Phone/texting etiquette

Luckylou555

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I have read a few bad reviews on here about SP texting during your appointment ..I recently experienced my regular SP checking her phone and texting right after our session as I was getting dressed .Of the many times I have seen her she has never done this. why cant she wait 5 minutes until I am out the door ..I felt it was rude and disrespectful ..My phone usually gets turned off or put on mute during sessions .Pet peeve of mine and there is enough of this happening in everyday life ..I do plan on letting her know how I feel even if it leads to seeing someone else ..
 

Coolsin000

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I have read a few bad reviews on here about SP texting during your appointment ..I recently experienced my regular SP checking her phone and texting right after our session as I was getting dressed .Of the many times I have seen her she has never done this. why cant she wait 5 minutes until I am out the door ..I felt it was rude and disrespectful ..My phone usually gets turned off or put on mute during sessions .Pet peeve of mine and there is enough of this happening in everyday life ..I do plan on letting her know how I feel even if it leads to seeing someone else ..

Well, with COVID-19 - she might not be seeing a lot of clients. Especially with the economic downturn - it could be that she is financially tight, so maybe give her a break. Since it's just a one-time thing?
 
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Mbboi

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I’m a bit more lenient when it comes to this type of thing even though it is annoying. I understand that the ladies need to keep their bookings lined up and clients on the other end don’t want to wait up to an hour for a reply back (I always appreciate a quick reply),

If it’s a couple times during the session and not too disruptive ie. as long as they’re not on the phone while you’re DATY’ing them then I’m good haha.
 
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Luckylou555

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No jealously here ..Just a little old school and have few different values.. Good to read opinions and advice of fellow pooners and make some adjustment. Thanks for your advice.
 

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You said the session was over and you were getting dressed!!!

Who knows what was going on. Was she waiting for a package? Was her friend waiting nearby to hang out and she was letting her know that you were about to leave? Her grandmother was in the hospital? Cut the woman some slack my guy, she was just checking her phone.
 

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Session was over and you were getting dressed. I don't see a problem with a quick check and text. Maybe you went right to the end of time and now its past the time as you are getting dressed and she wanted to make sure you didn't end up face to face with her next guest on your way out. Maybe you were a few minutes late arriving which also created a problem for her schedule. Maybe the baby sitter was dropping off her kid(s).

Just a couple thoughts of why this happened along with the ones above. Compared to many times I have read here that texting is done during a session I think this is definately worth cutting her a break.
 

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Hold on a second here, every single reply was against the poster, as in, how dare he pose the question in the first place. Each responder seemed eager to explain on behalf of that prematurely texting provider her possible motives, all of which are to excuse the activity.

Imagine a grocery store checker on her phone, an individual that earns a tenth of a SP. Everyone watching, including employer cameras. That individual would not last too long on the job.

What about that old saying, 'the customer is always right'?

One point that can be made is, if provider A is can't wait to whip out their phone for whatever reason, compared to provider B, all other things considered equal, who is that customer more likely to see again? Put up a poll for clients that would vote in favour of a SP that waits patiently until her client is dressed, offers a cold water on his way out, peck on the cheek to ensure that person is happy before closing the door. Is that 5 minutes holding off checking one's phone in front of the client worth a return visit, or not losing an extra $50-$100 rate hike compared to a more attentive provider?

I recall another post of a SP who started cooking her meal before her client got out the door, Crystal if I recall correctly.

That last impression that is left can be the difference between the client returning again, or not. Some providers make sure the towels are plentiful, clearn and dry, ashtrays are absent, shower amenities are plenty, bathroom clean, empty garbage can. Whatever the last act is when a client leaves is the most remembered. Surely the cleanup and preparation for the next client is more than 5 minutes.

Going above and beyond should be the priority in this era of exceedingly tough competition and slim pickings.

If you are a provider responding to such a potential client, how you respond is your advertising.
 
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Whatever, this isn't worth arguing, good luck in your friendships with your regulars guys.
 

take8easy

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I have experienced it a few times when I see the SP going through her phone when I step out of the shower a few times at the beginning and more than a few times at the end.

It doesn't bother me really. I would be upset if she checked it during the session. Or if it caused delays in start of my session. There was one SP who kept on doing it while she had me laying face down for a massage. She is fairly well known SP and about three quarters of the the session was great, but I did not see her again.

Personally, the SP's who start to check their phones after the deed is done seem to be giving the impression that time is up so get out of here sir. Like many others have pointed out above, that could be a deal breaker when it comes to repeating them.
 
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Personally, I perfer, roamtic GFE sessions. This does not include arranging the next date while I am still in sight. Let it also be understood that I do not overstay my time.
I consider it a great bonus when the lady carries on some small talk while I get ready (without undue delay) to leave. A real nice touch to a truely GFE session is when she stays in the nude till I am out the door.
 
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Personally, I perfer, roamtic GFE sessions. This does not include arranging the next date while I am still in sight. Let it also be understood that I do not overstay my time.
I consider it a great bonus when the lady carries on some small talk while I get ready (without undue delay) to leave. A real nice touch to a truely GFE session is when she stays in the nude till I am out the door.
If you want *REAL* GFE come over and I’ll fart on you and laugh, tell you to shut the fuck up so I can hear the TV, and interrupt our lovemaking if the phone rings in case it’s my dad with an emergency or an amazon package.
 

