Sensual Domme

[ExpCharlee]

OKAY so I’ve really been getting into this new thing called “sensual domme” which is a sex thing I didn’t know about? What it entails is essentially domination without humiliation. I’ve tried it a couple of times and I LOVE it. It basically involves restraining someone (mentally or physically) and validating them and forcing them to just accept pleasure and compliments. It’s kinda what I’ve been trying to do through my work for a long time and finding a name for it and a way to distill it has been amazing. Has anyone tried this? What did you think? Curious to know peoples’ thoughts and experiences.

 

[Boyscout00]

OKAY so I’ve really been getting into this new thing called “sensual domme” which is a sex thing I didn’t know about? What it entails is essentially domination without humiliation. I’ve tried it a couple of times and I LOVE it. It basically involves restraining someone (mentally or physically) and validating them and forcing them to just accept pleasure and compliments. It’s kinda what I’ve been trying to do through my work for a long time and finding a name for it and a way to distill it has been amazing. Has anyone tried this? What did you think? Curious to know peoples’ thoughts and experiences.

I have a huge praise kink and this is 1000% my thing

 

[take8easy]

OKAY so I’ve really been getting into this new thing called “sensual domme” which is a sex thing I didn’t know about? What it entails is essentially domination without humiliation. I’ve tried it a couple of times and I LOVE it. It basically involves restraining someone (mentally or physically) and validating them and forcing them to just accept pleasure and compliments. It’s kinda what I’ve been trying to do through my work for a long time and finding a name for it and a way to distill it has been amazing. Has anyone tried this? What did you think? Curious to know peoples’ thoughts and experiences.

Totally new to me. I m not into domme/sub, but this one sounds kinda sweet ...

 

[Equity Market investor]

First is first, I LOVE being dominated!! Long time ago, I had a fantasy scenario of mine played out in a similar manner as you described Charlee. A domme / F/S lady way back. Me, restrained to a chair while being teased and denied by lap dance, legs ran across my face etc, on and off bbbj etc. It literally drove me insane!! Well, I gave in and couldn't last for the life of me lol. It was way too much intensity to hold on. The session was awesome!!

You will do very well in this style.I can see it.

 

[Langleydude]

That sounds kind of fun. My preference is for strong take charge women already so this seems like taking it to the next level. Even more so if charlee beckett is involved.

 

[masterpoonhunter]

Nothing quite like being handcuffed to the bed and having my gal of the moment work all kinds of good things all over me.
Then reversing the role!
Under the right circumstances its hotter than hell.

 

[Kissmepassionately]

Just not tied to the bed like George Constanza lol 😂🤣😂

 

[Lung69]

Who would have thought that that mannerism had a name. My typical goal was that the SP of my night cum twice before I allow myself to be turned on too much. Looks like my 2 hour sessions will become three.

 

[80watts]

I never did understand why a dom had to humiliate/degrade a tied up person. Does it have to do with S&M?

 

[Boyscout00]

I never did understand why a dom had to humiliate/degrade a tied up person. Does it have to do with S&M?

I’ve been in the kink community off and on for years, and a lot of the conversations I’ve had with people are who have humiliation kinks and CNC kinks have experienced those things in situations they were powerless.

Re enacting those things in a sexual setting can be empowering for a lot of people because they’re able to re experience those situations/traumas in the context where they now have control and know that they can stop the scene at any time. At least in kink, things like this are talked about ahead of time and consent is an ongoing conversation which creates a safe space to explore those things.

 

[Chuckerbie]

Good Day Charlee

I have recently unlocked this kink that you speak of .. Up until my experience with a certain Goddess .. I had never ever been tied up ,restrained or dominated before .. All new to me
Gotta say .. I am not into pain or being humiliated myself .. kudos to those who do indulge .. i understand why, it`s just not my thing ..

Myself tho, knowing no pain or humiliation is involved .. Lets try this .. I did some homework, searched out a Dom ..
I have to say .. Giving myself up to someone .. Being completely restrained .. becoming their little sensual pet to tease & deny .. dominate mentally & physically ..
Very exhilarating not having any control in that situation .. I personally think your sexual senses are turned up an extra notch .. very enjoyable
Gotta have trust .. but if its their with a SP/Dom .. Ahh man do it .. so much fun ..

