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Just wondering if having a 411 or reviews section for sugar babies is a thing. I joined a site recently out of curiosity and I've seen a couple of ladies on there who are also active on LL, and pretty much offering the same thing. Noticed other ladies on there too who don't advertise on LL, who in essence are doing sex work, should there be a separate section for sugar Baby arrangements?
 

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Just wondering if having a 411 or reviews section for sugar babies is a thing. I joined a site recently out of curiosity and I've seen a couple of ladies on there who are also active on LL, and pretty much offering the same thing. Noticed other ladies on there too who don't advertise on LL, who in essence are doing sex work, should there be a separate section for sugar Baby arrangements?
Escorts aren't supposed to be using sugar sites. it's against the terms of Seekings service, so someone could probably report them. That said, there definitely are a few who are active on both sides.

As far as reviewing civilians/under-the-radar/etc , no I don't think that's really a good idea - we might as well start reviewing Tinder hookups too then :)
 
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Escorts aren't supposed to be using sugar sites. it's against the terms of Seekings service, so someone could probably report them. That said, there definitely are a few who are active on both sides.

As far as reviewing civilians/under-the-radar/etc , no I don't think that's really a good idea - we might as well start reviewing Tinder hookups too then :)
I'd agree with you, but tinder is intended strictly to be just a hookup site. Where sugar Baby sites are for pay per meet, most of whom seem to be soliciting for sexual services or are agreeing to that sort of arrangement
 

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I'd agree with you, but tinder is intended strictly to be just a hookup site. Where sugar Baby sites are for pay per meet, most of whom seem to be soliciting for sexual services or are agreeing to that sort of arrangement
I'm not sure, there's quite a mix, a lot are looking for platonic/findom/virtual, while most seem to be looking for something ongoing, and there are definitely some looking for short-term (which would be PPM).

I've definitely met (or talked with in the case of the virtual girls) all three types. I generally try to avoid the pros on these sites for several reasons. No judgment, but if I wanted to see a girl who's banging a dozen random guys a week, I'd stick to escorts :)

Which sugar sites are you using?
 
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My experience is that 30-40% of the girls on those sites want something for nothing, platonic only and they get very upset at even the mention of sex, and they love to report guys and get them banned, especially on seeking arrangement. They want a mentor, or someone to take them shopping and feel their company is more than enough compensation for you doling out the cash. Then you have 20-30% who are PPM types, some are pros, with LL ads, many are not, in and out of the scene based on economic need or if they have a BF at the moment. Some of those have utterly insane PPM rates as well, you are better off with a known SP if you are coughing up $1000 or more to meet. 10-20% are pure tire kickers, flakes who had a friend who told them to try it, but they chicken out when it comes to meeting. 10% are straight up scammers, they tell you they really want to meet you, but their car is in the shop, or they are stranded in Calgary and need a plane ticket home or any other sob story to get you to transfer them money you will never see again even when they promise to pay you back.

That leaves a very small number of legit sugar babies who want to build something at least medium term, prepared to have a complete, mutually beneficial sugar relationship for a reasonable allowance. Some of those are also completely unreasonable, they want 3-5K per month, sometimes even more.

Laid on top of all of this, when you do find someone, you send a message, favorite them, boost the message, show them your private pics and do whatever you can to get noticed and maybe a third of them, sometimes less, even bother to reply.
Sometimes i can't tell if females live in reality or fairy tale land. I guess they have until about 30 to 35 years of age before they come down to earth.
 

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My experience is that 30-40% of the girls on those sites want something for nothing, platonic only and they get very upset at even the mention of sex, and they love to report guys and get them banned, especially on seeking arrangement. They want a mentor, or someone to take them shopping and feel their company is more than enough compensation for you doling out the cash. Then you have 20-30% who are PPM types, some are pros, with LL ads, many are not, in and out of the scene based on economic need or if they have a BF at the moment. Some of those have utterly insane PPM rates as well, you are better off with a known SP if you are coughing up $1000 or more to meet. 10-20% are pure tire kickers, flakes who had a friend who told them to try it, but they chicken out when it comes to meeting. 10% are straight up scammers, they tell you they really want to meet you, but their car is in the shop, or they are stranded in Calgary and need a plane ticket home or any other sob story to get you to transfer them money you will never see again even when they promise to pay you back.

That leaves a very small number of legit sugar babies who want to build something at least medium term, prepared to have a complete, mutually beneficial sugar relationship for a reasonable allowance. Some of those are also completely unreasonable, they want 3-5K per month, sometimes even more.