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Hold on a second here, every single reply was against the poster, as in, how dare he pose the question in the first place. Each responder seemed eager to explain on behalf of that prematurely texting provider her possible motives, all of which are to excuse the activity.
To clarify I wasn't "against" or for the poster. I wasn't there, don't know the circumstances, just was trying to offer up some possible explanations. I personally don't take my phone into the room with me. The girls usually do take their phone with them but they know its only used incase of something going sideways. We have some guests that come late, stay the full time (which is always expected) and then have a 20 min shower after end of time. As many know we have a phone girl that takes care of everything and needs to know if the time is going 30 min past the scheduled end. There probably isn't someone scheduled but just incase she needs to know.
 

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You have to realize that you are not the only one seeing these providers and that she is not your significant other.

Mentioning her phone etiquette to her because your feelings were hurt will be a huge mistake.
 

Luckylou555

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Probably get roasted for this but not everybody has the same point of view or same values as the next person ..there are a lot of great points mentioned and some very legit that got me thinking .. My point is since I'm paying $$$ + a heathy tip for GFE.. for my hour .Define GFE ..hahaha maybe pussy farting on me an i will do the laughing ...Shouldn't I be entitled to her full attention until I am gone permitting its an hour ..Not having her last 5 minutes lining up the next appointment .. I cant say for sure so I can only let it slide and give her the benefit of the doubt but you can bet your boots there are girls out there lining up their next appt .It matters to some gents and others it doesn't . I think we all have a point that is acceptable. .I guess if it happens a lot then I will get used to it and it will become the new normal ..Girls If you do need to text your next guy ,don't make it obvious ..go take a pee and bring your phone in the bathroom .. .When I am at a meeting at work the phone gets put away and turned off ..Out of respect and full attention to my coworkers .I could have a family member kick the bucket and not know until my phone got turned on and would it really make a difference if I knew sooner ..
I like the way RIZA runs her show {very Classy} (y) I am sure she is glad she has her phone Gal.. Being an Indy would make things a bit more complicated
Maybe starting this thread may or may not have a few SW thinking about how they use their cellphones on the job ..Quote takeBeasy Personally, the SP's who start to check their phones after the deed is done seem to be giving the impression that time is up so get out of here sir. Like many others have pointed out above, that could be a deal breaker when it comes to repeating them.
mind you I am sure there are guys overstaying their welcome and time that need their asses kicked out
This was the first time this happened with our session in almost 2 years so I'm sure there there was some explanation ..(Not my business anyway ) If that happened on my first visit with her yes I probably would of not repeated
My 2 cents
 
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maniacalone

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I agree with you. Key word here is Etiquette. The client is exhibiting the right etiquette by being on time, being respectful and not argue the rate.
On the other hand the lady also needs to reciprocate and allocate her full attention to the client for the agreed upon period of time. Specially for a regular.
If she talks with you rather than play with her phone while you're getting dressed, It just shows some real class on her part, or the lack of it otherwise.
I suspect it's just her telling the on deck hitter to be ready for his turn. Don't take it personally. It's just business. Batter up!
 

gugga_madi

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You have to realize that you are not the only one seeing these providers and that she is not your significant other.

Mentioning her phone etiquette to her because your feelings were hurt will be a huge mistake.
Forget about telling her, even posting on this forum got him all sort of replies, full of assumptions I would like to add. Like her Grandmother may be sick, next customer may have been waiting for her and the session was almost finished, so what the fuss is all about sort of answers. Is there any end to this kind of speculation?

There are a million reasons why a person could be paying attention to his or her phone but are they justifiable in the context of a paid date? I don't think so, when somebody is paying for your time, you should be a little more courteous.
 

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This is a good topic and one that should be discussed as it is here. Sure there may be some extenuating circumstance for answering a phone/text while in session and I doubt anyone will dispute that something may have come up that needs attention. It happens to all of us in today's busy world. Beginning/End of a session, well for the most part you are not yet in the midst of something that was expected and paid for. In the middle of a session though. Different issue. It's happened to me and I have said I am not happy with you paying attention to the phone and not me, and have cut sessions short saying, why continue, you fucked up the mood with your attitude so I am out of here and will not be contacting you again. I put my phone on silent and it stays on silent from the moment I am at the SP entrance to the time I am out of the building. I expect the same as a courtesy at a minimum.

If a call has to be taken, then some basic manners can go a long way to smoothing things over such as "I am so sorry I have to answer this" and one such call in a session annoying as it is can be shrugged off. More than that though, and that provider is off my list and will get commented upon.
 
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gugga_madi

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This is a good topic and one that should be discussed as it is here. Sure there may be some extenuating circumstance for answering a phone/text while in session and I doubt anyone will dispute that something may have come up that needs attention. It happens to all of us in today's busy world. Beginning/End of a session, well for the most part you are not yet in the midst of something that was expected and paid for. In the middle of a session though. Different issue. It's happened to me and I have said I am not happy with you paying attention to the phone and not me, and have cut sessions short saying, why continue, you fucked up the mood with your attitude so I am out of here and will not be contacting you again. I put my phone on silent and it stays on silent from the moment I am at the SP entrance to the time I am out of the building. I expect the same as a courtesy at a minimum.

If a call has to be taken, then some basic manners can go a long way to smoothing things over such as "I am so sorry I have to answer this" and one such call in a session annoying as it is can be shrugged off. More than that though, and that provider is off my list and will get commented upon.
I get your point masterpoonhunter, being magnanimous is nothing wrong but doesn't the time start as soon as you enter the room with the provider?

A client has the right to answer an important phone call or leave mid session because he is the buyer here, and if he needs to go then he needs to go.
 
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