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BC_Boy

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How come so many people say that? Is it true that nice guys never get the girl? cause in my experience, i know tons of nice guys with plenty of hot girls.
 
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Funny, I`ve been thinking about this a lot lately.....

I even started a poll
 

gravitas

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Nice guys finish last.
You're running out of gas.
Your sympathy will get you left behind.
Sometimes you're at your best, when you feel the worst.
Do you feel washed up, like piss going down the drain

Pressure cooker pick my brain and tell me I'm insane.
I'm so fucking happy I could cry.
Every joke can have its truth and now the joke's on you.
I never knew you were such a funny guy.

Oh nice guys finish last, when you are the outcast.
Don't pat yourself on the back you might break your spine.

Living on command.
You're shaking lots of hands.
Kissing up and bleeding all your trust, taking what you need.
Bite the hand that feeds.
You lose your memory and you got no shame.

Avarice said:
who protect the sheep
<img src='http://img.villagephotos.com/p/2004-4/688404/Sheep_Herd.gif' >
tough job!
 

chilli

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I think women go after bad boys for the same reason men go after bad girls - to have fun and get laid.

I find "nice" girls boring on dates.

Nice girls usually lay down a "list" of rules, of do's and dont's... it's annoying as hell.

So not my cup of tea. I imagine women would feel the same about "nice" guys.
 

LonelyGhost

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i think its less about 'nice/bad' and more 'power/less' for men being
attractive to women ... powerful men are always more attractive
to women than guys who are powerless ...

but with women, both 'good' and 'bad' girls use sex as power ...
they just express it differently ... bad girls give you sex to keep
you coming back, while nice girls promise sex to keep you coming back.
 

hitrack

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hitrack

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Avarice said:
I really, really love your sig. I can't stop looking at it. Especially as it rains. The bird is like 'Hey, whadda want me to do? It's RAININ!'
save yourself a copy. Just right click on it.
 

georgebushmoron

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Nice guys get one girl. Not-so-nice guys get more than one girl.

The reason why many girls like the bad boys is because girls for the most part feel constricted to within strict behavioural norms: they just can't do and look the way they really want because society has laid down firm rules on this, and women will comply with this because compliance is instinctual to a woman. When they see a bad boy, they think that he is not constricted to conservative social norms of any sort.... thus his bad behaviour. To hook up with him frees her too. Also bad boys have a fake self-confidence because they think they can do whatever they want (until they find out otherwise), and this self-confidence is also very appealing to women because they so lack it.

Lastly, "nice" guys tend to irk women because women think they are trying too hard to appease them. A woman chooses a guy based on his merits and personality (according to her), but the act of appeasement prevents her from being able to judge him. After all, no normal woman wants to be dating her shadow.

I've said this before in other threads on the same issue: just focus on making yourself the best you can be for yourself and don't give a fuck what the women think. Eventually a woman will be attracted to the confidence that is brought about by this. It is not hard muscles nor handsome face that a woman finds sexy, it's confidence.... and that confidence is shown in a man's stride, his eyes, the way he touches her, the way he bangs the hell out of her in bed, etc. This exudes confidence as well as power, and these are things women lack so they find it sexy.
 

twoblues

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Hmm...I am a 23, "Mr. In Between" which actually describes me quite well. I treat my ladies with respect and cherish them outside the bedroom, but in the bedroom I am a real naughty boy*.

As for nice guys finishing last, well, that's true. When I finish, sex is over ;)

*This being the internet, I can make any claim I wish**
**But I am really quite good***
*** see *.
 

hornyitalian06

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I disagree with that saying "Nice Guys Finish Last". You have to look at the women you are meeting.
You to have standards and she should meet them or look else. There are plenty fish in the ocean.
I have certain requirements of a SP, especially when I am meeting her for the first time. Usually, I will research for any previous reviews on a SP prior to meeting her.
 

DJLAW

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nice guys dont finish last. the get the left overs when the girls are tired of fucking the bad boys. we laugh last.
 

PeterLongwood

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And they've done all the breaking in.

DJLAW said:
nice guys dont finish last. the get the left overs when the girls are tired of fucking the bad boys. we laugh last.
I once dated a very hot chick who was tired of the bad boys. We'd been going out for a month when she said to me: "You know, there are 3 types of sex, oral, genital and.........anal." She taught me all about the pleasures of the back door. Thank you to the bad boy who got her to try it (and love it) in the first place!

PLW
 

BC_Boy

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my viewpoint is that if you're nice and only nice, of course you'll finish last. It'll happen in every part of life, not just girls; successful businessmen did not become so by being Mr. Nice Guy.

But a nice guy combined with confidence, humor, power, dominance won't finish last.
 

hornyitalian06

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BC_Boy said:
my viewpoint is that if you're nice and only nice, of course you'll finish last. It'll happen in every part of life, not just girls; successful businessmen did not become so by being Mr. Nice Guy.

But a nice guy combined with confidence, humor, power, dominance won't finish last.
I disagree with you BC_Boy. I am very successful bussinessman and a very nice guy. You could say I am alot like the Sopranos and I'm in the waste business. I am really a very nice guy but if you piss me off and I recommend you watch your back;) .
 

chilli

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I honestly think men as a general rule are mislead about what women really want.

1) Don't listen to what a woman says she wants, I don't think they mean to lie - it's they just don't want to be treated like crap - so they say the "nice guy" thing.

- this is very good advice for your whole relationship - never listen to her - just act like you are, say yah a lot. Nod your head. Smile. Women are most happy when they get to plan "your life together" and chatter. - let them.

2) Date 2-3 women at a time.

3) Don't email her, don't msn her.

4) The first date - be cool - stimulate them mentally - have fun and relax. Studies show the average woman needs 9-11 hours to be comfortable enough with you. So relax. Do not compliment her or bring flowers or any of that other stupid stuff.

5) After the first date - this is the crucial time - don't call her, don't email her, don't msn her - wait for 3-5 days.

You don't have to be a "bad" boy - just make her work a little bit.
 
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