I love reading all these interesting responses. For the most part most people seem to be somewhat on the same page, aka service without a smile is no service at all. I love the perspective that the 2 can be at odds with eachother but still make for an enjoyable experience. Different perspectives on things really have a way of opening up mind, and its great to be able to discuss things with those of similar interests. One thing that I agree with is the more effort you put into a date, the more you can reasonably expect to get out of it. If you make her feel good and are respectful, generous, well groomed with good hygiene, she'll be more inclined to go the extra mile for you. Basically if you want a lady to sincerely enjoy her time with you, recomend you to friends and welcome you back with open arms, it's good to give her what you would enjoy. I mean.... you appreciate clean underwear, brushed hair and teeth, clean skin etc etc right? So do we! lol there are a number of things you can do to ensure your service is of the highest caliber each time, and it seems the more seasoned pooners have caught onto this very well, along with most sensible folks... lol
