slutty friend wont sleep with me?

Rammstein69

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I have this female friend her and I have known each other for about 10 years. We are really close friends we talk about everything and anything we are pretty open with each other. She is single and so am I we flirt with each other every so often and she has told me that she would "do me" and yes she has told me this when she has had a few to drink and when she is sober and NOTHING has happened yet she knows I like her and I know she likes me. Maybe it is because she thinks of me as a brother which she has told me that I am like one to her. I look at it as why go through with sleeping with each other and risking the great friendship we have. After sleeping with each other it would be the craps if someone wanted something more than the other and that person getting hurt and the friendship goes in the tank.
Ummm... I don't think she thinks of you as 'just like a brother'. Like I've said before, it's virtually impossible for a heterosexual man and woman to remain 'just friends' for any great length of time. Inevitably, one or both of them will develope an attraction for the other. But, that's just my opinion, I could be totally wrong. :)
 

hang5507

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If anything ever happened with my SO where we ended up breaking up, I don't think I would ever bother with the dating scene anymore - too much bullshit, too many head games - I think I would stick with pooning, to be honest... :p

You hit the nail right on the head...:D

Regards

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Phyn

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you can also look at it from the other perspective. lots of women I know have been so jerked around by boyfriends that they start to assume the worst, that it will all go to sh*t eventually.

so if they find a man who seems to care about them without the necessity of sex, they want to hang onto him for dear life and not risk losing that "brother". reliable friends are important, ya know.

it's kind of a distorted viewpoint, but not much different from the cynical views of women that men often express. it's because of the baggage and damage that we most of us have acquired along the way.

sad, really. and it sucks if you are hot for a girl who thinks about you this way. but you could try valuing the friendship for what it is. just don't expect it to ever change.
 
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island-guy

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Tell her that you are really starting to miss having sex and since she obviously isn't interested in having sex with you you are going to have to stop spending so much time with her so you can concentrate your time and energy on meeting a girl who likes you more than she does and wants to have sex with you.

Make sure you tell her somewhere private

50/50 chance she'll drop to her knees and undo your fly.
 

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Here's the deal: There has been a book written called "He's just not that into you".

This is a book basically about women(some nice looking, some average, some even below average) wanting to get with men who are way out of their league. How does this happen? Well the men, who are usually way better looking if not just better looking than average actually screw most of these women.

So these women are wrongly convinced that if it happens once it will happen again, that's why you see so many older women who were once nice looking hanging on to get with a younger better looking man, and they inevitably end up alone, but this is ultimately their choice.

This is simpler then walking, sooo, maybe LAG should write a book called "She's just that into you" LOL

More could be said, but then I'll really get into trouble.
 

deslicher

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Here's the deal: There has been a book written called "He's just not that into you".

This is a book basically about women(some nice looking, some average, some even below average) wanting to get with men who are way out of their league. How does this happen? Well the men, who are usually way better looking if not just better looking than average actually screw most of these women.

So these women are wrongly convinced that if it happens once it will happen again, that's why you see so many older women who were once nice looking hanging on to get with a younger better looking man, and they inevitably end up alone, but this is ultimately their choice.

This is simpler then walking, sooo, maybe LAG should write a book called "She's just that into you" LOL

More could be said, but then I'll really get into trouble.
TTTTHHHHERRWESLSLL
 

kalel

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dear LAG:

so much to write here but quite simply you lost this one because you forgot a very simple rule regarding women - attraction isn't a logical choice.
 
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BC_Boy

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LAG, your slutty "friend" won't sleep with u because u r "friends".

girls usually don't sleep with their guy friends; heck, they're more likely to fuck a stranger.
 
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You're probably right cause the guys she's sleeping with arent even that attractive. The last guy she had a fling with looks like Flanders ....on the simpsons


LAG, your slutty "friend" won't sleep with u because u r "friends".

girls usually don't sleep with their guy friends; heck, they're more likely to fuck a stranger.
 

BC_Boy

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You're probably right cause the guys she's sleeping with arent even that attractive. The last guy she had a fling with looks like Flanders ....on the simpsons
lol........simple rule: once a friend, always a friend.

LAG, dont take it personal. if u weren't friends at the start, maybe you'd be banging her right this instance.
 

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aznboi9

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Yeah, but Flanders is really hung. Did anybody ever see the episode where Homer tries to hook Ned up on a date? He made an introduction video of Flanders for a video dating service and, as part of the footage, secretly taped him taking a shower. He blurred out Ned's nads of course; but the pixelation went all the way down to his knees! :eek:
 
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