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robotchicken

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I wouldn't do with just any sp. If she is well reviewed then probably ok. If you get her from backpage and "party" is in her ad I would stay away. When I am in town I am staying in a hotel so not as big of a deal but bringing a stranger in your house that you know nothing about could lead into some unwelcome problems. Just opinion.
 

Rhulad

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I have only had 1 lady to my house in the past, she has come a few times now but that was only after quite a while of incall. Many of the ladies who would be great for a first timer only do outcalls for established clients. My first time was at my hotel on a trip to Vancouver. I would recommend going to a well reviewed lady’s incall over hosting yourself.

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Dawgspeed

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Don`t do it mate.

If you have seen her a few times and she has earned your trust, then by all means do it.
I have had a few home visits but i had seen them a few times before hand, I knew who they were. So i felt comfortable with it

If you have no idea who she is, A BP special or party girl, hell no. robotchicken`s advice is solid mate. do not do it
Cheers
 

Class Choice

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From our agency perspective, most ladies will only do residential outcalls if they have previously met you, and are confident that they will be safe. It's never anything personal; it's just a (likely only slight) risk for all parties involved, and safety always makes for a better, more relaxed and fulfilling experience.
 

chubawamba

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From our agency perspective, most ladies will only do residential outcalls if they have previously met you, and are confident that they will be safe. It's never anything personal; it's just a (likely only slight) risk for all parties involved, and safety always makes for a better, more relaxed and fulfilling experience.
I agree. Safety comes first for both.
 

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Thinking about my first time. Is it a bad idea to have them come directly to your house?
An outcall, with a lady you have never met before, is incredibly risky and stupid, particularly for a first timer. She could be a scam artist, thief or bring along some help. Stick to incall, or get a hotel room. Once you have some established trust, then you can consider an outcall to your home. Do some research, there are posts here about robbery, assault, trouble with law enforcement etc.
 

Riza

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I myself will not do outcalls to residences unless a previous client that I feel comfortable with. To many troubles with extra guests that weren't mentioned, fake bookings and no such address and twice camera's set up in the room. You would have just as many possible problems having a sp come to you house if you didn't know her. Outcall to your house is a risk that should only be one with someone you know and trust.

As perbmod said start with a hotel if you are not comfortable with doing a incall. And as he said there have been cases of robbery, scam, thieving or party girl that gets out the drugs after arriving, not something you want in your home.

Be prepared that if you do a hotel you may have to give up your real first name and or last name depending on how strict the front desk is or pick a hotel that has an automated system for putting calls through to a room. I will not do a drive until I have confirmed you are in your room. I think most other girls and agencies do the same to confirm the appointment.

Find yourself a fav, or two and then expore the outcall option once that level of trust is built up for both of you.
 

take8easy

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Chances of me doing an outcall are remotely faint. I can't do it at my house because of SO. Even if I EVER decide to do an outcall, it will probably be an overnighter but only with the ladies I have seen multiple times.

I can't even see myself doing it in my hotel room. If you are willing to pay her to do an outcall, then why not just get a cab. In many cases, it would be even cheaper.
 

jgg

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Are outcalls safer when booked with agencies?
Read Riza's comment. It pretty much states it all from both perspectives.

Happy New Year

I myself will not do outcalls to residences unless a previous client that I feel comfortable with. To many troubles with extra guests that weren't mentioned, fake bookings and no such address and twice camera's set up in the room. You would have just as many possible problems having a sp come to you house if you didn't know her. Outcall to your house is a risk that should only be one with someone you know and trust.

As perbmod said start with a hotel if you are not comfortable with doing a incall. And as he said there have been cases of robbery, scam, thieving or party girl that gets out the drugs after arriving, not something you want in your home.

Be prepared that if you do a hotel you may have to give up your real first name and or last name depending on how strict the front desk is or pick a hotel that has an automated system for putting calls through to a room. I will not do a drive until I have confirmed you are in your room. I think most other girls and agencies do the same to confirm the appointment.

Find yourself a fav, or two and then expore the outcall option once that level of trust is built up for both of you.
 
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westwoody

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Thinking about my first time. Is it a bad idea to have them come directly to your house?
Don't do it.

You have NO IDEA who you are letting into your home. Do you want some gangbanger's girl casing out your house for a breakin? Do you want someone on your front step making a scene and having the cops show up?

Well reviewed, and someone you know well...as in seen four or five times...okay.
 

johnywalker87

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Read Riza's comment. It pretty much states it all from both perspectives.

Happy New Year
Yes but she was referring to backpage outcalls, Are the risks she mentioned still existing from a client perspective when you book with an agency? I think reputable agencies would make sure that the girls don't do any harm to the client.
 

jgg

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Yes but she was referring to backpage outcalls, Are the risks she mentioned still existing from a client perspective when you book with an agency? I think reputable agencies would make sure that the girls don't do any harm to the client.
Probably not as risky with an agency lady from the client perspective. You are however still dealing with the unknown and a reputable agency that truly was concerned for their ladies wouldn't send them to an unknown out call.

Happy New Year.
 
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Years ago, after a few agency appts, a close friend asked a mp to come to his apartment--off the books. His partner is away, the mp is eager to do it--discreetly. She arrives, asks for a glass wine. A few laughs, head to bedroom. He wakes up many hours later fuzzy-headed; the apartment has been gutted of anything of value, including heavy, 2-person stuff. Absolute disaster. (Not that it matters, this occurred near UBC in the late 1990's.)
 

Seabeast

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Years ago, after a few agency appts, a close friend asked a mp to come to his apartment--off the books. His partner is away, the mp is eager to do it--discreetly. She arrives, asks for a glass wine. A few laughs, head to bedroom. He wakes up many hours later fuzzy-headed; the apartment has been gutted of anything of value, including heavy, 2-person stuff. Absolute disaster. (Not that it matters, this occurred near UBC in the late 1990's.)
oh that just sucks... :( im sure he had a fun time explaining that one to the SO
 

SDK

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oh that just sucks... :( im sure he had a fun time explaining that one to the SO
Actually it wouldn't be that much "fun" at all to anyone with some brains. All he would have to tell her is he forgot to lock the door when he went out (it happens), came back and found the place gutted. Of course, it would be a good idea to smash the lock before contacting the home insurance people. And everything is replaced.
 
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oh that just sucks... :( im sure he had a fun time explaining that one to the SO
A note was left not to call the police; the thieves discovered much about him and his girlfriend while rooting around. He was traumatized. They immediately moved, no calls to the police, therefore no insurance. (He said he'd left the door unlocked.)
True, the story has many obvious red flags, however I'll never have a sp/mp at my home.
 

West End Guy

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I think they want some sense as to who the lady is seeing for safety. Therefore you need to have a way of demonstrating that i.e., former dealings with the agency or a reliable reference. Also, sometimes they will only see a client at a hotel and not a private residence.
 
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