My 1st experience .. all tied up .. She whispers in my ear while nibbling on it .. " I own your orgasm today .. I`ll let you know when you can cum " .
All i could think of was .. Ohh shit, this is going to be fun .. and fun it was ..

Next time you come to the Island .. Bring your restraints
Cheers

That a boy Dawg
I think I know exactly who your a talking about. She is amazing.
🤤

 

[PuntMeister]

There are plenty of Domme ladies out there who regard anything sexual as part of the experience as completely taboo, some don't even offer a release, or at most allow a sub to jack off. For me, it's the holy grail to mix the domme experience with FS, and hard to find. It's usually a GFE provider with some domme leanings, rather than a strict domme only provider, the ones that clearly state no FS in their ads.

Sensual domme and GFE/PSE combined is just about perfect, especially when the guy isn't really a sub. Leaving out the humiliation is a must for me as well, it's a boner killer.

Well said. There are a lot of sub males in the scene that feel the same way about classic bdsm; that it does not involve fs or release. I say bullshit! Forced orgasms are soooo satisfying. And there’s the whole being ravaged and raped by a dominant woman fantasy. Consensual non-consent it’s often called. I love how one domme put it “I will fuk who I want, when I want, how I want, and anybody that tells I cant’t do that doesn’t understand female domination”.

Combined with effective bondage and a sultry voice that tells you what she is going to do to you and that you have no ability to resist, that’s some damn good femdom right there. Deep sub-space opportunity for sure. There is freedom in bondage—secure the body, free the mind. It can be healing; Lose any baggage you’ve been clinging to, and sail the astral breeze of pure sexual sumbission.

Never gets old either, so much to explore. There is endless role play potential. I didn’t think think my “detention with sexy teacher” session was going to be much, but damn! That was one of the hottest things ev-r!!! Let’s just say I learned a lot after class. Lol.

-Punt.

 

[Equity Market investor]

Yes, it is difficult finding a lady that offers Domme services combined with F/S. In my post above here, I was lucky to find that I guess. But, that was a long time ago and she's long been retired. Saw her a few times though and we orchestrated our bookings Via Perb PM. It was awesome! But as the old saying goes ---- all good things come to an end " Unfortunately.


as lucky to find that in

There are plenty of Domme ladies out there who regard anything sexual as part of the experience as completely taboo, some don't even offer a release, or at most allow a sub to jack off. For me, it's the holy grail to mix the domme experience with FS, and hard to find. It's usually a GFE provider with some domme leanings, rather than a strict domme only provider, the ones that clearly state no FS in their ads.

Sensual domme and GFE/PSE combined is just about perfect, especially when the guy isn't really a sub. Leaving out the humiliation is a must for me as well, it's a boner killer.

 

[PuntMeister]

Yes, it is difficult finding a lady that offers Domme services combined with F/S. In my post above here, I was lucky to find that I guess. But, that was a long time ago and she's long been retired. Saw her a few times though and we orchestrated our bookings Via Perb PM. It was awesome! But as the old saying goes ---- all good things come to an end " Unfortunately.

I hear you dude! Found many gems over the years. Although sad when they move on or retire or whatever, I cherish the memories, fireworks, and joy we shared. Great to have a long term muse too, I feel blessed knowing her—we crushed 2-3 kinky bucket lists over the years! Amazing.

But keeping the hunt going seems a bit harder now to find new sensual / sexual dommes. Better odds it seems searching for escorts with a dom side or even a masseuse with a kinky side. That said, lifestyle prodommes that provide the full package still do pop up from time to time. The PERB BDSM section reviews are helpful to sift through the haystack of flakes, scams, newbs, and purely financially motivated ads, to find the eureka ones.

 

[Equity Market investor]

Great to see you had a similar experience. Excellent! But ya, back things were much more easier here and the ladies were alot more " laxed" towards things. All good. It was fun lol.

I hear you dude! Found many gems over the years. Although sad when they move on or retire or whatever, I cherish the memories, fireworks, and joy we shared. Great to have a long term muse too, I feel blessed knowing her—we crushed 2-3 kinky bucket lists over the years! Amazing.

