxed, unrushed, affectionate, bareback and often deliciously kinky, but inevitably goes a little stale after a while.
Pooning offers thrilling variety, typically with attractive younger ladies that would normally be off limits. But it carries mild health risks and, of course, cuts into one's cash reserves.
Swinger parties are another alternative. But I admit, the bad stereotypes you hear about them are largely deserved.
Swinger parties tend to be a little cliquish. They attract too many guys (if single guys are allowed) and, strangely, a disproportionate number of out-of-shape people. There's way too much girl power evident. And it often takes hours for play to get started—perhaps because, in a setting that offers lots of apparent partner choice, it can be surprisingly difficult to make up one's mind which couple to go with.
But I find attending swinger parties as a couple can certainly be a shared adventure that deepens the bond of mutual trust. And it allows for erotic combinations—involving foursomes and moresomes—that are complicated and expensive to orchestrate with SPs.
At the party this weekend my SO & I managed to touch base with 3 other couples. With the 1st couple we ended up in a silly little disagreement about non-sexy matters. The female half of the 2nd couple turned out to be a first-timer at a lifestyle event, showing all the classic "not-ready" signs.
But the 3rd couple we talked to—a mixed-race couple like ourselves, with a Caucasian male and an Asian female—was friendly and attractive. Us guys gave the girls some privacy to chat among themselves. I’ve found that the single most important factor in giving play the go-ahead is usually whether there’s chemistry between the girls.
My partner kept her promise and stayed sober this time, being her sweetest self. Our two feminine Asians liked each other and started smooching right in the social area. Dragging the getting-acquainted process out too long is usually counterproductive—so, after about 10 min I took the initiative to suggest playing in a private room. Voila! We were on.
A swinging foursome, when it works out, can produce gourmet forms of eroticism which the typical romp with an SP can’t match. Don't get me wrong, I appreciate SPs—but there's just something naughtier about an amateur girl dropping her knickers than a sex professional. And the 2 guys and 1 lady can focus on giving the other lady intense multi-stimulation.
To ease into the zone of solid arousal I usually like to start by doing my own lady bareback before donning the condom and "switching" pussies. I love going at it while watching others getting it on in the same room, or seeing the two girls kiss and touch intimately.
I enjoy seeing another eager cock slide hungrily into my SO’s kitty, provided I'm also being taken care of. I find something deliciously taboo-smashing about banging someone's wife or GF in the presence of her partner while he bangs mine. It helps that I usually have no trouble holding off my orgasm until the other guy finishes.
Moreover, swinger foursomes allow for the possibility of double penetration—which got to be on the list of fantasies for any sex-loving woman or man.
So if you love foursomes and orgies…a good reason to attend swinger parties and not limit yourself to SPs.
