Tried to be inclusive of all three environments (independent/AMP/agency) and have heard ALL of these myself since entering the industry. 🤷🏼♀️
- The number one 🚩 cannot be posted here on Perb. We all know what it is…
- “Can we work something out outside of the agency/AMP? They don’t have to know… “
- “Are you working alone / does anyone know where you are / do you have security?”
- “Can I come over without screening / use a fake name / different number / book under someone else?”
- “Can we keep this completely secret / off the books?”
- “Can you sneak me in without anyone knowing / block the cameras?”
- “Can we meet somewhere isolated / private with no cameras or people?”
- ”Do you do car dates / public fun?” (Asked early on or first session)
- “Do you host at your own home / where do you actually live?”
- “What room/condo are you in before I arrive?”
- “What car do you drive / what’s your real name / can I get your personal number?”
- “Can you prove you’re alone / leave your phone outside / lock the door?”
- “Can I take pictures / leave my phone recording?”
- “Can I tie you up / restrain you / ignore listed boundaries?”
- “Can I touch whatever I want?”
- “What are your hard no’s / what won’t you do under any circumstances?” (very early on)
- “Do you ever make exceptions / Can I convince you to change your mind?”
- “Will you break rules for regulars / if I’m respectful?”
- “What’s the cheapest you’ll go / least you’ll accept?”
- “Can I pay later / partially / with a tip instead?”
- “What happens if I don’t bring the full amount?”
- “Are you desperate for money / financially struggling?”
- “Can I stay longer, sleep over, arrive early, wait inside, or just drop by?”
- “Can I bring friends, substances, or alcohol?”
- “Can I show up without confirming?”
- “Can we meet first so I know you’re real?”
- “Can you send live photos or FaceTime?”
- “Do you secretly like rough guys?”
- “What’s the craziest/furthest thing you’ve done with a client?” (Asked early on)
- “Have clients ever hurt you / do you carry weapons?”
- “Do you have trauma / cry after sessions / dissociate?”
- “Are you mentally stable enough for this work?”
- “Do you use drugs with clients / have you overdosed with clients?”
- “Have you ever been arrested / do cops bother you / how do you avoid getting caught?”
- “Can you delete our messages?”
- “Would you date a client / become exclusive?”
- “Are you new or inexperienced?”