But keeping the hunt going seems a bit harder now to find new sensual / sexual dommes. Better odds it seems searching for escorts with a dom side or even a masseuse with a kinky side. That said, lifestyle prodommes that provide the full package still do pop up from time to time. The PERB BDSM section reviews are helpful to sift through the haystack of flakes, scams, newbs, and purely financially motivated ads, to find the eureka ones.

 

[oneoldone]

Yes, it is difficult finding a lady that offers Domme services combined with F/S. In my post above here, I was lucky to find that I guess. But, that was a long time ago and she's long been retired. Saw her a few times though and we orchestrated our bookings Via Perb PM. It was awesome! But as the old saying goes ---- all good things come to an end " Unfortunately.


as lucky to find that in

And usually the non F/S is almost lost in the fine print on their website so tread carefully. Almost given up but still looking.

 

[MikeyLikey99]

Never heard of it either, but it sounds really interesting! 🪢😉

 

[VinVan]

I had a similar experience at Sweet Escape this summer with Krissy. You can build the experience you want with her a-la-carte, as she walks more on the domme side of the street. I’m more of a top myself but into edging. I could tell she was willing to play a more dominant role but read my reactions and didn’t go too far down that road, but certainly enough and we met at a place where we both could enjoy ourselves. One thing I really enjoyed was her potty mouth; she really has no hang ups in vocalizing and teasing and that added a great deal of pleasure to the session.

 

[Larry's Torch]

Pain slut here.
Not into the humiliation side, but restraints and a well placed flogger will do wonders.
I've heard of sensual Domme and think it would be an interesting way to start a session and then gradually transition into something more serious. Don't think I could do an entire session of "sensual". It seems to conflict with the whole "you're not going anywhere and I'm going to do what ever the fuck I want." thing; however I'm not looking for 'sensual', so my perspective is biased.
For me, a 'release' is a part of the whole experience. Being driven to the edge and back time and again before finally finding yourself deliberately pushed beyond the limit is a wonderful punish/pleasure reward.

Sensual may be a way to introduce someone to the whole D/s dynamic?

 

[beaveraddict]

Isn't this all on a spectrum? Even though the OP tried to define what a "sensual domme" was, after reading the comments it seems as if there are quite a range of experiences.

It's like trying to define GFE, it would be easy if everyone just stuck to BBBJ, DATY and kissing... but (capitalism) as soon as the term had some marketing cachet, all of a sudden SPs were advertising "covered GFE", "everything safe GFE", "CBJ only GFE", "no daty GFE", "no kissing GFE", etc.!!!

I digress...

#1: can we at least agree that a "sensual domme" 100% has to fuck? None of this no-FS stuff... that's for the guys who wanna get tied-up and spit on (hey, to each their own!).
#2: as above... no spitting, insulting, slapping, whipping, peeing-on, pooing-on, spiked-heel-in-the-scrotum stuff.
#3: the rest should be between two consenting adults and may or may not involve PVC, lingerie, chairs, handcuffs, restraints, schoolgirl uniforms, prison guard uniforms, etc.

I have been on quest for a "sensual domme" my whole adult life, yet - except for a couple of close calls - I haven't met this unicorn. I really like tall women, probably 'cause I'm not tall (spare me the dime store psychology) and I really like to go down... or should I say "go up" because a huge "sensual domme" fantasy is to have a bossy woman (supervisor at work, professor, therapist, personal trainer, etc.) tell me to kneel in front of her and service her orally while she gives clear instructions on how, where, how fast, how deep, etc. Once she's had her fill, she would return the favour, and then we would fuck in all the usual positions... and then talk about sports or politics.

The thing is, I can never find a girl to really rock the opening act... as soon as I start cunnilingus, even if they are OK with the me kneeling and them standing part (even that can be a challenge for some reason) most SPs usually default to "ooh, ahh, that feels good baby" or "I don't know what to say" or "my leg is cramping" instead of the assertive & sexually voracious dialogue I'm looking for! A few cam girls have done this... but, hey, they were cam girls LOL.

If any Perbites know of an SP who you could see ace-ing this scenario, please let me know 🙏