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JasonG

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Hi folks. This is going to be an awkward post but I thought I might as well go for it.

I am a newbie to this forum. I have tried escorts just a couple of times in life and it was within the last 6 months. My problem is that I finish too fast. On both my visits I lasted less than 10 mins on both hh appointments. So I seek more foreplay (which I really enjoy) in order to at least complete the hh of the appointment. In both appointments I asked the girls specifically about foreplay and role play etc. They agreed on text but when I got there they just wanted to finish me off asap. This was before I joined this forum, so I know to do my due diligence before booking.

The advice I am after if you know of any good sp who is really good at foreplay I would be thankful. I don't care if she is tight or not as I might not even reach that point. Ok the awkwardness ends here.....
 
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OldBuck

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most of us would need to know more in order to help. There is a drug, but that might be a lest resort. How old are you and where are you finding these women and what criteria do you use in selection?
 
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Well if you enjoy foreplay you probably have to choose true gfe providers and not girls on bp who want you in and out.
 
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JasonG

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I am 32. I found both girls on backpage. I went for the girls with medium rate (around 140-160hh).
 
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Jethro Bodine

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Beverly Hills. In the Kitchen eatin' vittles.
Have you tried thinking about baseball or picturing your Grandma in sexy underwear?

Just kidding. Once you are on here for a while you'll grow to appreciate my humour.

Old Buck's comments are all good.
That said if you are looking for a local lady who enjoy's foreplay, usually the more mature/sexually experienced providers recognise the importance of and love foreplay.
Felina would be at the top of my list.
Daria and Tiffany also come to mind.
I'm sure there are some others the boys can recommend.

Cheers
 
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JasonG

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Thanks for the replies so far, all very helpful. My problem is I am in to younger women 20-25 and into foreplay, it seems a hard combo to get.
 
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golferjohn

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If you're willing to put in the time and discipline, you can train yourself to last as long as you wish. The first step is to find you PONR, (point of no return) and practice just reaching it and then backing-off. Do this over and over until it's mastered, (yes, this is done solo unless you can find a willing 'trainer') and when you feel you have this part under control, you can do an exercise called 'edging'...essentially finding that place where you can continue with stimulation right before orgasm and ride that 'edge'. Practice with and without condoms. Good luck!
 
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OldBuck

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You and I are out of date, Jethro this probably a 'millennial' guy and would have his smart phone. He should play the speeches or politicians during the act. Pick one. Harper? He could also consider online comics. My first choice would be the 98 year old lady stand up.
You and I may have thought about the Queen to slow things down. But I am enough now and was young enough horny enough in the days when she was a Princess to have thought she was just a bit hot.

Yes, your recommends are good. May be he should say away from backpage and go to escorts-canada.
 
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johnnydepth

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golferjohn said:
If you're willing to put in the time and discipline, you can train yourself to last as long as you wish. The first step is to find you PONR, (point of no return) and practice just reaching it and then backing-off. Do this over and over until it's mastered, (yes, this is done solo unless you can find a willing 'trainer') and when you feel you have this part under control, you can do an exercise called 'edging'...essentially finding that place where you can continue with stimulation right before orgasm and ride that 'edge'. Practice with and without condoms. Good luck!
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Great advice. For less sensitivity you can also stay clear of ultrathin condoms. Have a drink before your session. You can also masturbate before your session. Second one out of the gate typically takes longer (at least for me). Sometimes it is also about finding the right partner.

The end of the day the important thing is that you enjoy yourself. Also do yourself a favor and read some of the stats on this subject. Real life is not porn and you will probably be really surprised to see what realistic numbers are for time before orgasm.
 
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IBwell

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Are you looking for just foreplay on you? Or you working on her as well?

If you are just trying to extend what is currently a less than 10 minute BJ to say 25-30 minutes, there are some options. First off you need to find the right provider, treat a well reviewed travelling SP with respect and she'll probably do just about anything you like. As for the act itself, I would try and insert little breaks in the process to delay the inevitable. Changing postions, standing to sitting, bed to chair, anything. If you get really lucky, you may get a girl that would lie on her back with her head off the bed. One of my favourite moves with gf's when I was around your age if I was sitting and got too close was just to lean forward and pull her up for a deep kiss. Come to think of that, I guess I do that with escorts too, but it's not to delay my orgasm.

Anyway, another option (and I can't believe I'm about to recommend this) is ask to be covered for say the first 15-20 minutes, then bbbj after that. That might work.

Good luck.
 
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golferjohn said:
If you're willing to put in the time and discipline, you can train yourself to last as long as you wish. The first step is to find you PONR, (point of no return) and practice just reaching it and then backing-off. Do this over and over until it's mastered, (yes, this is done solo unless you can find a willing 'trainer') and when you feel you have this part under control, you can do an exercise called 'edging'...essentially finding that place where you can continue with stimulation right before orgasm and ride that 'edge'. Practice with and without condoms. Good luck!
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Great advise. After reading this it reminded me of my times with Nicole from Broadway's. She would take me right to the edge and then back off over and over again. I could last forever with her. My ATF SP and experiences!
 
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JasonG

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Fantastic folks! I think I have enough info to start practicing the techniques you have recommended. I'll look at escort-Canada as well for my exit visit. Kudos!
 
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voland

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Regarding physical training:
IMHO the advice about mastering "point of no return" is the best one. Also, try to keep your body in good shape. Jogging or any kind of sports activities will help here.

If you're willing to put in the time and discipline, you can train yourself to last as long as you wish. The first step is to find you PONR, (point of no return) and practice just reaching it and then backing-off. Do this over and over until it's mastered, (yes, this is done solo unless you can find a willing 'trainer') and when you feel you have this part under control, you can do an exercise called 'edging'...essentially finding that place where you can continue with stimulation right before orgasm and ride that 'edge'. Practice with and without condoms. Good luck!
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Regarding mental training:
I would recommend not to masturbate while watching porn.
The porn sets too high expectations and its picture is far from reality and in real life, you can be "disappointed".
Try to masturbate with your imagination. You will train the mental-physical connection and stay closer to the real world.
 
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voland

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The idea is not mine and it is coming from many resources.
Googling “porn set high expectation” shows you about 1,400,000 results.
And also IMHO porn is one of the reasons why this thread was created.


For example, check out question which was asked here - https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20110929090645AAA7Y8n


Did watching Porn set my expectations too high?
Its hard for me to be aroused by regular sex. Does porn ruin mens perceptions of reality. Well, my reality at least

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The simple answer is, yes, it probably did.

Porn is completely unromantic and unrealistic. Watching porn regularly can make you expect too much of a normal woman/man too and can make your sex life very stale and unromantic too. It can also make you lose all sexual connection with a person if your porn addiction is pretty bad.

If porn was the means of your arousal for so long, just seeing a normal naked woman/man will not be enough anymore and this really isn't fair on your sexual partners, especially if she is your wife, girlfriend, husband, boyfriend etc etc.

The best advice I can offer you is to stop watching porn, all together if you can manage it, or keep to a minimum at the very least. The longer you leave it, the more excitable you will be at the sight of something real.

If you are married or are in a relationship, pay more attention to your partner, and try new things, spice things up a bit, you can find advice on how to do this all over the internet. But still, keeping porn out of this!
Source(s): I am a sex adviser to married couples...
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