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Yup your right....casino, then Costco, and across the road my favorite tool place, KMS.
Although the Hwy is a little close for sleeping.
You have a route?! Do you sub-contract for Santa at Christmas time?it's on my route
Just got whiplash trying to follow Miss Hunter's sudden changes of topic. I have no idea what the bullying comment refers to. There's a lot on perb that just goes right over my head, but that's just as well, I'm sure.
Did somebody call you a bully?
I remember replying to a guy when a group of people thought they were the judge and the jury. They repeatedly insulted a poster. "Bullying" is a suitable word for that.
If a poster broke some rules, flagging him to the mods is the proper action per "gentler kinder PERB" guidelines.
He could be:
1) a troll, who'd greatly enjoy the attention;
2) a ****** ***, whom you definitely cannot fix with your posts;
3) a reasonable guy with perhaps an unfortunate choice of words. Yes, I think it's possible, his previous posts were fine.
In any of the above, a continued shitstorm does not achieve anything, and can only hurt.
At the end mods banned him. It's their call, whatever, as long as we don't propagate negativity.
It's a good definition, everything checks out.
When many long-term posters gang up on one newer guy, there is an obvious imbalance of power. The message was repeated and abusive. The guy whom I addressed said to the poster something like "you shouldn't be seeing either SPs or civilian women". I imagine high school bullies use a different wording but essentially the same message.
Men who have anti social tendencies, and hatred towards women...in my experience...tend to hang out together.
They brood ,and feed off each other's septic minds....eventually trying to out do each other's accomplishments....Rape is a common subject in these crowds of half-men.
It is a sick and twisted club of pathetic morons, who cant make it in the real world to begin with...so they gather in collaboration , to find company in their misconceptions.
Yes, unlike THIS review board Mister Anderson.
The morons are weeded out, along with their misconceptions.
That kind of behaviour isn't tolerated here.
Whatever works for you in the real life may not look as reasonable on the forum. You cannot see the person, don't interact with them much, and don't have influence on them.
Did replying to any troll fix them? The more attention they get, the happier they are.
Did replying to a creep fix them? A sociopath will ignore your words and move on, your comment does not impact his life.
The only time the negativity has impact is when you are wrong and the other person is at least half-decent.
Let's pay attention: nobody said it was likely. It was one of the three possibilities I listed.
The post was not obviously ban-worthy. If it was, tell me which of 18 "original" PERB guidelines it violated, and I'll regret I haven't flagged it myself.
I understand what triggered your reaction. That was exactly one word, PUA abbreviation in the post title.
The post body did not make any reference to it and was rather accurately worded. It did not provably show the poster was trying to "take advantage" of any woman, unless consensual adult sex qualifies as that.
So, given that you and I don't have a crystal ball to judge a person by one word, I'm not impressed when a person is treated to a chain of insults in the line of "you shouldn't get laid", "nobody will want you", etc.
This is not gender-specific and does not limit your right to comment, vent, make your own opinion about an individual, or report them. I believe people advancing PUA agenda or promoting their leaders get banned here. It can be a judgement call. So I'd rather see mods handling it, which they do without emotions, feeding of trolls, or bumping their threads.
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