I think that's probably my score too, after a quick scan of the Q's.butthead said:
Pretty funny shit there, like...
5. I think women are
A. like my mother
B. should be worshipped
C. sometimes worthwhile
D. good for sex
E. a necessary menace
Nice Guys Finish Last?
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Pretty funny shit there, like...
5. I think women are
A. like my mother
B. should be worshipped
C. sometimes worthwhile
D. good for sex
E. a necessary menace
I don't think nice guys finish last, they just seem afraid to make the first move, bad guys take and women sometimes like that, but nice guys don;t have to be an animal just make a move.
I always thought that the fact that they *finish last* is what made them so nice.
I certainly try to be last
I certainly try to be last
I think "nice" can mean a few different things...
If it means that you're a spineless pansy, then yeah, you will finish last. In my experience women will test their limits with you, and if she can push you around, walk all over you, if you don't have a stance and an opinion, she will not respect you. They don't want an asshole, but they want someone confident and strong who stands up for himself... often, if a woman is being a bitch, she wants someone to tell her so, to stand up to her.
There's also something about bad boys being 'dangerous' which is attractive to women... safe and predictable get boring, fast. We all want adventure and surprises in our relationship, it's exciting to feel like we're in unchartered territory.
And, sadly, some women do just want an asshole ... I've been with women who get hotter for you the more of a dick you are to them. I proved this to myself during the days when I was doing a lot of cocaine, which seems to bring out my inner asshole... lying, manipulating, etc. seems to do it for some chicks, particularly hot chicks with low self esteem. Sad but true.
There's also the time-proven fact that we always want what we can't have. Playing hard to get is always a good thing.
If it means that you're a spineless pansy, then yeah, you will finish last. In my experience women will test their limits with you, and if she can push you around, walk all over you, if you don't have a stance and an opinion, she will not respect you. They don't want an asshole, but they want someone confident and strong who stands up for himself... often, if a woman is being a bitch, she wants someone to tell her so, to stand up to her.
There's also something about bad boys being 'dangerous' which is attractive to women... safe and predictable get boring, fast. We all want adventure and surprises in our relationship, it's exciting to feel like we're in unchartered territory.
And, sadly, some women do just want an asshole ... I've been with women who get hotter for you the more of a dick you are to them. I proved this to myself during the days when I was doing a lot of cocaine, which seems to bring out my inner asshole... lying, manipulating, etc. seems to do it for some chicks, particularly hot chicks with low self esteem. Sad but true.
There's also the time-proven fact that we always want what we can't have. Playing hard to get is always a good thing.
I scored a 25.butthead said:
While it's true that it's best to be a nice guy without being a spineless doormat, and that relationships should be spiced with fun and excitement, I still need an explanation for one thing:
I keep reading about women being attracted to certain guys because they want a challenge. I don't get that. Why does a relationship have to be a challenge? What's wrong with simply enjoying one's company, regardless of its excitement level?
Why this nice guy does not get the girl.
That is my problem i am the proverbiale nice guy I respect ladys ..and bitches ( thats is if i hange around with a bitch).. and i have never found a reason to treat a women badly ... even if they are oviuosly useing me ..and abussing my willing ness to help them .... Am I spinless NO .. It just that i like girls with more balls then me !. Then they will back me up if i need it.And yes i have an oppinion ... but generaly they are not interested in it.... and it was not too important to me anyway.... I am more interest in the who this women i am with ,then in any thing that I may want ...except for what the two of use can do to gether.
THe drugs the booze the parties have never appealed to me .. it just one one one that i like ..Oh maybe an orgy .. or gang bang every noe and then ( good luck at that .....
Pussy ..pussy ...pussy ... THere I said for you all .. But push me tofar and i can be an bad asshole... for a monent..
.. Nice guy who just lost a good bitch( Lady)
Oh I scored a ..24..... just a little less the good... But then on a teslike that you can be as bad as you want.
That is my problem i am the proverbiale nice guy I respect ladys ..and bitches ( thats is if i hange around with a bitch).. and i have never found a reason to treat a women badly ... even if they are oviuosly useing me ..and abussing my willing ness to help them .... Am I spinless NO .. It just that i like girls with more balls then me !. Then they will back me up if i need it.And yes i have an oppinion ... but generaly they are not interested in it.... and it was not too important to me anyway.... I am more interest in the who this women i am with ,then in any thing that I may want ...except for what the two of use can do to gether.
THe drugs the booze the parties have never appealed to me .. it just one one one that i like ..Oh maybe an orgy .. or gang bang every noe and then ( good luck at that .....
Pussy ..pussy ...pussy ... THere I said for you all .. But push me tofar and i can be an bad asshole... for a monent..
.. Nice guy who just lost a good bitch( Lady)
Oh I scored a ..24..... just a little less the good... But then on a teslike that you can be as bad as you want.
"I keep reading about women being attracted to certain guys because they want a challenge. I don't get that. Why does a relationship have to be a challenge? What's wrong with simply enjoying one's company, regardless of its excitement level?"
Because imo relationships are the "sport" of choice for a woman.
To go out there, dance a certain way, dress a certain way, act a certain way, continuallly test us - women need it to be stimulating, they need to feel that they have overcome, that they have "won".
Men we like to play hockey.
Women like to play with men.
You just have to learn how to play better than them.
And yes I have had my nose bloodied many times.
Because imo relationships are the "sport" of choice for a woman.
To go out there, dance a certain way, dress a certain way, act a certain way, continuallly test us - women need it to be stimulating, they need to feel that they have overcome, that they have "won".
Men we like to play hockey.
Women like to play with men.
You just have to learn how to play better than them.
And yes I have had my nose bloodied many times.
I disagree about Nice Guys Finish Last. Some women prefer bad boys and others prefer intellectual and classy type gentlemen who can charm the panties off any horny women.
I've always wanted to go up to some female stranger and say, "hey, you look great. Can you show me your tits?", or "hey, do you like to swallow? Just curious.", or "hey, do you take it up the ass? I just wanna know."
Its the maternal instinct coming out. Women, I'm generalizing here since I realize there are exceptions*, are far more nurturing then men and thats why some of them are always looking to find a man they can "fix". Problem with that is the man doesn't think he's broken.wolverine said:
*this is by no means a slight or insult but I don't see Very Veronica being all that motherly......yes to giving out spankings to us naughty boys but no to attending a PTA meeting
I can say that I've never abused or mistreated a woman but when the relationship is out of synch and its clear (at least to me) that its over I'll pull the pin and end it ASAP. No long drawn out drama and bullshit about will you change, will I change, men are from mars women suck the penis (sorry but I have a fairly cynical view of john gray and all similar asshole) its simply over. I have no further interest in being her friend, don't wish her any ill will (other then my one purely evil ex but thats another thread) I just want to move on. IMO too many people get caught up in trying to be "nice" when relationships end. Its over, hit the "change of venue" button and get on with life.maxx50 said:
So in the spectrum of bad boy to intellectual and classy type gentleman where does randy wop reside?hornyitalian06 said:
I've never asked a woman that but the last time I took the ferry to the island I went into the little kiosk area and while waiting for my latte was eying up another customer who could best be described as looking like raw sex. I was totally zoned out and said "wow, I bet she likes it hard and wild" outloud vs.using my inner voice. She heard me and all I got was a little smirk.georgebushmoron said:
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