Taking part in the No Fap movement: Has anyone else tried this?
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No wonder the ol prostate is acting up I’ve been beating on this thing since I was in my Crib!https://www.webmd.com/prostate-cancer/news/20090127/masturbation-and-prostate-cancer-risk
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Link above is to a study done relating the frequency of masturbation as it relates to prostate cancer. Surprisingly if you slam the ham lots in your 20's you increase your risk for prostate cancer but if you are over 50 your risk decreases.
My advice? If your 20-50 abstain and join the FAP movement but if you're over 50 beat your meat as often as you can all in the name of good health.
To answer the OP's question, yes I have tried and I have gotten results. After seeing a few providers and losing my v-card, something was wrong because I had trouble staying erect and sex didn't really feel good. I couldn't even enjoy oral sex. So I abstained and did the sort of dipping your toes regiment, it takes 1 month. You masturbate 2 times in week 1, 2 in week 2, and in 3 and 4 only once I believe. Something like that, scaling it back. Or you can do the hard reboot with 90 days of none.
After doing the month regiment or so, I saw Berlin Black (now retired), and I tried the whole sex thing again. The cbj wasn't doing it, cowgirl and mish weren't getting me, but doggy absolutely wrecked me and I finished my first time with FS. So I figured the regiment worked a bit. I also saw another provider beforehand but we never got to FS. After I had some job troubles, I quit pooning because no money. But I got a new job, and made it to 43 days of no jerking. Its easily one of the hardest challenges. It comes in giant waves, so for a few days you're chill, then ne day you're just a big ball of bunched up hormones and a stiff breeze or a milf on the street will leave you struggling. I was aiming for the full 90 and quit at 43, saw an older fob asian sp and was able to nut with oral in a few seconds. Not fapping sort of resets your brain, as a lot of younger guys are accustomed to porn. You need a hard grip or lots of visual aid to finish. After that stint of nofap I was able to enjoy oral sex a lot more.
After doing the month regiment or so, I saw Berlin Black (now retired), and I tried the whole sex thing again. The cbj wasn't doing it, cowgirl and mish weren't getting me, but doggy absolutely wrecked me and I finished my first time with FS. So I figured the regiment worked a bit. I also saw another provider beforehand but we never got to FS. After I had some job troubles, I quit pooning because no money. But I got a new job, and made it to 43 days of no jerking. Its easily one of the hardest challenges. It comes in giant waves, so for a few days you're chill, then ne day you're just a big ball of bunched up hormones and a stiff breeze or a milf on the street will leave you struggling. I was aiming for the full 90 and quit at 43, saw an older fob asian sp and was able to nut with oral in a few seconds. Not fapping sort of resets your brain, as a lot of younger guys are accustomed to porn. You need a hard grip or lots of visual aid to finish. After that stint of nofap I was able to enjoy oral sex a lot more.
I then had trouble with FS, but a stubborn SP refused to give me a handjob or oral and said I could only finish with FS, we finished with cowgirl. Then I kept indulging in oral and massages because my job is labour intensive, but recently was able to finish with FS after abstaining for 3 days and doing no oral just mpos.
If OP is having trouble finishing or staying hard, nofap can maybe help. It will be one hell of a story too if you can last a long time
If OP is having trouble finishing or staying hard, nofap can maybe help. It will be one hell of a story too if you can last a long time
Thanks for sharing your experience man. Its nice to have some idea of what to expect and different ways of going about it. I'm 3+ days of holding out now and I seem to be doing fine. If I'm struggling with it, I might try the scaling it back method that you used.
For me ( I am older) it's kinda of a tantra or edging thing. When I do fap, I do it right up to ejaculation then stop. And have done this for 30 days at a time. Three benefits for me, surprise that I'm not using a little medicinal helper, the ability to have non ejaculatory orgasms, and finally when I do let go it's pretty mind blowing.
Peace
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I once went about 2 weeks and then booked a session. Well, soon as she touched junior, got hard in a eye flash and came instantly as soon as she began a pretty aggressive bbbj lol. I didn't stand a chance.
But that's ok. I always liked and prefer fantasy senario sessions anyhow
But that's ok. I always liked and prefer fantasy senario sessions anyhow
Just a quick followup question about no-fap to anyone who's done it. Between masturbation itself or watching porno with masturbation, which of those two aspects is more destructive to your overall health?
Definitely with porn, is more harmful. People in the nofap community call it PMO: Porn Masturbation Orgasm. It makes you rely on images or certain stimuli, that you may not get from a provider. So if a provider is aggressive and does dirty talk, it helps me finish a lot easier because of the slight pse vibes. If the session is too vanilla, its harder for me to finish.
So when you do the scaling back method, and you allow yourself some wanks, try to not do it to porn and just use your imagination. Also use the backs of your hands instead of fingers, and use lots of lube. You are basically re-training your brain and dick to be more sensitive to touch and not rely so much on imagery to get hard and finish.
So when you do the scaling back method, and you allow yourself some wanks, try to not do it to porn and just use your imagination. Also use the backs of your hands instead of fingers, and use lots of lube. You are basically re-training your brain and dick to be more sensitive to touch and not rely so much on imagery to get hard and finish.
Maybe when I'm dead. Do you mean with out seeing any ladies as well? I don't think that would qualify as a reset.
Happy New Year.
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I have know people who have an very low libido, but then again they might be just a statistically extreme few.
Yep, perb has now gone prudish and anti-porn. I miss the days when orgasms were thought of as a good thing to experience
Just a quick update on my no fap journey. So far, I'm 10 full days of no fap right now. I was contemplating on visiting an SP today just to experience what sex would be like after holding out for this long. Last time I held out this long before seeing an SP was three years ago and it was quite explosive. I saw an ad from the 5060 agency for a new SP named Selina. Pics looked good and she was unreviewed, but they have had good providers in the past. When I arrived, I saw the girl was different that the one in the pics of the ad and I walked. I posted a more detailed review in the review section.
I don't have any set timeline for when I plan on ending this stint of no fap, but I would rather have the streak end with sexual encounter than to spank it to porn. I'd prefer it end in sex with girl I'm dating, rather than visiting an SP. I have date lined up next week, but it's only a first date, and who knows whether we will hit it off. I've also been watching some videos of guys claiming that women have responded better to them and that they have more confidence. They are attributing it to possibly a higher production of testosterone. I don't know if this is a placebo effect or if people if these guys are experiencing real physical and psychological changes. I did notice however, that the past few women I've spoken too recently have been a slightly more receptive to me. Like I said, not sure if this is co-incidence or an actual result of what I'm doing.
For now, I'll keep this up and see where it goes.
I don't have any set timeline for when I plan on ending this stint of no fap, but I would rather have the streak end with sexual encounter than to spank it to porn. I'd prefer it end in sex with girl I'm dating, rather than visiting an SP. I have date lined up next week, but it's only a first date, and who knows whether we will hit it off. I've also been watching some videos of guys claiming that women have responded better to them and that they have more confidence. They are attributing it to possibly a higher production of testosterone. I don't know if this is a placebo effect or if people if these guys are experiencing real physical and psychological changes. I did notice however, that the past few women I've spoken too recently have been a slightly more receptive to me. Like I said, not sure if this is co-incidence or an actual result of what I'm doing.
For now, I'll keep this up and see where it goes.
