Foolishly, I’ve done this multiple times over the past 15 years or so and am currently considering doing so again. Most were when I was quite new to the hobby and knew nothing of perb. Here’s a summary of each...
Called an apparent SP from an ad in the Straight or some other mag at around 1:30 am after lots of drinking. After lots of delays, she arrives around 4, provides 2 minutes of foreplay then begins to cause loud argument and threaten to escalate and intentionally disturb my neighbors. I basically just begged her to keep my money and leave quietly which she promptly did.
Couple weeks later, same scenario as first time only I made a point of being less intoxicated and calling an agency. SP arrived and was awesome. Repeated 2 or 3 times over next 6 months.
Met a SW and hit it off just chatting in my car for half an hour so invited her home. Had numerous multiple hour sessions over the following year.
Quite confident I was extremely fortunate in the 2nd 2 cases as I was drinking heavily, often driving and not once thinking about the risks of theft, violence, extortion or other. Not a high point in my life nor one I’m remotely proud of and would not recommend.
Fast forward 7 or 8 years and I’ve moved and quit drinking and learnt about perb and the hobby.
Met an SP through her metrotown incall and really hit it off. Asked her afterwards about outcall and she said she’d do so for an extra $40 for cab. Had her over twice and all went well.
Met my recent ex not long after that and spent 6 years cohabitating but now the bed has been empty, cold n lonely for a couple months and relationship was sexless for years prior to that. I’ve visited 2 incallls since the breakup but really want (need?) that feel of a hot, sweet smelling woman in my bed so am considering taking the risk again but am just in the research stage and want to do so with much more forethought, caution and discretion than in times past.
Basically logged in tonight to try and research ‘trustworthy, reputable outcall providers’ but can see from this thread and my search results that I may not find any easy contacts for this here and may have to do as suggested above and just form a connection elsewhere first.
Appreciate all the well thought out previous responses as they’ve reaffirmed the cautious approach I’m taking this time around.
Thanks all
Called an apparent SP from an ad in the Straight or some other mag at around 1:30 am after lots of drinking. After lots of delays, she arrives around 4, provides 2 minutes of foreplay then begins to cause loud argument and threaten to escalate and intentionally disturb my neighbors. I basically just begged her to keep my money and leave quietly which she promptly did.
Couple weeks later, same scenario as first time only I made a point of being less intoxicated and calling an agency. SP arrived and was awesome. Repeated 2 or 3 times over next 6 months.
Met a SW and hit it off just chatting in my car for half an hour so invited her home. Had numerous multiple hour sessions over the following year.
Quite confident I was extremely fortunate in the 2nd 2 cases as I was drinking heavily, often driving and not once thinking about the risks of theft, violence, extortion or other. Not a high point in my life nor one I’m remotely proud of and would not recommend.
Fast forward 7 or 8 years and I’ve moved and quit drinking and learnt about perb and the hobby.
Met an SP through her metrotown incall and really hit it off. Asked her afterwards about outcall and she said she’d do so for an extra $40 for cab. Had her over twice and all went well.
Met my recent ex not long after that and spent 6 years cohabitating but now the bed has been empty, cold n lonely for a couple months and relationship was sexless for years prior to that. I’ve visited 2 incallls since the breakup but really want (need?) that feel of a hot, sweet smelling woman in my bed so am considering taking the risk again but am just in the research stage and want to do so with much more forethought, caution and discretion than in times past.
Basically logged in tonight to try and research ‘trustworthy, reputable outcall providers’ but can see from this thread and my search results that I may not find any easy contacts for this here and may have to do as suggested above and just form a connection elsewhere first.
Appreciate all the well thought out previous responses as they’ve reaffirmed the cautious approach I’m taking this time around.
Thanks all
