I'm trying to go a similar route. I saw an SP this past Saturday, trying to hold out until early Feb for my bday before releasing again (with a provider). This is going to be HARD!I've stopped watching porn since Jan 1st, I don't fap anymore but I had to go see a SP and had a good 45 session of getting blown and pounding before busting a nut all over her chest. I'm gonna keep trying to not jerk it but I might still go see a SP for a bj or a good bang to keep me going. Good Luck
Ive never thought of abstaining from masturbation up until this thread, much less the issue with grip. Didn't know there were proper ways to masturbate, thought it was just a grab, choke and go kind of thing. Do you just lube up the back of both hands and jerk off that way with light pressure? I guess the "death-grip" they mentioned on that website does make senseDefinitely with porn, is more harmful. People in the nofap community call it PMO: Porn Masturbation Orgasm. It makes you rely on images or certain stimuli, that you may not get from a provider. So if a provider is aggressive and does dirty talk, it helps me finish a lot easier because of the slight pse vibes. If the session is too vanilla, its harder for me to finish.
So when you do the scaling back method, and you allow yourself some wanks, try to not do it to porn and just use your imagination. Also use the backs of your hands instead of fingers, and use lots of lube. You are basically re-training your brain and dick to be more sensitive to touch and not rely so much on imagery to get hard and finish.
LOL. I love your sense of humour Sybian!I only do it when I crave a smoke, which is something I treat myself to afterwards.......I'm down to a pack a day.
I thought you were going to say it was your red Lamborghini. I was thinking if I were you I would trade the car in for a Corolla and have that much more to spend on "the hobby". If you really are driving a Pony, then I guess you have the same priorities as myselfI saw Sasha Nat on Jan 4th after 7 fapless days. Now, that took a lot of self-control.
I had scheduled to see a well reputed girl in DT so I wanted to go fully loaded. For some reason, it didn't happen and I ended up spilling liquid pearls at Sasha's place who just happened to be available on a short notice.
The notice was so short that I had to rush to Bby from DT in less that 30 minutes.
Did anyone see a red Lamborghini clicking over 150 k on Kingsway? .......... I saw him too, the bastard cut me (and my Hyundai Pony) dangerously near Boundary. Jan 08 around 10 am.
I am glad my joke worked... albeit a little late.I thought you were going to say it was your red Lamborghini. I was thinking if I were you I would trade the car in for a Corolla and have that much more to spend on "the hobby". If you really are driving a Pony, then I guess you have the same priorities as myself
JD
Oh? I think that soldiers, sailors and airmen around the world go for months while on deployment. Probably years during major wars.I don't think I've ever gone more than a week since my early teens. 90 days sounds impossible. Not even the pope or the dalai lama could pull that off.
Question for all the self diagnosed porn addicts: how much of the evil porn did you watch in a day? Did you always watch porn with tremendous guilt? Is white knighting acceptible when worryingabout the adult entertainment industry? #CoolMenDon'tEnjoyPornI have tried and failed several times at Nofap. My longest reaching 21 days and a bunch that fail around the week mark and every time I fail, my self esteem takes a pretty big hit. Therefore, I would consider myself one of the people that struggles with a porn addiction. I definitely think there are things to gain on a personal level from abstaining from porn and masturbation, such as being more productive, having clearer thoughts, more energy and self confidence. However, I think there are many others for considering quitting porn as well. Most being the women in the industry. Many are completely exploited, they develop mental illness, and they keep dying incredibly young. 3 Have died in the last month or so. I have made a different goal and will allow myself to masturbate, but I will not contribute any longer to the exploitation of the woman in the industry.
Just my 2 cents.
Spoken like a man who knows what he is doing. It is always good to have a go forward plan.Just a quick update guys, but my first run at no fap for 2018 has ended at just over 14 days. Last fap before starting was early afternoon Dec 26 and it ended late yesterday Jan 9. Basically I was really bored and feeling anxious during the day. I didn't have a great day at work and I had nothing to do after work. No one to message or talk to and nothing to do. There are about 3 or 4 ladies on LL that I would have been willing to see, but they weren't working last night. It would have been great to end my streak by pulling off that condom right at the moment of glory and showering them with my juices! I needed to give myself something to look forward to and enjoy during the day. I was out having dinner by myself along with a beer when I decided I would burst the bubble when I got home.
I went onto my regular porn site and searched clips for Miyuki Son. I found a good one where she was just taking it and it did the job. I can say that my unit seemed to be a bit more sensitive to the arousal after holding out for that long. I always use lotion when stroking it as well. A strange thing was while I was beating my meat, a bit of jizz started to come out, yet I wasn't feeling an orgasmic sensation. I looked at it, and it seemed to be a bit thicker and more gooey than my normal seed. The volume of what came out wasn't the big explosion that I've had before when I've busted with women after holding out for awhile, so I knew I had plenty left to fire. I went back to watching that clip and working by shaft to make sure the damn burst. Eventually it did and I fired off a high volume load from that two weeks of build up.
Now that I've ended that streak of holding out, I still believe that masturbating on a non regular basis is the optimal way to go. I used to be a daily wanker. Going forward, I'm going to attempt another streak and see how far it takes me. Even if I do resort to going back to masturbating regularly, I would try to keep it to one day per week or have two separate days during the week where I allow myself that pleasure. Its a nice way to give myself something to look forward to. I think by not doing it every day, it makes the arousal alot more satisfying when I am in that moment.






