Saying mean things duing sex with SP

[KrustyTheKlown]

I'd think it a smart thing to discuss (and be very open) the things you are looking for/interested in, with the person you are going to see... before you see them, yes... as.... <grin> ....not all people are alike, therefore.. there is really no 'norm' <shudder>.... ew.. all of us the same... how droll

Your session *should* be yours.. the way you want it.. but also be safe in assuming there may be some boundaries.. so <grin> best to avoid issue and discuss ahead... lay out what you are looking for/into... up to them to accept or decline.. no harm, no foul

Discuss it like a business contract during texting prior to the deal. Alright.

By mean things, did you mean talk dirty during sex or did you mean just saying hurtful and derogatory things?
I suspect it is the former and I feel that as long as both parties agree, everything goes.

I have never really said 'nasty things', but yes, I have talked dirty and .... it was fun. But of course, I have everything OK'd by the lady I am with. Some of them can be .... quite dirty and I m down with that.

The dirtiest thing that an sp said to me was, "Ohhhh yea, I would love to taste my ass on your tongue!!!". Before she could finish the sentence, I had her face down and my face was buried between her butt cheeks!

Yes, I do want to know the boundary where dirty talks end and the nasty talks begin. For example, an 'sp' declined to talk dirty as a service via text but started saying "fuck me" in bed. Well...... that's my experience. But would you say that dirty talks are acceptable in general then?

 

[KrustyTheKlown]

There's dirty talk...& then there's verbal humiliation & degredation...

The latter needs negotiation and a safeword. Saying the wrong thing in the heat of the moment can be psychologically harmful..

I whole heartedly agree as I don't wish to accidentally harm any sp psychologically. So it appears that dirty talks are generally acceptable. So what makes something humiliating or degrading? For example, could "b**w me or s**k me" be considered just dirty talks? None of those contain cuss words. Or do it have to request them with pleases?

 

[KrustyTheKlown]

"Blow me" - dirty talk

"Blow me you dirty little whore. Haha you love sucking my cock don't you?!.. you filthy little slut." - verbal humiliation

The first and last lines are obvious because both contain cuss words.

What if it is just "you love sucking my cock don't you, beautiful"? This would be acceptable, right?\

I think I have a much better idea now. Thanks for the clarifications!

 

[KrustyTheKlown]

Now it's your turn

Please clarify as to WHY you joined 10 years ago and suddenly started posting now?
Are you by any chance a previously banned guy with a penchant for posting with Krustee handles? The infamous mind game extraordinaire?

I am curious..

Nope, I was never banned and this is my only account. I have started like 10 years ago for like a month or so. Then I stopped doing this for 10 years..... until now. I am just beginning to get some financial stability and a few medical problems fixed.