Laid on top of all of this, when you do find someone, you send a message, favorite them, boost the message, show them your private pics and do whatever you can to get noticed and maybe a third of them, sometimes less, even bother to reply.
It sounds more fun to court a lady in my civilian life. At least if I am rejected or it doesn't work out, I get a straight forward response most of the time.
 

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I'm not sure, there's quite a mix, a lot are looking for platonic/findom/virtual, while most seem to be looking for something ongoing, and there are definitely some looking for short-term (which would be PPM).

I've definitely met (or talked with in the case of the virtual girls) all three types. I generally try to avoid the pros on these sites for several reasons. No judgment, but if I wanted to see a girl who's banging a dozen random guys a week, I'd stick to escorts :)

Which sugar sites are you using?
I'm using Sugar Daddy, and I'm new at it, never knew how the whole thing works. The women on there are various ages, not just young girls. Many over 30, and I'm fine with that. I don't engage these girls, they mostly engage me and I tell them bluntly what I'm looking for and If they're game we continue chatting. So far I've met a couple of ladies, both of whom are over 30. I'm going to try and see them in the coming weeks.
 
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Sometimes i can't tell if females live in reality or fairy tale land. I guess they have until about 30 to 35 years of age before they come down to earth.
In my experience, 37 is the magic number where most women get it.
Good for a few years then its a crap shoot and based on a multitude of things will go this way or that way.
 
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In my experience, 37 is the magic number where most women get it.
Good for a few years then its a crap shoot and based on a multitude of things will go this way or that way.
I don't know about that, the word Karen is directed to a particular age group of women.
 

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Thanks for all the input gentlemen. I appreciate it. I have thought about the idea of sugar daddy/baby idea, but have not done it. Seems like a lot of work. Sounds like might be better to see an SP. I did sign up one, but didn’t really put much on profile/pic, so didn’t really get any messages.
That depends. So far the gist I'm seeing is SP's on these sites are offering to do the same thing, but longer hours for less than on Tryst or Leolist (for example), while other ladies who haven't been jaded by hobbyists and the bullshit from some creeps are also offering to host for as little as $300 for a few hours and going to the bedroom from there. This doesn't make us immune to scams or pimps though.
 

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offering to host for as little as $300 for a few hours and going to the bedroom from there.
I can assure u those are few and far between. Maybe the older women in the 35+ age group are willing to accept such offers but I'm not interested in older women. Divorceddad summed it up pretty well. That's been my experience as well and I've been on SA for years now. Things have changed over the years and it ain't for the better.
 

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I can assure u those are few and far between. Maybe the older women in the 35+ age group are willing to accept such offers but I'm not interested in older women. Divorceddad summed it up pretty well. That's been my experience as well and I've been on SA for years now. Things have changed over the years and it ain't for the better.
Fair deal I guess I'll have to be cautious.
 

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I'm using Sugar Daddy, and I'm new at it, never knew how the whole thing works. The women on there are various ages, not just young girls. Many over 30, and I'm fine with that. I don't engage these girls, they mostly engage me and I tell them bluntly what I'm looking for and If they're game we continue chatting. So far I've met a couple of ladies, both of whom are over 30. I'm going to try and see them in the coming weeks.
I don't know that one, but have you tried Seeking (which used to be called SeekingAss back in the early-2000s)? which probably has the most members?

it also depends on the time of year, I saw one stats that said the times you see most interest are when school starts/ends and Nov/Dec. I would have thought Jan would be busy too, but the ladies already paid their bills off - I hope :)

According to our web stats, the biggest times are:
  • Early November. This could be Black Friday and the whole holiday season. Once December hits, most ladies are probably into Family stuff, so start looking right at the end of October.
  • Early September. The period from near the end of August to around September 10th seemed to be popular – it makes sense, being the start of school, and ladies are looking for some extra income.
  • April/May. Again school-related, with most exams ending around May, thoughts turn to summer fun and adventures – which might cost money!
  • February 11 (a few days before Valentine’s Day). Not sure why. Maybe they are just looking for a bit of romance?
https://www.sugardaddysuccess.com/sugardaddy-tips-for-2020/

I know a few guys using SugarDaddyMeet, it's cheaper than Seeking, but they let you be more direct in your conversations. Seeking will ban guys if they talk money on the site.

Personally, I've had the most luck with girls in their mid-20s; they're more mature than the 18-20s but are still at the point they haven't settled into the rat race :)

Maybe DiCaprio is on to something?
 
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